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In pain, Barry, there is also healing and I think facing our fears, our pain is sometimes the best way to move forward. I am so sorry for the loss of your mom and your partner.
dear hearbrokenintexas, John 5:28, 29 and Isaiah 25:8 was a great help when I lost my grandmother. In the Bible God promises that we will see our dead loved ones again, not in the horrible world we live in now where they can get sick and suffer again, but in a world full of joy and happiness. Psalms 37:10, 11; Isaiah 33:24. I look forward to the day where I can hug her again. Jehovah God's promises helped me so much in dealing with my grief. I hope it helps you also. I will keep you in my prayers for the strengh to go on.
Jennifer
heartbrokenintexas said:
I'm praying for everyone.
My mom , husband & son all passed within a 4 year period. Both my son & husband passed quickly & unexpected.
It's almost 4 years since my son passed. It's still hard I miss them so much & want to be with them again. I fight the pain & tears daily. It's so hard & lonely.
Beth, I'm so sorry about the loss of your husband, and the money issues you have to deal with. I hope with the passage of time things have gotten a little better for you. I just wanted to share a hope from the Bible with you that helped me continue dealing with the death of my grandmother, who was like my mother. It's at Isaiah 25:8. Jehovah God promises that soon we won't have to watch our loves ones suffer and die. He also promised that we will see them again John 5:28, 29.
I will keep you in my prayers for the strengh to go on.
beth martin said:
I lost my husband 8 wks ago still waiting for the tox report and can't collect life ins without it living on savings and it will run out soon. To have all the pain from losing him and then to have money probs just compounds the issue. I feel lost without him like I'm navigating this life solo, wait I am and it sucks. I hope time helps because nothing does right now
I lost my husband this past Thanksgiving and although it was expected, it happened sooner than it was supposed to. This is such a different type of life. I can't complete a task, a sentence or thought. I am getting behind on laundry and washing dishes. One of the policies I had paid off during the holidays. I am worried more about my mental health than anything. I need a group to go to but the only one I found so far is at the hospital where he was declared gone. I am tired of these crazy feelings and thoughts. I am not bouncing back like I hoped I would. Oh God, I need help.
Jennifer Wilkins said:
Beth, I'm so sorry about the loss of your husband, and the money issues you have to deal with. I hope with the passage of time things have gotten a little better for you. I just wanted to share a hope from the Bible with you that helped me continue dealing with the death of my grandmother, who was like my mother. It's at Isaiah 25:8. Jehovah God promises that soon we won't have to watch our loves ones suffer and die. He also promised that we will see them again John 5:28, 29.
I will keep you in my prayers for the strengh to go on.
beth martin said:I lost my husband 8 wks ago still waiting for the tox report and can't collect life ins without it living on savings and it will run out soon. To have all the pain from losing him and then to have money probs just compounds the issue. I feel lost without him like I'm navigating this life solo, wait I am and it sucks. I hope time helps because nothing does right now
Beth, I hope by now that things have resolved themselves financially for you. I am going through the same thing right now. My husband died 2 weeks ago and I am scared to pieces about making it until the insurance comes through. He was the main breadwinner, I am a substitute teacher and missed most of the month of work with his health plus it is the end of the school year. I literally have no income after his last check next week.
And the bank says anything that comes in should go in a special account for his estate so what am I supposed to do? How do I pay the bills, eat, pay for medicine (oh, yeah, lost the insurance as well)? Plus he didn't have a will, I guess he was afraid that if he signed one he would die. Well, that happened anyway. I don't even want to think about the medical bills from the last year of cancer treatments and hospital visits.
I don't know what to do.
And (Beth, this is not aimed at you) please DON'T quote the bible at me.
beth martin said:
I lost my husband 8 wks ago still waiting for the tox report and can't collect life ins without it living on savings and it will run out soon. To have all the pain from losing him and then to have money probs just compounds the issue. I feel lost without him like I'm navigating this life solo, wait I am and it sucks. I hope time helps because nothing does right now
My husband died 2 weeks ago and I am scared to pieces about making it until the insurance comes through. He was the main breadwinner, I am a substitute teacher and missed most of the month of work with his health plus it is the end of the school year. I literally have no income after his last check next week.
And the bank says anything that comes in should go in a special account for his estate so what am I supposed to do? How do I pay the bills, eat, pay for medicine (oh, yeah, lost the insurance as well)? Plus he didn't have a will, I guess he was afraid that if he signed one he would die. Well, that happened anyway. I don't even want to think about the medical bills from the last year of cancer treatments and hospital visits.
I don't know what to do. Can I deposit his last paycheck? Pay the bills? What is listed as assets for probate? What about the house that is jointly owned?
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