If there is an afterlife, who are you most looking forward to seeing again? Is it a friend or relative? What would be the first thing that you'd say to them?

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I know you'll come to take me Home w/you Baby-girl! 

I know for a  FACT there is an afterlife! The day b/4 Candace's funeral she came to me. I didn't se her, but I felt her and I KNOW it was CANDACE!!  I know she didn't mean to die. She wanted to raise her girls. I  was sitting outside talking to her. I was very despondent. I felt someone standing behind me but I  was the only one there. She then proceeded to rub my arms up and down, just the upper part of my arms. A gentleman I rented a room from also showed me. He's my girlfriend's stepDad. He made the smoke alarm go off in our kitchen. This HAD to be Ward because we took the batteries OUT because everytime we cooked it would go off!! We knew Ward was dying from Cancer. He told me, if he could, he would let me know life doesn't end when our bodies die. He said his wife, Sharon, came to him. When he was in the hospitol he was looking up and talking to old co-workers he drove a semi with. At first I thought he was delirious, but not after he made the smoke alarm go off! I think Candace was consoling me because I was ready to loose my mind. Maybe she prevented that. I LOVE you soo much Boog!

King James Version Psalms 37:11
 "But the meek shall inherit the earth...
TCGOODWIN said:

John 5:28,29...Ps 37:29...Ps 37:11

Ken said:
Will you come back here, after you've gone to the hereafter? Or. will you be gone forever after?

I look at your picture every day. It's on the wall above my PC. I miss you so much! I LOVE you so much too!

Without question I would want to see and hug my grandmother.  I hope that when my time comes she is there waiting for me with open arms.  For those that have lost children or loved ones to suicide, I am so incredibly and deeply sorry for your loss.  I believe without question that regardless of faith or religion there is a space for all those that are good, that do the best they can day by day.  Suicide is so difficult to understand and it leaves you feeling empty.  So very very sorry.

First, My Soulmate Rose whom passed into God's hands May 31st, 2007. The first thing I would say to her is that I missed seeing and touching her. I can't express the emptiness in my physical life and I sleep 12-16 hours a day both due to medications and my want to dream that she is here or I am there.

Second, I would visit with my Mother as I know she would be waiting for me as well. It may sound silly but my mother was my "rock of stability". No matter what happened in my life she was there to off her help.

I was crushed when my Soulmate, Rose passed and my mother had previously had a stroke and was in hospice care. I surely could not hear her wisdom of the situation, nor do I really know whether she knew.

But 8 months later my mother passed as well so I know the two of them are together. You see my Mother was my both parents as my father was in hospice after a stroke when I was 2 yrs old. Then on Christmas eve 1963 he had his final stroke, he was 44yrs old and I was 7.

I barely knew him but I know he will want to see what kind of a person I turmed out to be.

 

God bless,

Fred Dunn

I Had a Dream

I had a dream last night, I dreamt of someone dead. And, when I woke this morning, it was still there in my head. Then I tried to return to sleep, wanting to dream on. But, like my love one who had passed on, the dream I had was forever gone.

I've been on here before..Back in 2002 when cancer took my wife. I'm finally being able to deal with her death. See above. I've been able to do a little writing(my way of relieving from stress). One that I wrote after she passed away is something that I'd like to share now(we All have our own ways of dealing):

                                                 COME BACK TO SEE 


Come back to see me, I've got so much to say,

Little things I never told you before you went away.

Come back to see me, we've got so much to do, 

I'd really like to hold you cuz I'm still in love with you.

Come back to see me, even if only in my dreams,

You left me only yesterday or that's the way it seems.

Come back to see me, I miss you more than you could know,

And, I can't figure out just why you had to go.

Come back to see me, that's what I want the most,

I won't be afraid, I'll know that you're a ghost.

Come back to see me, and maybe I'll stop crying,

I still can't get over the fact that you were dying.

Hello

well written!

but the Bible also says we will rise again. I believe it more than I fear it not being so, I believe it with all my heart. 
we sleep when we die. we know nothing until the day of restoration and reunion.


 Your words are very beautiuful! Paul the apostle said that nothing can separate us from the Love of GOD. and we will be with our love ones again. i am so sorry for your loss. I am grieving too as I lost my beloved in April, 2012. 

blessings, vee, Colorado

Melinda Ellen Guinn said:

I know you'll come to take me Home w/you Baby-girl! 

I know the feeling. We find it hard to believe for a long time. Maybe we never fully accept as part of us--a huge part of our heart wont ever let go. 
Beautiful but sad words you wrote

I am sorry for your loss. Life is so hard 



Ken said:

I Had a Dream

I had a dream last night, I dreamt of someone dead. And, when I woke this morning, it was still there in my head. Then I tried to return to sleep, wanting to dream on. But, like my love one who had passed on, the dream I had was forever gone.

you write beautiful! she must of been amazing to inspire such words

Ken said:

I've been on here before..Back in 2002 when cancer took my wife. I'm finally being able to deal with her death. See above. I've been able to do a little writing(my way of relieving from stress). One that I wrote after she passed away is something that I'd like to share now(we All have our own ways of dealing):

                                                 COME BACK TO SEE 


Come back to see me, I've got so much to say,

Little things I never told you before you went away.

Come back to see me, we've got so much to do, 

I'd really like to hold you cuz I'm still in love with you.

Come back to see me, even if only in my dreams,

You left me only yesterday or that's the way it seems.

Come back to see me, I miss you more than you could know,

And, I can't figure out just why you had to go.

Come back to see me, that's what I want the most,

I won't be afraid, I'll know that you're a ghost.

Come back to see me, and maybe I'll stop crying,

I still can't get over the fact that you were dying.

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