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Permalink Reply by Jesus on January 25, 2010 at 5:45am

Quinn said:

I have never believed in supernatural things.
Last Monday my girlfriend and best friend in the world was found dead. We were together for 10 years. Yesterday was the first time I was able to eat. Last night I joined a suicide support group and did some reading on other peoples situation. I read about peoples stories of lost ones. Some people talked about people having there loved ones come to them in a dream. I dismissed this as having a dream about there loved one, but last night was the first time I was able to sleep after her passing 5 days ago. I was having a dream and the strangest thing happened. While my dream was occuring, she drifted in, sobbing in a way that seemed she was so sorry for what she did and regretted it very much. As she came closer in my dream, it all of the sudden seemed so real. She layed down next to me and held my left hand. It felt so real, and for a few seconds, she was with me, holding hands again. It was as if she came to me one more time to say she regretted what she did. I woke up crying and sat up. I got up and went over the dream in my head over and over so I wouldnt forget it by morning time. The dream didnt feel real, but her being with me one more time did. It made me feel so good. It has helped me alot.
I havent told anyone, but I really believe she came to me last night.

Hello Quinn. I am sure it will happen again. It happens to me very often. I am working in lucid dreaming. It's hard, but I am achieving some progress. Try this way. It's helping me a lot.

Permalink Reply by Lucille on January 27, 2010 at 12:32pm

I lost my ex, my daughters father on December 3rd, 2009, to a horrible tragic car accident. About 2 weeks after the accident, I dreamt of him wanting to talk to me. In this dream I knew he was deceased and I asked him why would he want to talk to me? He said he wanted me to tell his mother that he was with his father who passed away 6 yrs ago, and to tell his daughter he loved her very much and to tell his mother that he was with his friends and family and that he was sorry that he had to go out this way! It was a short dream but I remember every word he said in which I never remember my dreams... He was there with others whom I did not see, but some guy kept telling him come on John, we have to go, you are not suppose to be here! This guy told him twice and he said to me that he had to go and give him a hug, we hugged and said we loved each other, then he was gone! Right when I said I loved him and was hugging him I woke up saying the words! Since then I have never dreamt of him and I did tell his mother what I dreamt and our daughter, in which was so strange to both of them! There was more to this dream, but it's too long to go into....
I hope this brings some peace to some of you people, as now I believe in life after death, that they are ok....

Permalink Reply by Sherilyn on January 29, 2010 at 8:00pm

The dream will happen when you least expect it. And when it does, you know, it's a different feeling...unlike your regular dreams. It's a heavenly feeling, and you remember every moment of it. You feel it, it's warmth, it's love.....

Melinda said:

Hello. I have had a lot of death over the last year. And of all deaths, i would love to have some sign from my father. I pray and wait and wait for some type of sign he is okay. I do know deep down in my heart that he is okay but i would love a sign. My nephew committed suicide September of 2008. I think or felt that i did receive a sign from him. But i want something from my dad. My aunt told me that i will not receive anything from my dad because he knows i am okay. But i am not okay. I am hanging on by a thread everyday. I would take even a dream would be nice. Continuing to wait..........

Permalink Reply by amaryllis on January 29, 2010 at 10:13pm

Hi Melinda, the same happened to me - i have seen many departures. All started in 2008 when in a short period of time three loved ones were gone, two of them unexpectedly. The signs from them started coming and with all my heart i wish the same will happen to you, Melinda - wish you will get a message, a sign, or a dream from your beloved dad. Much love and God bless you. xx

Sherilyn Sowell said:

The dream will happen when you least expect it. And when it does, you know, it's a different feeling...unlike your regular dreams. It's a heavenly feeling, and you remember every moment of it. You feel it, it's warmth, it's love.....

Melinda said:

Hello. I have had a lot of death over the last year. And of all deaths, i would love to have some sign from my father. I pray and wait and wait for some type of sign he is okay. I do know deep down in my heart that he is okay but i would love a sign. My nephew committed suicide September of 2008. I think or felt that i did receive a sign from him. But i want something from my dad. My aunt told me that i will not receive anything from my dad because he knows i am okay. But i am not okay. I am hanging on by a thread everyday. I would take even a dream would be nice. Continuing to wait..........

