Do you believe in the supernatural? Do you think that anyone has ever tried to contact you or send you signs from the other side?

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River of Tears, In '97 when I was in that horrific car accident that totalled my just paid off Honda Accord, the doctors said I would never walk or talk again correctly. First i had  walker, then I used a cane. Then I started walking VERY short distances (like about 4'). I'm dizzy alot, it's like waves of dizziness going thru my head and body. I think your Grandparents did come back to escort them to Heaven, or the "other side". I can't wait for Candace and my Granma to come to take me home. I think Earth is a training ground. Heaven is where we're all from. That's why there's reincarnation, you get so many tries to get it right, then you go to Heaven or hell. These are just my ideas, and keep in mind I'm brain damaged. I suffered a TBI in the accident in '97.  

Dear Melinda, 

 If it is that we need to come back to get it right my dear friend , which I know many could come to challenge and and take a stand . Yet you know for me , and I bet for many here from what you have shared and all the comfort you bring " YOU HAVE " so gotten it right  !!    If  this is even a correct or word that encompass  and express to tell someone what they have offered this world.   The word " right "for you and all that come to share seems at least for me a under estimation of what this world was meant to be     As I only can imagine Candace and your Granma would are some how telling telling you .  To show kindness and care even when it is in our darkness hours that a hand is always there no matter what . For is this not why we are here .  Why we were blessed with life . 

  Though as you who has gone through such traumatic and difficult times  seems to have that hand of love of care of generosity of heart to all to reach more then just to me . To all that come here . 

   This I use to tell my Sister who as the years went by surgery after surgery they thought and chose to take yet another part of her , to where others now only saw what they wanted .  A frail , partial woman that they would just stare at , or laugh at , or completely ignore as they found no worth in her anymore .

    Though if we and all could see that it is not what what one looks like from the outside or what there disability that they never asked for as horribly treated as many can be .  That there is truly a beautiful person inside that just wants to be , to share and live life .

     What my Sister what most of above and beyond all the sneers and challenges she would face on a daily basis what to LOVE just LOVE .   Which she did . She offered me more time and joy then anyone I knew . 

   My Sister , Mother and Father above all the pain and challenges ,  it was maybe a message as you carry .  The wisdom to see life no matter what it brings  and  just hold on .   

   That maybe you did not need to come to be here to get it right it was to bring a message one that would touch all . One like my Sister and Mother and Father  brought . One that told many what this world and life was suppose to be after all .  Those who care about one another . 

 

I thank you more then you know

  Please take care  to you and all that come to share

    for you may be the ones to bring a message to this world that you Loved one what to say after all .

 

I am not sure if this is just a recall or that my dear Sister who pasted away came to me , to remind the it was out Aunts Birthday in a few days . An Aunt I have been trying to contact with not avail yet still send emails .  One of the few family members that we have or at least kept in contact with us .  My Sister alway remembered her birthday and would as if I would like to write something in the card she would find . One that was so special that I wanted it only from her . Yet as my Sister was she was always so sharing she would open it up for me to at least sign it .  Always worried that I would make a mistake in doing even that .  Yet last night as I lay on my bed I felt my Sister so close as though to say do you know it is almost our Aunt's  Birthday .   This will be the first year that my sister and I did not share in something together even when we used to live 1000 of miles apart . 

   What worries me though is that the mention earlier is that Grand Parents have been close near who passed many years ago which I have only felt near when they seemed to be here when some one was about to pass .  I hope this is not the case .  No way of finding out either . No one to call no one that would tell me .  All I seem to have now is those who have passed . 

   If to be true I know that my Aunt loves her parents so greatly and how loving for them to come each time . Which still has amazed me . Which many may not believe or think me to be crazy .  OK so do I 

Grief does wonders to the brain  .  It is more of this feeling and a sence that comes around me like no other which can not be explained or at times I too I wished I had an answer . All I can come up with is that it is all connected to love .  

  I am grateful to my Sister for reminding me of my Aunts Birthday , though I have to rush out and find a card for I feel so empty inside I fear I will not find one that may touch her heart or tell her how I truly feel inside beneath all this  pain .  That I love her as I know my Sister does .   

 

  No way I could have remembered on my own for half the time I do not know what day it is .   Can this be . Is she close to me .  How I wish I could hug her and never let her go .. I love my Sister so much !!

To John...

Sorry for the losses in your family and especially your brother.  I have lost every kind of family member but a brother/sister.  Thank goodness because they have been very special in helping me through the loss of my son.

When our family is doing something that our son loved to do we put a picture of him close by and include him in our conversations and occasion.  Might be crazy but it gives us some kind of peace to have his visual presense with us.  In fact I have pictures of him smiling all around my computer and that is how I start my day. Just makes it a tiny bit easier to go on.

I would continue to bake those cookies and place a picture in the kitchen while you are baking.  You may feel his presense around you.

Yes this world is in a mess but we have to make the best of our lives while we are still here and waiting to be joined with all our lost family members.

Hope this helps a little.

Susan   Donny's Mom

Right there with ya John.

