My daughter's friend committed suicide on Friday Oct. 16, 2009. I had no idea she was even seeing this man. She said that they were only friends, but in her heart she was deeply in love with this young man. He set his mind to dying to join his sister and mother in death. He made claims of finding utopia in Heaven and he said would be able to be a better person in Heaven than here on Earth. She told me that he mentioned suicide often and she tried to help him, but he had made up his mind and there was no stopping him. They spoke on the telephone for six hours at a time. They played games together on the computer. They emailed and instant messaged each other all day long. Now she is left alone. He decided that Friday was a good day to die. He did not inform her of his decision. A bullet took his life and now his family is devastated and my daughter will not eat, drink or sleep. How do I help her find her way back to normalcy? How do I convince her that she must go on living? She was in constant contact with this young man. How does she fill that void? How do I show her that there is life after such a terrible waste of life? Most of all, how can she honor his life and their friendship when he decided to throw it all away and take his own life? Please help me help my daughter.