Messages from the other side

Do you believe in the supernatural? Do you think that anyone has ever tried to contact you or send you signs from the other side?

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Permalink Reply by Susan - Donny's Mom on March 26, 2011 at 1:01pm

Yes....the actual life birthdays are the ones to focus on, much happier memories for us. My Mom died from lung cancer (she had never smoked) that spread to her brain. I cared for her, along with my sister and brother till she passed within a year. She too left very slowly. Thank goodness not in any pain, that was a blessing for her and for us. We made her as comfortable as we could possibly make her, letting her return to her home the last 4 months. She left to be with my Dad very peacefully.

I really like your idea about spreading the ashes some day!!! Yes love is forever and eternal

Hugs

Susan

Permalink Reply by white dove on April 10, 2011 at 3:16pm

Thank You Susan Donny's mom:) Your words and thoughts are very comforting~ I am not sure how many feel when our second dates come.. but i feel in my case, it is true, time does give healing. Not a ton, but much different* I pray for the times when anniversaries can be here with warm and loving feelings~ I turned on the radio the day of my moms passing (2nd anniversary of) and a song came on loud and clear .. one of my moms favorite groups lol.. The Bee Gee's singing "You should be dancing" oh ya.. maybe some day:) Hugs and Love to everyone!

Susan - Donny's Mom said:

Yes....the actual life birthdays are the ones to focus on, much happier memories for us. My Mom died from lung cancer (she had never smoked) that spread to her brain. I cared for her, along with my sister and brother till she passed within a year. She too left very slowly. Thank goodness not in any pain, that was a blessing for her and for us. We made her as comfortable as we could possibly make her, letting her return to her home the last 4 months. She left to be with my Dad very peacefully.

I really like your idea about spreading the ashes some day!!! Yes love is forever and eternal

Hugs

Susan

Permalink Reply by Gary Payton on April 12, 2011 at 8:18am

Well should we try to contact those who have died? For example...A neighbor of mine told me a spirt medium contacted her who said she spoke to her husband the night before.....Nevertheless her husband been dead for two weeks.....Its more to the story.....Nevertheless ...Should we have contact with those who have died?

Permalink Reply by Susan - Donny's Mom on April 12, 2011 at 12:28pm

I feel that it is a personal individual decision to do that. For some it gives great comfort.
Susan

Permalink Reply by Melinda Ellen Guinn on April 12, 2011 at 7:09pm

Yea, How much!?.

Permalink Reply by River of Tears on April 13, 2011 at 5:35am

I also believe it is what the individual finds that they may need . Life is so full of amazing things who is to say that this can not be true or someone may not be so connected or have this ability to guide you in doing this . Yet there is also cause to be warned in the fact there is also those that sadly will prey on even at these times of grief to take advantage of another for profit . Just walk careful in all of this , listen with you heart as it may be difficult to do at this time with this in particular . If to find comfort in anyway that bring solace to you day and who is to say . I have never done this though before my Sister passed we both thought maybe it would be nice to be able to at least reach out to our Father who just passed away. Yet before I knew it out mother passed and so did she . Do I still think about this , maybe some day I am not sure as I am not in the most trusty state of mind yet per say . Not to say that this is not something that can happen or may be true as why then does my Grand Father and Mother come to me each time before each of my family members have passed to almost let me know that they here to guide them to heaven . Not always such a pleasant thing after the first visit I may say , not that I did not want to see them but for that reason , no .. To know this is something that I ask how it is that this has happened to me all my life . So to deny that some do have some ability that God may have granted them to do this to maybe even bring comfort to all those now in pain I can not be one to deny . If to I would then have to deny who I have been all my life in what I have seen or felt close by not that I have helped anyone or been there as I always wished I had yet to know when someone was sick and getting there before the call still scares even me . I think God or who ever you call him or her or the creator has given many gifts and why not this too . If not at least bring us closer for just a moment to our loved ones wouldn't this be something anyone want to do . Yet believe you me I would be the one holding on so long screaming out of the room wanting the session never to stop if to be there with my Parents and my Sister . Sounds crazy OK .. but if it to truly be I take that and will live in that world from now on for the emptiness seems to be somewhat a greater vast and darker hole then even know .
Comfort just in the thought it can be , is that even not a blessing for some . Do not even that away for that may be what keeps them holding on to see the next day .

