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I lost my Mom on july 14th 1988, the same day my son was born. My son is now 21 and I still feel like it was just yesterday that she paseed. Mom had a heart attack. I did get to see her that day, I was on bed rest for bleeding and she came to visit me. We had a wonderful visit and she could tell how uncomfortable I was. Mom rubbed my belly, rubbed the babys' crib sheet, as the room was already and waiting for his arrival. When she hugged me goodbye she said I love you and you will deliver a baby boy tommorrow(we did not know the sex of the baby). I hugged and kissed my mother and we both said I love you to each other, it was weird I felt like she was saying goodbye to me forever. When my husband came home from work I told him how I felt, he told me not to worry and rubbed my belly. Three hours later as we were getting ready for bed my brother called and talked to my husband and said to come to the hospital. Mom was gone when I got there. I went into labor 4 hours later and had the little boy she rubbed. She would have loved my son, he has so much of her in him. I miss her all the time so who ever said time heals was so so wrong. Would love some feed back!
I lost my Mom on july 14th 1988, the same day my son was born. My son is now 21 and I still feel like it was just yesterday that she paseed. Mom had a heart attack. I did get to see her that day, I was on bed rest for bleeding and she came to visit me. We had a wonderful visit and she could tell how uncomfortable I was. Mom rubbed my belly, rubbed the babys' crib sheet, as the room was already and waiting for his arrival. When she hugged me goodbye she said I love you and you will deliver a baby boy tommorrow(we did not know the sex of the baby). I hugged and kissed my mother and we both said I love you to each other, it was weird I felt like she was saying goodbye to me forever. When my husband came home from work I told him how I felt, he told me not to worry and rubbed my belly. Three hours later as we were getting ready for bed my brother called and talked to my husband and said to come to the hospital. Mom was gone when I got there. I went into labor 4 hours later and had the little boy she rubbed. She would have loved my son, he has so much of her in him. I miss her all the time so who ever said time heals was so so wrong. Would love some feed back!
MY MOM WENT TO HEAVEN FEB 24 2008.SHE WAS FINE AND HEALTHY AND WENT TO SLEEP ON SAT NITE AND NEVER WOKE UP.SHE WAS YOUNG(60).TO YOUNG FOR THIS.SHE RAISED US TO BELEIVE WHEN ITS YOUR TIME, ITS YOUR TIME.GOD IS READY FOR YOU.SO I DONT QUESTION THIS OR ELSE I FEEL IAM NOT HONORING MY MOM.BUT THE PAIN I FEEL IN MY HEART IS SO OVERWHELMING SOMETIMES I FEEL LIKE I CANT TAKE A BREATH.I STILL KNOW EXACTLEY HOW MANY DAYS ITS BEEN SINCE SHE WENT TO HEAVEN.IT JUST DOSENT GET EASIER.
I can really relate to EVERYTHING you wrote. Some days are harder than others. I think it is great that you are in grief counseling. It just takes time for the pain to subside. Having lost both parents in so short a time makes it doubly difficult. When I lost my mom, my children realized that if my mother could die, so could theirs. It has made us even closer than before. They have been so supportive and they are grieving right alongside me. Not wanting them to suffer the same way has made me have conversations with them about what to do when I die. I am their only remaining parent so they will have to take care of everything. I have a will but I also wrote out EXACTLY what they will need to do. I went over it with them and put the paper in a place they will be able to access it. For Mother's Day my daughter bought a frame that holds three pictures and put in pictures of my mom, me and her. It is a lovely tribute to my mom and her legacy.
Kathy Ledford said:I lost my mother in August of 2008. This was the first Mother's Day without her and I had a very hard time. I cried all day and when I went to the cemetary to take her flowers it just broke my heart. I also put a note on a balloon and released it at the graveside. Now June is coming up and Father's Day. I lost my dad 43 days after my mom. I just pray that this time of year will be easier to cope with as time passes. I just wanted to see her and talk to her and hug her and tell her how much I love and miss her. That is what I did in my note that I sent up with the balloon. I don't think I have ever felt such heartache and grief. I don't know if I will ever be able to get over this. I know life has to go on but it hurts so much. I am going to grief counseling and it is helping some but there are just days that it is almost unbearable. There is no love like a mother's love and when that is gone it really does have an effect on everything in your life. I pray for God to give me the peace in my heart that I can go on with my life.. I have my children and grandchildren and it breaks my heart to know that one day they will have to suffer this pain. Please pray for me that I can grow to accept this loss and maybe if I can help someone else who has lost their mom or dad, that would help me deal with my loss.
mommasgirl said:I can really relate to EVERYTHING you wrote. Some days are harder than others. I think it is great that you are in grief counseling. It just takes time for the pain to subside. Having lost both parents in so short a time makes it doubly difficult. When I lost my mom, my children realized that if my mother could die, so could theirs. It has made us even closer than before. They have been so supportive and they are grieving right alongside me. Not wanting them to suffer the same way has made me have conversations with them about what to do when I die. I am their only remaining parent so they will have to take care of everything. I have a will but I also wrote out EXACTLY what they will need to do. I went over it with them and put the paper in a place they will be able to access it. For Mother's Day my daughter bought a frame that holds three pictures and put in pictures of my mom, me and her. It is a lovely tribute to my mom and her legacy.
Kathy Ledford said:I lost my mother in August of 2008. This was the first Mother's Day without her and I had a very hard time. I cried all day and when I went to the cemetary to take her flowers it just broke my heart. I also put a note on a balloon and released it at the graveside. Now June is coming up and Father's Day. I lost my dad 43 days after my mom. I just pray that this time of year will be easier to cope with as time passes. I just wanted to see her and talk to her and hug her and tell her how much I love and miss her. That is what I did in my note that I sent up with the balloon. I don't think I have ever felt such heartache and grief. I don't know if I will ever be able to get over this. I know life has to go on but it hurts so much. I am going to grief counseling and it is helping some but there are just days that it is almost unbearable. There is no love like a mother's love and when that is gone it really does have an effect on everything in your life. I pray for God to give me the peace in my heart that I can go on with my life.. I have my children and grandchildren and it breaks my heart to know that one day they will have to suffer this pain. Please pray for me that I can grow to accept this loss and maybe if I can help someone else who has lost their mom or dad, that would help me deal with my loss.
I lost both of my parent in 2006. My father in March and my Mother 10 days before my birthday in December. I havent grieved in 3 years. And now i cant even function around people. I am on medical leave because i have a hard time dealing with everyday life. I feel lost and i dont know how to deal with not having them around. I just turned 37 years old a couple of weeks ago. And a lot of my friends dont understand what i am going through and think I should just get on with things. I dont know what to say to make them understand. I am stuck. I have a 15 year old son who is my reason for everything and i take very good care of. But leaving my house is a struggle every day. Doing normal things is a struggle for me. I feel alone and lost. I have a strong faith in GOD. But dealing with this on my own is not the easiest thing I have ever had to do.
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