Permalink Reply by amaryllis on January 29, 2010 at 10:25pm

Hi Sherilyn Sowell, you are so right - the way you say it is exactly the way I feel when one of my three loved ones come to visit me in a dream. All over me, all over my being i feel the warmness and the love. God bless you. xx

Permalink Reply by Gram on January 30, 2010 at 6:15am

Melinda, I have often thought in the past that I may have received little hints or messages from loved ones who had passed away so after my husband of 38 yrs passed away this year I thought for sure I would get lots of messages that would be very clear. I went a long time and mentioned this to many people. Most that believe in messages said that since he is now at peace he didnt have to. Although we do have a way of seeing ladybugs at weird times that make us think he is sending something.
Your Dad may be still in his role of being a dad and not wanting you to just hang on waiting for signs from him. He may be trying to have you move on. Although this is such a difficult time for you try to accept that he is at peace and wants you to gain strength. I do believe he is watching you in his own way.
Melinda said:

Hello. I have had a lot of death over the last year. And of all deaths, i would love to have some sign from my father. I pray and wait and wait for some type of sign he is okay. I do know deep down in my heart that he is okay but i would love a sign. My nephew committed suicide September of 2008. I think or felt that i did receive a sign from him. But i want something from my dad. My aunt told me that i will not receive anything from my dad because he knows i am okay. But i am not okay. I am hanging on by a thread everyday. I would take even a dream would be nice. Continuing to wait..........

Permalink Reply by day day on February 5, 2010 at 4:06pm

when my fiance died the first night , i kept looking and it was dark i was in his moms house which is a non smoking apt. i kept talking to him and i saw this ring of smoke. about a month later bawling and crying i was in bed at my moms house and begged god to let him send me a sign, all night i cried and cried. the next night i,still crying, looked around tying to see a sign and i saw the ring of smoke, but wasnt convinced, i said out loud i love you, and just then the light bulb blew out. i was so happy and i called his mom , she was happy to hear i wasnt my usual mess. of course the next day i went back to being the mess that ive become with out him. i get sad that we always said wed haunt eachother and he doesnt seem to be .i always say if youre here bang or knock this over and i get myself all upset even more thatn i am.

Permalink Reply by Karen ~ Kenny's Mom on February 6, 2010 at 12:57pm

on April 18th. 2008 suddenly on a sunny spring Friday. Kenny grew into this strong tall funny, hard working,lovable man.
2006 he hurt his back @ work a certified heavy equipment operations, Had surgery in Feb 2007 artificial disc replacement low back. He had a place of his own in the woods everything he always wanted, a german shepherd, home & now a baby on the way.
2007 feb. surgery,June married,10/4/2007 new son Ethan.
Things were not simple with a new wife/baby. 2007 Christmas Wow what a blessing all of the family that watched Kenny grow up were present.
Who knew this would be his last visit with important people in his life.
Winter a bit bumpy for him but totally in love with his son. It was always the Kenny & Ethan show. Ethan was 6 1/2 months old when his daddy & my son died. There are mixed stories from his widow,
The sum of all of the stories : they were fighting and awake most of the night. Sometime ~ 11AM Kenny & Ethan went up for a nap, Sometime~ 3ish She went up stairs because Ethan was crying. Finding her husband and my son DEAD! who knows how long he had been dead but EMS could not resuscitate him! 5p.m.
I/kennys mom I was the last one called on arrival @ his house to lots of cars & police lots of police! I will never forget seeing my baby!
He looked like the last thing Kenny did was he kissed BABY ETHAN & told him I love you
I did not see any pain on my babies face, but daily I hope & pray he is ok
I pray Kenny is where I will meet him again to see his huge smile! and feel his warm hugs.
Not sure If I have truly had a sign or a visit. I believe I've had a visit or 2 in the last 22 months. i cant b'lieve its 2 years in April 18th.
Please let me know of any ghost whisperer?????

