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Yes....the actual life birthdays are the ones to focus on, much happier memories for us. My Mom died from lung cancer (she had never smoked) that spread to her brain. I cared for her, along with my sister and brother till she passed within a year. She too left very slowly. Thank goodness not in any pain, that was a blessing for her and for us. We made her as comfortable as we could possibly make her, letting her return to her home the last 4 months. She left to be with my Dad very peacefully.
I really like your idea about spreading the ashes some day!!! Yes love is forever and eternal
Hugs
Susan
Yes....the actual life birthdays are the ones to focus on, much happier memories for us. My Mom died from lung cancer (she had never smoked) that spread to her brain. I cared for her, along with my sister and brother till she passed within a year. She too left very slowly. Thank goodness not in any pain, that was a blessing for her and for us. We made her as comfortable as we could possibly make her, letting her return to her home the last 4 months. She left to be with my Dad very peacefully.
I really like your idea about spreading the ashes some day!!! Yes love is forever and eternal
Hugs
Susan
Yea, How much!?.
@River of Tears....
Well said !!! Some mediums are so interesting to watch on TV or read about but yes, there are many people out there who prey on the weak. They actually had a special on TV last week about people losing their whole life savings on these mediums. So yes beware!!
River of Tears said:
I also believe it is what the individual finds that they may need . Life is so full of amazing things who is to say that this can not be true or someone may not be so connected or have this ability to guide you in doing this . Yet there is also cause to be warned in the fact there is also those that sadly will prey on even at these times of grief to take advantage of another for profit . Just walk careful in all of this , listen with you heart as it may be difficult to do at this time with this in particular . If to find comfort in anyway that bring solace to you day and who is to say . I have never done this though before my Sister passed we both thought maybe it would be nice to be able to at least reach out to our Father who just passed away. Yet before I knew it out mother passed and so did she . Do I still think about this , maybe some day I am not sure as I am not in the most trusty state of mind yet per say . Not to say that this is not something that can happen or may be true as why then does my Grand Father and Mother come to me each time before each of my family members have passed to almost let me know that they here to guide them to heaven . Not always such a pleasant thing after the first visit I may say , not that I did not want to see them but for that reason , no .. To know this is something that I ask how it is that this has happened to me all my life . So to deny that some do have some ability that God may have granted them to do this to maybe even bring comfort to all those now in pain I can not be one to deny . If to I would then have to deny who I have been all my life in what I have seen or felt close by not that I have helped anyone or been there as I always wished I had yet to know when someone was sick and getting there before the call still scares even me . I think God or who ever you call him or her or the creator has given many gifts and why not this too . If not at least bring us closer for just a moment to our loved ones wouldn't this be something anyone want to do . Yet believe you me I would be the one holding on so long screaming out of the room wanting the session never to stop if to be there with my Parents and my Sister . Sounds crazy OK .. but if it to truly be I take that and will live in that world from now on for the emptiness seems to be somewhat a greater vast and darker hole then even know .
Comfort just in the thought it can be , is that even not a blessing for some . Do not even that away for that may be what keeps them holding on to see the next day .
Life offers many wonders many we can not explain if we could would any of us be here in the pain . It is the wonderment that may bring the solace and peace we all need . Let others believe what they need and you my who do not want to this is fine but please especially now if to ask do not tell me or other that it is wrong to seek what comfort we may need .
As I seem to hear everyday , from friends who I thought to be , and others who feel to be well read and knowledgeable . Sometime it is the heart that calls out for what it needs . As we all are now in this pain that does not bleed .
Acceptance of possibilities .. the light we all may need .
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We were blessed to love and be loved yet separately who knows how or what can happen for us from this step forward . All apart of the journey . One that no one gave has a manual to . Not to discredit other beliefs either . It is just to know as in life ,there is more to living then any of may know .
To see beyond what is .
Please take care ...
Without a doubt let me say first hand that your loved ones are still very much with you and want nothing more to reach out and connect with you from their new way of living. I know this first hand, my husband of 17 years committed suicide 2 years ago. I always believed or at least I thought I did in life after death but the things that have happened since his death not only confirmed it , but gave me great comfort, which I will forever be grateful for. Always remember that they love you even more from the other side and are your biggest cheerleaders, not only myself but our two teenage kids have witnessed some very extraordinary events. Open your heart and let the signs begin.
All the best to everyone,
Lynn C.
I know that the night my husband passed away I was in bed crying harder than I ever have and I felt him there with me behind me holding me. I know that was him comforting me and I feel him with me alot sometimes I'll even talk to him. Maybe I'm crazy but I do believe more now than ever before
I know that the night my husband passed away I was in bed crying harder than I ever have and I felt him there with me behind me holding me. I know that was him comforting me and I feel him with me alot sometimes I'll even talk to him. Maybe I'm crazy but I do believe more now than ever before
I know that the night my husband passed away I was in bed crying harder than I ever have and I felt him there with me behind me holding me. I know that was him comforting me and I feel him with me alot sometimes I'll even talk to him. Maybe I'm crazy but I do believe more now than ever before
Michelle you are definitely not crazy my husband has held me dozens of times, even felt him hold me so tight it put me to sleep. I think he must have been worried that I was not sleeping enough. Even though we will always miss the physical presence there spirit is always with us.
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