Life offers many wonders many we can not explain if we could would any of us be here in the pain . It is the wonderment that may bring the solace and peace we all need . Let others believe what they need and you my who do not want to this is fine but please especially now if to ask do not tell me or other that it is wrong to seek what comfort we may need .
As I seem to hear everyday , from friends who I thought to be , and others who feel to be well read and knowledgeable . Sometime it is the heart that calls out for what it needs . As we all are now in this pain that does not bleed .

Acceptance of possibilities .. the light we all may need .

.
We were blessed to love and be loved yet separately who knows how or what can happen for us from this step forward . All apart of the journey . One that no one gave has a manual to . Not to discredit other beliefs either . It is just to know as in life ,there is more to living then any of may know .

To see beyond what is .

Please take care ...

Permalink Reply by Susan - Donny's Mom on April 13, 2011 at 9:32am

@River of Tears....

Well said !!! Some mediums are so interesting to watch on TV or read about but yes, there are many people out there who prey on the weak. They actually had a special on TV last week about people losing their whole life savings on these mediums. So yes beware!!

River of Tears said:

I also believe it is what the individual finds that they may need . Life is so full of amazing things who is to say that this can not be true or someone may not be so connected or have this ability to guide you in doing this . Yet there is also cause to be warned in the fact there is also those that sadly will prey on even at these times of grief to take advantage of another for profit . Just walk careful in all of this , listen with you heart as it may be difficult to do at this time with this in particular . If to find comfort in anyway that bring solace to you day and who is to say . I have never done this though before my Sister passed we both thought maybe it would be nice to be able to at least reach out to our Father who just passed away. Yet before I knew it out mother passed and so did she . Do I still think about this , maybe some day I am not sure as I am not in the most trusty state of mind yet per say . Not to say that this is not something that can happen or may be true as why then does my Grand Father and Mother come to me each time before each of my family members have passed to almost let me know that they here to guide them to heaven . Not always such a pleasant thing after the first visit I may say , not that I did not want to see them but for that reason , no .. To know this is something that I ask how it is that this has happened to me all my life . So to deny that some do have some ability that God may have granted them to do this to maybe even bring comfort to all those now in pain I can not be one to deny . If to I would then have to deny who I have been all my life in what I have seen or felt close by not that I have helped anyone or been there as I always wished I had yet to know when someone was sick and getting there before the call still scares even me . I think God or who ever you call him or her or the creator has given many gifts and why not this too . If not at least bring us closer for just a moment to our loved ones wouldn't this be something anyone want to do . Yet believe you me I would be the one holding on so long screaming out of the room wanting the session never to stop if to be there with my Parents and my Sister . Sounds crazy OK .. but if it to truly be I take that and will live in that world from now on for the emptiness seems to be somewhat a greater vast and darker hole then even know .
Comfort just in the thought it can be , is that even not a blessing for some . Do not even that away for that may be what keeps them holding on to see the next day .

Life offers many wonders many we can not explain if we could would any of us be here in the pain . It is the wonderment that may bring the solace and peace we all need . Let others believe what they need and you my who do not want to this is fine but please especially now if to ask do not tell me or other that it is wrong to seek what comfort we may need .
As I seem to hear everyday , from friends who I thought to be , and others who feel to be well read and knowledgeable . Sometime it is the heart that calls out for what it needs . As we all are now in this pain that does not bleed .

Acceptance of possibilities .. the light we all may need .

.
We were blessed to love and be loved yet separately who knows how or what can happen for us from this step forward . All apart of the journey . One that no one gave has a manual to . Not to discredit other beliefs either . It is just to know as in life ,there is more to living then any of may know .

To see beyond what is .

Please take care ...