Permalink Reply by white dove on February 8, 2010 at 8:14am

Dear Kenny's mom.. I am so sorry for your loss of your son~ and i pray there comes alot of closure for u! Some circumstances can be extremely difficult to ever feel comfortable about right? Many here have waited for a sign from our beloveds. I don't know of your beliefs, but prayer does help much in opening the channels needed for us. It's a certain state of mine we must have to let them "come through" to us. Calm, quiet, aware, of all~ the way in which my mom has shown me is, she has come to me in which the way she lived. She loved flowers, during my deepest grief a flower would grow on my hybiscus tree with NO sunlight~ and believe this or not.. she also loved birds! a couple months after she left this earth, a beautiful white pigeon (now i believe it was a dove after researching) came to my front porch~~ i ran out to buy her some dove food, she sat just inches from me cocking her head as i talked. She stayed about a week. We also have an angel my daughter bought for my mom, on top of my stereo. Well, i really was searching at this point and i asked my mom, "if your still with us would u please uncross the legs on that little angel"? While i was Not watching.. the legs became uncrossed. I do believe they can pop "in and out" to visit us... time is no barrier. My prayers go out for you today dear one!

Kenny's Mom KarenMD said:

on April 18th. 2008 suddenly on a sunny spring Friday. Kenny grew into this strong tall funny, hard working,lovable man.
2006 he hurt his back @ work a certified heavy equipment operations, Had surgery in Feb 2007 artificial disc replacement low back. He had a place of his own in the woods everything he always wanted, a german shepherd, home & now a baby on the way.
2007 feb. surgery,June married,10/4/2007 new son Ethan.
Things were not simple with a new wife/baby. 2007 Christmas Wow what a blessing all of the family that watched Kenny grow up were present.
Who knew this would be his last visit with important people in his life.
Winter a bit bumpy for him but totally in love with his son. It was always the Kenny & Ethan show. Ethan was 6 1/2 months old when his daddy & my son died. There are mixed stories from his widow,
The sum of all of the stories : they were fighting and awake most of the night. Sometime ~ 11AM Kenny & Ethan went up for a nap, Sometime~ 3ish She went up stairs because Ethan was crying. Finding her husband and my son DEAD! who knows how long he had been dead but EMS could not resuscitate him! 5p.m.
I/kennys mom I was the last one called on arrival @ his house to lots of cars & police lots of police! I will never forget seeing my baby!
He looked like the last thing Kenny did was he kissed BABY ETHAN & told him I love you
I did not see any pain on my babies face, but daily I hope & pray he is ok
I pray Kenny is where I will meet him again to see his huge smile! and feel his warm hugs.
Not sure If I have truly had a sign or a visit. I believe I've had a visit or 2 in the last 22 months. i cant b'lieve its 2 years in April 18th.
Please let me know of any ghost whisperer?????

Permalink Reply by Judith A Davis on February 9, 2010 at 9:53pm

My son Sean took his own life the day before Mother's Day on May 12, 2007 after a fight with his wife. He took an overdose. He was 28. It was a beautiful Saturday morning and I was babysitting my grandson Ethan when the call came in. It is that dreadful call no parent wants to get. I was only told by the fire department that I needed to get to his house ASAP but was not told why. Somehow, I knew it was very bad. I arrived to find he was deceased and I stood outside of his home for 4 hours while they followed procedure and investigated his death. I was asked if I wanted some time with him before they took him away but was warned that he had been deceased for some time and it wasn't advisable. I followed their advice and told them I did not want to see him at that time as I wanted to remember him as I had last seen him and I would spend time with him after his body had been made presentable. We buried him the following Friday and after a couple of days I had some regrets that I did not take that time with him, to tell him goodbye, to give him that last kiss before they took him. In our family we always emphasized how important it was to hug and kiss each other every time we say goodbye because you never know when it will be your last and I was hurt that we did not get to do that. Within a week, I had a "visit" and I am SURE it was just that. When I woke I felt changed, like he had actually been here. During "the visit" he was sitting at my dining room table where he had sat just days before and I asked him if he knew how many people he had hurt by his choice to end his life. I was crying and extremely hurt. He never spoke, but he dropped his head as he always did when I scolded him. He got up to go to the front door to leave and I stopped him. I said, "Sean, can I have one more hug and one more kiss?" He did just that and when I woke up, I just knew he had really been here. The whole house felt different. It was such a peaceful feeling that I can not explain. I am sure it was not just a dream. Now he visits when I am awake and I know it is him. In one instance when he came, I heard little footsteps running up and down my hall. I have wood floors so it can not be mistaken. I was home alone and within a couple of hours a call came in that his two children were not being cared for and the state had become involved as his wife, a drug addict, had let them run the streets in very cold weather with no shoes or coats. Sean was the primary caregiver when he was alive. I believe it was him trying to tell me that his kids needed me. They now reside with their other grandmother who stays in close contact with me and I take them on alternate weekends and holidays. I miss my Sean so much! I always will but try to remain open to his visits and allow him to express himself so he can rest in peace.

