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Permalink Reply by Marlena on July 14, 2009 at 2:01pm

Steve,
Prayers are coming your way to get through the day. It is not fun to be alone...the thoughts just take off and go where they want.
I have sent 2 messages to "report an issue" hoping someone will let us know what is going on. I'll let you know if I hear from them.
Take care, today.
Marlena

Permalink Reply by Marlena on July 14, 2009 at 3:54pm

I did get an email back saying that Legacy is having technical problems and they are trying to work through them...no time frame when it will be fixed, though.
Marlena

Permalink Reply by Steve Cain on July 14, 2009 at 10:08pm

Marlena,
Thank you for the prayers. The day was rough, but I did hold on, I even managed to smile a couple of times today, even through a few tears. I also got a message from Legacy based on my reply to you. I'm glad to see they do keep up with their boards. Take care.

Permalink Reply by Marlena on July 15, 2009 at 8:41am

Steve,
It's good to see they keep up with what is going on here.
Congratulations on being a featured member. I was excited when Tom's picture made it to "featured" status. I just want everyone to see him and know him (except that's when I noticed the problems with my page...oops).
I am sorry your day was rough, hopefully there were moments that were somewhat manageable. Manageable seems to be the only word that works lately for me when talking about having a not so completely terrible day.
Here's to hoping each day becomes a little more manageable in time.
Take care,
Marlena

Permalink Reply by Marlena on July 16, 2009 at 1:16pm

Yay!! "My Page" is back up and running!! I was able to add new comments, blogs and pictures.

Marlena (and Tom) Always and Forever

www.memorialwebsites.legacy.com/bunzy

Permalink Reply by Phyllis Pointon on July 17, 2009 at 8:18am

Thasia said:

Hello,
I am lost.
I lost my husband on April 27th eventhough we have been together for 5 years and married for 2 I feel I have lost my everything. He was only 42 years old and was working out in the yard and wasn't feeling well so he came in and laid down, 10 minutes later he was dead.
I don't know what to do, most of the day I just go through the motions not really knowing or understanding what I'm doing. Just when I think I have a handle on my emotions, a smell, a sound, a memory brings back the tears that won't stop and it usually happens when I least expect it. Time is going by and I am standing still.

Sorry for the rambling.
Mary

Permalink Reply by Rose on July 17, 2009 at 11:33am

I understand what you are going through. I lost my Anthony one month ago today. He died the day after our daughter was born. I was still in the hospital and knew something was wrong when he didn't answer the phone. I can only say that I know things will get better but not right away. Right now, I cry each and every time I see a commercial we use to laugh at, or see something on T.V that we use to watch together. I lost my sister to cancer 4 years ago and it took time. This will also take time. Just like your husband it was sudden and a shock. I think it's ok to cry. If you didn't that wouldn't be normal. I'm really sorry about your husband. He was young just like mine. Anthony was 36. The only thing that gets me through the day is by thinking about all our "happy" days. I have to admit, I yell at him sometimes because I'm alone with a one month old and it can be hard. Maybe this would work for you... If you are home alone, just talk to him... I know he is around you. As many have told me he is a perminate Angel.

Phyllis Pointon said:

Thasia said:

Hello,
I am lost.
I lost my husband on April 27th eventhough we have been together for 5 years and married for 2 I feel I have lost my everything. He was only 42 years old and was working out in the yard and wasn't feeling well so he came in and laid down, 10 minutes later he was dead.
I don't know what to do, most of the day I just go through the motions not really knowing or understanding what I'm doing. Just when I think I have a handle on my emotions, a smell, a sound, a memory brings back the tears that won't stop and it usually happens when I least expect it. Time is going by and I am standing still.

Sorry for the rambling.
Mary

Permalink Reply by Christine on July 17, 2009 at 2:41pm

annalise,

I'm thinking about you today and hoping that your ok.

Christine

Permalink Reply by Thasia on July 17, 2009 at 8:58pm

Thank you all for your thoughts and prayers, they are a big help to me and I do appreciate them. Today has been a decent day. I went and bought a decorated box that I can put some of Darrell's items in, cards, letters, special things that he had, I guess you would call it a memory box. I don't know if I'm torturing myself with it or if it will help to have them altogether in a box. I'm not putting the box in a closet never to look at again, I've put it on a table and set his picture on it, right now I find it comforting.

Rose, I am very sorry to hear about your Anthony. To answer your question, yes I have yelled at him at times. I know it's not his fault though, if he could be here with me he would be.

One foot in front of the other
Mary

Permalink Reply by annalise samuel lapira on July 20, 2009 at 10:46am

hi christine...i logged on today to tell u that i will be thinking of your tmow and saw yr message...no am not really ok...but still..not much one can do.
thanks for thinking of me...love u all annalise xx

Permalink Reply by Steve Cain on July 20, 2009 at 9:35pm

I need everyone's prayers and support tomorrow. It will be one month since Kris' passing and it's also my late day at work where I spend a lot of time by myself.

Permalink Reply by BarryWHK on July 20, 2009 at 10:30pm

Christine, I know that tomorrow will be 5 months. I visited Annette’s website and saw the new profile image and the new pictures. Annalise, I know that it was 5 months last Friday.
I haven’t felt much like writing but I wanted to let you know that I do think about you. I have been pretty out of it lately - feeling like I’m slowly sinking deeper and deeper into a dark abyss, since the three anniversaries this month. I still shake my head because I can’t believe any of this is true. I miss Robert so much that my words could never express.

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