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Lisa and Christine, I am proud for you that you are thinking with hope. We didn't choice this, it was handed to us and what is the saying, "when life hands you lemons, make lemonaide". I personally think it makes sense to try to think like our partner would have thought about us in this situation. They would want you to have whatever you need to have a full life. Think about how you would feel about them if the situation was reversed. (Besides they are not in the physical but spiritual realm so it is different.) If that includes another partner then I for one feel they would be right there cheering you on. I am not there yet and may never be but I am 60 and at 35 and 44 I honestly believe I would have been more open to another relationship. Maybe still, who knows. I say if God wants me in another relationship he will make him so appealing that I will not be able to say no, just like it was with Tom. I was divorced for 12 years and never wanted to marry guys I dated but married Tom in 9 months. Wow, a miracle in itself. I believe it honors what we have to want to have it again in some way.
Lisa, your sis is just talking. Good grief, what does she know? If you would hook up with someone that made you smile again, she would probably be begging to meet him. People just open their mouth and say stupid things sometimes. I think our loved one are concerned that in our grief we will get the wrong one and maybe even someone that will hurt us in some way. Who knows, but I am proud of both of you if that means anything coming from an ol broad. Gigs suep
Sue,
It means allot to hear someone say that. I am not sure about Christine but my family is very closed minded about these things. I still miss Bruno and always will and people just don't understand that I guess.
But thank you for your kind words.
sue said:Lisa and Christine, I am proud for you that you are thinking with hope. We didn't choice this, it was handed to us and what is the saying, "when life hands you lemons, make lemonaide". I personally think it makes sense to try to think like our partner would have thought about us in this situation. They would want you to have whatever you need to have a full life. Think about how you would feel about them if the situation was reversed. (Besides they are not in the physical but spiritual realm so it is different.) If that includes another partner then I for one feel they would be right there cheering you on. I am not there yet and may never be but I am 60 and at 35 and 44 I honestly believe I would have been more open to another relationship. Maybe still, who knows. I say if God wants me in another relationship he will make him so appealing that I will not be able to say no, just like it was with Tom. I was divorced for 12 years and never wanted to marry guys I dated but married Tom in 9 months. Wow, a miracle in itself. I believe it honors what we have to want to have it again in some way.
Lisa, your sis is just talking. Good grief, what does she know? If you would hook up with someone that made you smile again, she would probably be begging to meet him. People just open their mouth and say stupid things sometimes. I think our loved one are concerned that in our grief we will get the wrong one and maybe even someone that will hurt us in some way. Who knows, but I am proud of both of you if that means anything coming from an ol broad. Gigs suep
Lisa, honestly I dont know. My family only met her once cause they live in South Florida, but I think they would be for it. I am closer to annette's family cause they are here and I spent so much time with them. I really dont know what they would say, I think I would be too scared to be seen with anyone even if I was ready, which I am not. But, its weird, cause legally, we werent married.. not for lack of wanting, just not allowed to, so, some people dont see it as a marriage like we did and probably dont see anything wrong with moving on. In our eyes, we were as married as any of the traditional marriages and there was no difference in how we lived either.. Its all the same. I miss her like crazy and it still hurts like hell.
Lisa said:Sue,
It means allot to hear someone say that. I am not sure about Christine but my family is very closed minded about these things. I still miss Bruno and always will and people just don't understand that I guess.
But thank you for your kind words.
sue said:Lisa and Christine, I am proud for you that you are thinking with hope. We didn't choice this, it was handed to us and what is the saying, "when life hands you lemons, make lemonaide". I personally think it makes sense to try to think like our partner would have thought about us in this situation. They would want you to have whatever you need to have a full life. Think about how you would feel about them if the situation was reversed. (Besides they are not in the physical but spiritual realm so it is different.) If that includes another partner then I for one feel they would be right there cheering you on. I am not there yet and may never be but I am 60 and at 35 and 44 I honestly believe I would have been more open to another relationship. Maybe still, who knows. I say if God wants me in another relationship he will make him so appealing that I will not be able to say no, just like it was with Tom. I was divorced for 12 years and never wanted to marry guys I dated but married Tom in 9 months. Wow, a miracle in itself. I believe it honors what we have to want to have it again in some way.
Lisa, your sis is just talking. Good grief, what does she know? If you would hook up with someone that made you smile again, she would probably be begging to meet him. People just open their mouth and say stupid things sometimes. I think our loved one are concerned that in our grief we will get the wrong one and maybe even someone that will hurt us in some way. Who knows, but I am proud of both of you if that means anything coming from an ol broad. Gigs suep
Lisa, You said a helluva mouthful. Thank you for expressing it. It’s over 2 years and no one could ever say that this Love between Robert and me is not real or worthwhile. I have been hurting for so long, it is all I know at this point in my life. I am lost and without direction or reason. When it comes to who we Love, we can’t control it. Look at My Beautiful Love. Laws are created and interpreted by man, for only very small, particular, phrases in the bible – the ones man wants to control. Thank you for seeing things as they truly are. Also, the Memories section in Bruno’s memorial website has the lyrics from Reba’s song, If I Had Only Known, which is one of my dedication songs to Robert, My Life’s Love. It is on His memorial website too. Barry
einars here hello all this is just so horrible i thought i had things figured out but ive been sitting on the balcony all afternoon listening to our favorite music and crying about marilyns death how long does this go on does anyone have any answers
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