Permalink Reply by white dove on February 9, 2010 at 10:42pm

Dear Judith, My sincere empathy for u. I have no doubt your son has visited you! I would like to address your regret at not taking the opportunity to say good bye. My mom was in a coma for 7 very long days on home hospice. This in itself was extremely devistating for us. The changes that took place during this is horrible time were extremely heart wrenching. Nightmares have come to us. Then her heart stopped~~ and the call was made to the hospice team and the funeral home. The funeral home was very busy that particuliar night. So, it took HOURS for them to finally get to us. In that time, when i didn't think it could possibly be any more heart breaking, it was. I felt it was rough during her coma but.... when a heart stops, other changes take place that will be etched in my heart and soul for ever. I would not wish this on anyone ever. To have to witness and view all the "steps". Please don't feel as if you made a mistake. It was meant to be that way for you. Peace be with you!

Judith A Davis said:

My son Sean took his own life the day before Mother's Day on May 12, 2007 after a fight with his wife. He took an overdose. He was 28. It was a beautiful Saturday morning and I was babysitting my grandson Ethan when the call came in. It is that dreadful call no parent wants to get. I was only told by the fire department that I needed to get to his house ASAP but was not told why. Somehow, I knew it was very bad. I arrived to find he was deceased and I stood outside of his home for 4 hours while they followed procedure and investigated his death. I was asked if I wanted some time with him before they took him away but was warned that he had been deceased for some time and it wasn't advisable. I followed their advice and told them I did not want to see him at that time as I wanted to remember him as I had last seen him and I would spend time with him after his body had been made presentable. We buried him the following Friday and after a couple of days I had some regrets that I did not take that time with him, to tell him goodbye, to give him that last kiss before they took him. In our family we always emphasized how important it was to hug and kiss each other every time we say goodbye because you never know when it will be your last and I was hurt that we did not get to do that. Within a week, I had a "visit" and I am SURE it was just that. When I woke I felt changed, like he had actually been here. During "the visit" he was sitting at my dining room table where he had sat just days before and I asked him if he knew how many people he had hurt by his choice to end his life. I was crying and extremely hurt. He never spoke, but he dropped his head as he always did when I scolded him. He got up to go to the front door to leave and I stopped him. I said, "Sean, can I have one more hug and one more kiss?" He did just that and when I woke up, I just knew he had really been here. The whole house felt different. It was such a peaceful feeling that I can not explain. I am sure it was not just a dream. Now he visits when I am awake and I know it is him. In one instance when he came, I heard little footsteps running up and down my hall. I have wood floors so it can not be mistaken. I was home alone and within a couple of hours a call came in that his two children were not being cared for and the state had become involved as his wife, a drug addict, had let them run the streets in very cold weather with no shoes or coats. Sean was the primary caregiver when he was alive. I believe it was him trying to tell me that his kids needed me. They now reside with their other grandmother who stays in close contact with me and I take them on alternate weekends and holidays. I miss my Sean so much! I always will but try to remain open to his visits and allow him to express himself so he can rest in peace.

Permalink Reply by angelina or i get called angie on February 10, 2010 at 8:30pm

since my dad died ive been to shows like derek acorah n sally morgan twice tryin to get a message but havent had 1 gonna try my local spiritulist church i think its been 3 yrs nearly my dad diedx

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