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hi everyone
just want to tell u not to worry if i dont post much any more.
i seem to be getting worse instead of better and feel it is not fair to keep on and on when you all want to get better and i just go on rambling about how wretched i am feeling...so if u dont see my posts dont worry....i might pop in now and then but not that often.
thanks all....btw christine...someone told me if we are down and negative the spirits find it hard to come round us...maybe that is our problem...oh well...
take care all of you...annalise (v proud wife of the late Mark Lapira)
I witnessed my husband's suicide approximately 1-1/2 years ago. We had gone through Katrina, lost everything we had, and he was just physically and mentally worn out. He was a rough tough cop who served the State of Louisiana for many years. But, the cancer had eaten his body up and the loss of his job and our home was too too much for him. He shot himself with his 357 in front of me. I watched the blood spill from his body as well as his last sigh of life leave him. Has anyone out there gone through something like this? Thanks for listening. I was his best friend and he remains mine.
Oh Ann, that was so unfair. I can't even imagine that experience. My husband passed May22, 08 of a brain anerism and just the shock of getting that call and rushing to the scene and all that followed almost killed me. I can't imagine what your emotions must be like. Did he have cancer also or were you describing the experience of Katrina etc? I can't imagine dealing with what you have had to deal with. My thoughts are with you and my prayers.
A friend of mine got a call from her only child, a son, and he told her he was going to kill himself. She rushed over there and heard the shots as she was coming up the walk. I know some of her emotions after this horrible experience but I have no way of knowing first hand. I am involved with an organization called, "my friend" which is a suicide awareness program. It derived from a friend who committed suicide. It was a shock and affected all of us. The last person in the world anyone would have considered a possibility. Suicide is so confusing. I will never understand it honestly. Take care of yourself Suep
sue said:Oh Ann, that was so unfair. I can't even imagine that experience. My husband passed May22, 08 of a brain anerism and just the shock of getting that call and rushing to the scene and all that followed almost killed me. I can't imagine what your emotions must be like. Did he have cancer also or were you describing the experience of Katrina etc? I can't imagine dealing with what you have had to deal with. My thoughts are with you and my prayers.
A friend of mine got a call from her only child, a son, and he told her he was going to kill himself. She rushed over there and heard the shots as she was coming up the walk. I know some of her emotions after this horrible experience but I have no way of knowing first hand. I am involved with an organization called, "my friend" which is a suicide awareness program. It derived from a friend who committed suicide. It was a shock and affected all of us. The last person in the world anyone would have considered a possibility. Suicide is so confusing. I will never understand it honestly. Take care of yourself Suep
I am the new kid on the block NO ONE wants to be on. I lost my wife right in my arms in our home on Sunday June 21. We had gotten married August 17th of last year. Now technically she was pronounced dead at the hospital at 11:45, but she really was gone at 10:40, even with all the work I, my stepson, the paramedics at the house and the doctors at the hospital did to try to get her back.
This week has been an unreal amount of emotion for me as there were times I was on auto pilot and in shock, there were times when I would think of or hear something and just start bawling. The site has been very helpful this week as I am reading a lot about what can happen during grief and loss. A lot of times I hear or read people say, especially to a guy that suffers a loss "stay strong" almost like sadness is not allowed for a man. If I can feel love, I can feel sadness and pain and cry like I was two again.
I hope any man who is in my position will be allowed to feel because we do! Please feel free to message me because I need a community to share with that understands me and what I am going through.
Steve, I am so sorry for the loss of your wife. All of us here understand completely every emotion that you have. Please continue to post here if you can. It doesnt ease the pain, but we are all going through the same nightmare of losing the love of our life and it is comforting knowing that we are not alone.
Christine
Steve Cain said:I am the new kid on the block NO ONE wants to be on. I lost my wife right in my arms in our home on Sunday June 21. We had gotten married August 17th of last year. Now technically she was pronounced dead at the hospital at 11:45, but she really was gone at 10:40, even with all the work I, my stepson, the paramedics at the house and the doctors at the hospital did to try to get her back.
This week has been an unreal amount of emotion for me as there were times I was on auto pilot and in shock, there were times when I would think of or hear something and just start bawling. The site has been very helpful this week as I am reading a lot about what can happen during grief and loss. A lot of times I hear or read people say, especially to a guy that suffers a loss "stay strong" almost like sadness is not allowed for a man. If I can feel love, I can feel sadness and pain and cry like I was two again.
I hope any man who is in my position will be allowed to feel because we do! Please feel free to message me because I need a community to share with that understands me and what I am going through.
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