Permalink Reply by River of Tears on April 14, 2011 at 5:54am

At times I think I am feeling my Sister or Mother or Father trying to tell me something but often I am not quite sure if I am just imagining it or it is really . Only to able to write about here . Believe me all around me have thought me to be over sensitive and not following the manual of grief that they carry that they want me to . Yet when I am away from them I hear them trying to tell me different yet it difficult to leave where and what I have now . For all has changed so much . The animals and nature have become my best solace at this point not even to say they come to me ,I seem to seek them out as to see what they may have to tell me as even if to show that life is not like all want to walk it it is more . More then sometimes I forget when I fall in to the deepest part of the dark of this pain. Yet all it takes it to go out and seek one of the wonderful gifts that are there that do not judge do not tell you what to do or how to do it or tell you who or how to be now in all this pain . They just accept you as is . Even to allowing you to watch a bird build a new nest all by itself piece by piece. Was this a sign to tell me that I can too rebuild me home over or was it just the appreciation of the gift before me . Either way you know it brought to me . Even the squirrel that I could call out of the tree to come on down ( ok I know it sounds funny) but he came .. taking the piece of bread back that I had in my hand with him up to the tree . As to look down at me and tell me he was not afraid of my feelings as others seem to be , so did I cry you bet , just need to remind myself to bring kleenex the next time as crying is not something I do often in front of anyone . It seems to be difficult for them to see as me to do , as me to feel all of this too . yet in saying all of this if nature is what is the sign of what has offered me a place I can go to feel . Well then I guess the birds and bees the squirrels in the trees as the rabbits that run around will be the best friends I have found . As my Sister is now in heaven with my parents there will never be anyone like them that could be found .

Are our Signs waiting or us or come to us or are the ones at time we need to seek at times if or no other reason to connect to something of life that really matters and to see what they do even there love can be found .

Take care

Permalink Reply by Lynn C on April 21, 2011 at 8:48am

Without a doubt let me say first hand that your loved ones are still very much with you and want nothing more to reach out and connect with you from their new way of living. I know this first hand, my husband of 17 years committed suicide 2 years ago. I always believed or at least I thought I did in life after death but the things that have happened since his death not only confirmed it , but gave me great comfort, which I will forever be grateful for. Always remember that they love you even more from the other side and are your biggest cheerleaders, not only myself but our two teenage kids have witnessed some very extraordinary events. Open your heart and let the signs begin.

All the best to everyone,

Lynn C.

Permalink Reply by Michelle Murphy on April 21, 2011 at 5:42pm

I know that the night my husband passed away I was in bed crying harder than I ever have and I felt him there with me behind me holding me. I know that was him comforting me and I feel him with me alot sometimes I'll even talk to him. Maybe I'm crazy but I do believe more now than ever before

Permalink Reply by Melinda Ellen Guinn on April 21, 2011 at 7:12pm

I always believed,but Candace gave me PROOF! I felt her touch me twice! I moved to NV to be by her because my friend who I was renting a room from passed from C. He was my girlfriends stepdad. Actually he showed me first. At our home,after he passed, he made the smoke alarm go off! We had removed the batteries because every time we cooked it would go off. He told me if he could he would give me a sign. And he sure did! And I actually felt Candace touch me! It was 2 days after she passed. she must've stayed w/her family b/4 coming to me.

I know that the night my husband passed away I was in bed crying harder than I ever have and I felt him there with me behind me holding me. I know that was him comforting me and I feel him with me alot sometimes I'll even talk to him. Maybe I'm crazy but I do believe more now than ever before

Permalink Reply by Lynn C on April 21, 2011 at 7:28pm

Michelle Murphy said:

I know that the night my husband passed away I was in bed crying harder than I ever have and I felt him there with me behind me holding me. I know that was him comforting me and I feel him with me alot sometimes I'll even talk to him. Maybe I'm crazy but I do believe more now than ever before

Michelle you are definitely not crazy my husband has held me dozens of times, even felt him hold me so tight it put me to sleep. I think he must have been worried that I was not sleeping enough. Even though we will always miss the physical presence there spirit is always with us.