John Phils said:

Several of my family members have died recently. I was wondering is it normal to feel remorse about putting my own desires first.

My brother and i always did so many things together,football,basketball,Hungout,loved to cook together. We baked cookies all the time.

I haven't stopped.

I know he;s no longer alive...

However i'll just wait until a later time to continue to bake cookies, we know that these world conditions are getting worse.Soon all those in the memorial tombs will come out...I look forward to that time....What a grand hope...I can;t wait to see my loved ones soon...... 

Susan, Thank you so much for sharing your story.  Despite the sadness of your loss. 
The connection you felt with Donny brought a smile to my face.  It gives all of us the comfort in knowing that the children we lost do contiune on.  Although we struggle with not knowing where they are. The experiences which you have had reinforces our faith that the child we lost is safe and wants us who are trying to get throught each day to be at peace.  I believe this is why they send us these messages.  I have posted your story on the website www.thechildwelost.com  You are a very special person helping all you do through your thoughtful communication.  I am sure that Donny is smiling.  God Bless you, Susan Casadei  

Susan - Donny's Mom said:

Hello everyone.  I have to share something that happened this week.  My husband was going into a serious back surgery on Friday.  Everyone in the family was so concerned.  The day the Dr. scheduled his surgery was Donny's birthday (March 4th).  We all took that as a positive sign.  The night before the surgery, Donny's oldest daughter was out for dinner with her boyfriend.  When the change came back from paying they went to leave a tip and noticed that one dollar had something written on the corner.  On that corner was the word, "DON".   She came right to my home to show me that dollar.  She wanted her grandfather to have that dollar when he went in to surgery.

Well the surgery went better than good and we all felt Donny protected and was watching over his Dad that day.  If THAT isn't a "sign" I don't know what is....

We re going to frame that dollar.  Made us all have such a warm feeling.

Susan   Donny's Mom

River of Tears, how're u  doin'? i'm sad, as usual. Listening to the radio. ready for bed. Talk to you tommorrow.

Dear Susan ,    Each time I read what you share , I gasp .     It is just amazing .    As Susan C . response to you was so eloquent  and was able to express to you and all that it does bring such comfort .     Beauty and Peace  in a way that can not be seen, one that can be felt directly from the heart .  

             Don must have such a connection with all of you .  A testament,  to his love for each of you , and the love that you have for him .

 

Continued Blessings  

 

To each and all ,may signs of love come

 

PS Susan  may your husband  continued recovery , it seems to be, that he has a guardian angel by his side (a special one at that )  Take care.  As you do too..   Blessing

 

 

 
Susan Casadei said:

Susan, Thank you so much for sharing your story.  Despite the sadness of your loss. 
The connection you felt with Donny brought a smile to my face.  It gives all of us the comfort in knowing that the children we lost do contiune on.  Although we struggle with not knowing where they are. The experiences which you have had reinforces our faith that the child we lost is safe and wants us who are trying to get throught each day to be at peace.  I believe this is why they send us these messages.  I have posted your story on the website www.thechildwelost.com  You are a very special person helping all you do through your thoughtful communication.  I am sure that Donny is smiling.  God Bless you, Susan Casadei  

Susan - Donny's Mom said:

Hello everyone.  I have to share something that happened this week.  My husband was going into a serious back surgery on Friday.  Everyone in the family was so concerned.  The day the Dr. scheduled his surgery was Donny's birthday (March 4th).  We all took that as a positive sign.  The night before the surgery, Donny's oldest daughter was out for dinner with her boyfriend.  When the change came back from paying they went to leave a tip and noticed that one dollar had something written on the corner.  On that corner was the word, "DON".   She came right to my home to show me that dollar.  She wanted her grandfather to have that dollar when he went in to surgery.

Well the surgery went better than good and we all felt Donny protected and was watching over his Dad that day.  If THAT isn't a "sign" I don't know what is....

We re going to frame that dollar.  Made us all have such a warm feeling.

Susan   Donny's Mom

yes through someone I'm very close to.  I am psychic and my husband who committed suicide, I 'felt' that he had been trying to contact me & I was 'blocking' him.  I told him I couldn't handle talking to him.  He decided to use my bff.  she didn't know everything about him-not a lot of his 'sayings, mannerisms, things we talked about just between he and I'.  The things he communicated/said through her were things only I would know and had never told anyone not even my bff.   

 

I miss him so much.  He killed himself w/me in the house.  Then I lost my only decent and favorite brother less than 8 months later & my father died exactly 1 wk after my brother.  My brother wasn't even sick 59 y.o dropped dead-ht attack in his sleep.  His b'day was 02-27.  I also lost my step son who died 1999 on 02/26.  I have 2 anniversaries together.  But Jesus is good. God bless you all :-)  

Thank you "River" and Susan C.     We are all in this "place" together and what is better than somehow giving some kind of uplifting experience to share?   I really have always believed in "signs" even before Donny left us.  I try to pay attention to things around me and also to teach my grandchildren to pay attention.  What if my grand daughter had not even looked at the money returned.  Most people would not and they would have missed a sign. 

