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Linda and John...I am so very sorry for the losses of your children... I found this page a few months ago when I was seeking desperately seeking comfort from the pain of the loss of my fiancee who died suddenly from a massive heart attack in January 5th. For the first time in my 60 years, I found myself going through the kind of "punch-you-in-the-stomach" grief that turns life as you knew it upside down, stays forefront in your mind every waking minute of every day and hits so hard and hurts so bad that sometimes that you feel like you just can't stand it and don't know how you can go on living feeling so full of pain. And this was in grieving who had lived a full life, a good life, was happy, had no regrets and who knew it would happen one day and had lived in a way where he made sure there was nothing left unsaid...my point being that I can't even imagine what you must be going through and my heart goes out to you...as do my prayers... For me, my salvation turned out to be by learning about, seeking and then having faith in Jesus and in God's word that's lead me to believe that I will see my Bobby again. So now, what I try to keep in the forefront of my mind is that this life on earth is just a blink of the eye and we live it in preparation for the eternal life that awaits us which we will indeed share with those who are now with the Lord. I was always spiritual but rejected all religion...until I saw how well Bobby's family was able to deal with his passing and thought about how Bobby himself loved and believed in "his Lord" more than anything, so I decided to put all the time and energy I used to put into centering my world around Bobby to learn about his faith, and with the input of Pastor, Bible classes and also videos including Lee Strobel's The Case for Christ and The Case for the Creator, I came to believe the Bible and that its message is undeniable... I still miss him terribly, and finally had to tuck away a few of the many pictures I had placed around the house that were seeming to make me feel worse instead of better, as they had done when he first passed, because they were constant reminders of the pain I desperately relief from, as I still have to hold down a job and can't be upset all the time, and it seems that it has helped alot. I've shared this all only incase there is anything in what I've said that can help you in any way. I pray for you both that God continues to give you strength and that He brings the kind of comfort and peace that I think only He can bring us...I sure know I couldn't have done it by myself. Hugs, Lori
Linda and John...I am so very sorry for the losses of your children... I found this page a few months ago when I was seeking desperately seeking comfort from the pain of the loss of my fiancee who died suddenly from a massive heart attack in January 5th. For the first time in my 60 years, I found myself going through the kind of "punch-you-in-the-stomach" grief that turns life as you knew it upside down, stays forefront in your mind every waking minute of every day and hits so hard and hurts so bad that sometimes that you feel like you just can't stand it and don't know how you can go on living feeling so full of pain. And this was in grieving who had lived a full life, a good life, was happy, had no regrets and who knew it would happen one day and had lived in a way where he made sure there was nothing left unsaid...my point being that I can't even imagine what you must be going through and my heart goes out to you...as do my prayers... For me, my salvation turned out to be by learning about, seeking and then having faith in Jesus and in God's word that's lead me to believe that I will see my Bobby again. So now, what I try to keep in the forefront of my mind is that this life on earth is just a blink of the eye and we live it in preparation for the eternal life that awaits us which we will indeed share with those who are now with the Lord. I was always spiritual but rejected all religion...until I saw how well Bobby's family was able to deal with his passing and thought about how Bobby himself loved and believed in "his Lord" more than anything, so I decided to put all the time and energy I used to put into centering my world around Bobby to learn about his faith, and with the input of Pastor, Bible classes and also videos including Lee Strobel's The Case for Christ and The Case for the Creator, I came to believe the Bible and that its message is undeniable... I still miss him terribly, and finally had to tuck away a few of the many pictures I had placed around the house that were seeming to make me feel worse instead of better, as they had done when he first passed, because they were constant reminders of the pain I desperately relief from, as I still have to hold down a job and can't be upset all the time, and it seems that it has helped alot. I've shared this all only incase there is anything in what I've said that can help you in any way. I pray for you both that God continues to give you strength and that He brings the kind of comfort and peace that I think only He can bring us...I sure know I couldn't have done it by myself.
Hugs,
Lori
Im not certain what I believe any more. I lost my Mom December 10 2008 and it seems that my life just stopped that day. I am lost.
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