Thank you both for your kind words and positive thoughts for my husband who is recovering quite well.  tomorrow is one week, and he is able to walk in the house, take a shower (with a little help from me).  Tomorrow we will be married 44 yrs. and boy do we have a special day to enjoy!!   Having him make it through this 6+ hr surgery and on his way to recovery.  I am sure Donny is up there smiling down on the both of us.

Just always missing my "big guy".....

Susan

Dear Barbara ,

 

          I am so sorry for all the loss that you have had to face , your Father your Husband ,  your Brother and your Stepson ,  .  All I could think was a heart shattered more then once .  

          What is amazing is how our loved ones may try to reach us no matter how they can , if as with you your husband finally had to go to your best friend .   I am glad that they told you that they felt this , at least they were aware enough to feel him or ...he finally really felt he had to do something to make him self known .   

 I know for me that I was not able to feel my mother very close which worried me since I was able to some how feel my sister father , and even his two dog of all things.   Yet with her she was one thing I could not some how reach or is that in life that I was not able to in time .     

 Yet in saying that , there is a woman that I just met about  my mothers   age srpy and full of life , that so reminds me of her th sometimes it  throws me . She is makes out  same type of grocery list that my mother used to make one with the crossed products she decided not to get and then when I come she would add them back so to  call in .  Which does make me wonder .    So in reading what you have shared I do wonder if maybe our loved ones will reach us  in any way they can .   Not that I would not appreciate that I could feel her myself unless she trying to tell me something or teach me something that I still need to learn . Who knows .. ?  It just gave me a better perspective in what you had with your experience .   But also sad for all you have had to go through and stil are facing . 

 

 

Please take care and may comfort come to you .

 

Blessings to all

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


BARBARA K. FELLER said:

yes through someone I'm very close to.  I am psychic and my husband who committed suicide, I 'felt' that he had been trying to contact me & I was 'blocking' him.  I told him I couldn't handle talking to him.  He decided to use my bff.  she didn't know everything about him-not a lot of his 'sayings, mannerisms, things we talked about just between he and I'.  The things he communicated/said through her were things only I would know and had never told anyone not even my bff.   

 

I miss him so much.  He killed himself w/me in the house.  Then I lost my only decent and favorite brother less than 8 months later & my father died exactly 1 wk after my brother.  My brother wasn't even sick 59 y.o dropped dead-ht attack in his sleep.  His b'day was 02-27.  I also lost my step son who died 1999 on 02/26.  I have 2 anniversaries together.  But Jesus is good. God bless you all :-)  

Dear Susan -Donny's Mom ,

                Maybe in some ways it is through the writings here at Legacy , if not to just to take a pause to think of our loved ones.  Yet many a time what others will say or feel is what I thought was a long lost way of wanting to be with someone of having your family close .  When I read I see clearly what my Sister and I so had , and what my parents so wanted for us . Which comes from the best 4 letter word that there ever was   LOVE   . 

              As you mentioned what if your grand daughter did not look when she did , or was that Donny that brought her too .   I sense your family has the inner connection that no matter where you are you still feel what is going with each other .   

           I was blessed to have this with my Sister Mother and Father, through  the good and when they were not well .  Even when I was s of miles of away I would feel some how that something was not right and would be on the phone or on the first plane back .    Maybe this is why it is so difficult now there may be a connection to them yet I have no way getting there right now .   Even if I would think there was to be , who knows where I would go as I believe in my earlier writing I was told the first few days by one that I was headed to a place that sun tan lotion and a flame retardant may be needed .   Ones faith that was directing him to say these words . Yet for me I took it to heart .    Unless he had some connection that I did not know of .      I shall wait for God to let me know .

     The beauty in all of this is when these signs appear is that it is as though the pain we have is some how lifted at least for a moment . I wonder if this is what they are trying to say .  To let us know that they are OK .   How could they not . Angels on earth are the joy and the light of each day  .

     Susan to,         You and your dear Husband wishing a Happy Anniversary  

                 When you wrote that Donny would be smiling it brought tears to my eyes , yet at the same time I found myself smiling of the a marriage of two who had a beautiful son who loved him and love each other .  What is better then that in life .    Blessings of those around us .

 

Please take care .   Continued healing 

 

 To each of you I thank you for being now my new blessings in life .

 

Take care .           

 


Susan - Donny's Mom said:

Thank you "River" and Susan C.     We are all in this "place" together and what is better than somehow giving some kind of uplifting experience to share?   I really have always believed in "signs" even before Donny left us.  I try to pay attention to things around me and also to teach my grandchildren to pay attention.  What if my grand daughter had not even looked at the money returned.  Most people would not and they would have missed a sign. 

Thank you both for your kind words and positive thoughts for my husband who is recovering quite well.  tomorrow is one week, and he is able to walk in the house, take a shower (with a little help from me).  Tomorrow we will be married 44 yrs. and boy do we have a special day to enjoy!!   Having him make it through this 6+ hr surgery and on his way to recovery.  I am sure Donny is up there smiling down on the both of us.

Just always missing my "big guy".....

Susan

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