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yes I am a believer as you will understand,my father passed away 1994 I missed him almost as much as my mother did,on june 8,2002 as I was making my bed I felt the presence of someone and then in my daddys voice I heard him say haliloke tomorrow I am coming for your mother,i was so upset I screamed no and ran outside to tell my husband who of course did not believe me,I called mother several times that day and evening and asked her to come spend the night since she lives a few towns away but she said no thankyou,I did not sleep and when I woke up in the morning I waited for her everyday call at 10;am when she did not call I tried to reach her and left a message thinking my brother who at times would take her out for breakfast with her grandaughter I panicked and as my husband said wait and give them time to get back,at 11;30 I was ready to pick the phone up when it rang,my brother asked to speak to my husband in a very calm voice,I asked to speak to mother but he said I can talk to her after he talked to my husband ,as soon as I heard my husband say WHEN I knew and became hysterical i ran around the house shutting my ears so my husband could not tell me but he wrapped me in his arms and told me mother had passed away a short while ago while sitting at the table putting her eye drops in ,as i went to be with her ,out of my mind with grief I could sense my father once more and as I held my mothers hand I could hear his voice say I told you and now we are together again so yes I believe just as before mother passed away my husband of 48 years bedridden with bone cancer told me had a dream about my mother whom he loved he would not tell me but the following day mother came to me and said please you have to be strong it is time for sonny to go home,his pain and suffering is too much for him and I will watch over him that night christmas eve 2007 my beloved went to be with the lord and my mother ,THERE IS WITHOUT DOUBT MESSAGES FROM THE DECEASED AND WE HAVE TO LISTEN TO THEM NOT THINK IT IS OUR AMAGINATION,I KNOW BETTER
I have had three strange dreams since my husband died a year ago Valentines Day. It was a long time before I dreamed about him at all and then when I did it was just me and him in the dream. There were no words ever spoken but in each of these dreams he hugged me. The last one was on the first anniversary of his death. I dreamed I was in bed and laying on my left side, just as I always did. He got into bed with me and snuggled up to my back and put his arm around my waist. I swear it was real. I could feel him. A friend of mine says that those 3 dreams is Roy coming to me and letting me know he is ok. God, I want to believe that is true.
I have had three strange dreams since my husband died a year ago Valentines Day. It was a long time before I dreamed about him at all and then when I did it was just me and him in the dream. There were no words ever spoken but in each of these dreams he hugged me. The last one was on the first anniversary of his death. I dreamed I was in bed and laying on my left side, just as I always did. He got into bed with me and snuggled up to my back and put his arm around my waist. I swear it was real. I could feel him. A friend of mine says that those 3 dreams is Roy coming to me and letting me know he is ok. God, I want to believe that is true.
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Thank you Karen. But do you ever get mad that your son has gone besides grieve? I'm mad since my sister's time wasn't now. She fought with every new chemo drug on the market known to man and they still failed her (she even flew to North Carolina to try something new). Even to the end, she could never accept the fact that she was dying because she had fought so hard for so long and that no chemo drug could save her now. She really wanted to live and even my mom said so. I guess in time I'll deal with that but that's why I wish I could hear from her that she has finally accepted it. Take care.
Hi Melissa, my name is karen, and i just joined after i saw your story. my heart goes out to you, but most of all, i can relate to you, and i do understand what ur saying about the cell phone thing. I went thru that,after my only son was killed in a motorcycle accident. the love of my life, my pride and joy, gone. gone forever. And so many strange things happen with his cell phone, and so many other strange things. It made me feel better, knowing that other people go thru this stuff also, and im not crazy. . But to talk to people who have never gone thru, they just think ur crazy. I really think ur boyfriend was telling you he was ok, and is doing good,and will keep you safe, he was telling you not to cry. Have you ever read sylvia brown books? she is really good,and i belive her, cause of the grief,and all the strange things i went thru. I belive in what she says. She says this is hell,here on earth. Are love ones are in a great place,and they know how much we miss them. Stay strong melissa, he is looking over you at all times, and wants you to stay strong. God bless.
Dear Karen, I just lost my son in a motorcycle accident last month 6/22/09, My heart is broken in a million pieces....How do I survive this and keep the faith?????
Karen Monsalve said:Hi Melissa, my name is karen, and i just joined after i saw your story. my heart goes out to you, but most of all, i can relate to you, and i do understand what ur saying about the cell phone thing. I went thru that,after my only son was killed in a motorcycle accident. the love of my life, my pride and joy, gone. gone forever. And so many strange things happen with his cell phone, and so many other strange things. It made me feel better, knowing that other people go thru this stuff also, and im not crazy. . But to talk to people who have never gone thru, they just think ur crazy. I really think ur boyfriend was telling you he was ok, and is doing good,and will keep you safe, he was telling you not to cry. Have you ever read sylvia brown books? she is really good,and i belive her, cause of the grief,and all the strange things i went thru. I belive in what she says. She says this is hell,here on earth. Are love ones are in a great place,and they know how much we miss them. Stay strong melissa, he is looking over you at all times, and wants you to stay strong. God bless.
Hello. I have had a lot of death over the last year. And of all deaths, i would love to have some sign from my father. I pray and wait and wait for some type of sign he is okay. I do know deep down in my heart that he is okay but i would love a sign. My nephew committed suicide September of 2008. I think or felt that i did receive a sign from him. But i want something from my dad. My aunt told me that i will not receive anything from my dad because he knows i am okay. But i am not okay. I am hanging on by a thread everyday. I would take even a dream would be nice. Continuing to wait..........
That is so great that he came through like that for you. He is with you always, tell him you still love him, (smile) My experiences I know alot of people won't believe. A close friend of mine told me to start paying attention, then the day came and unexpected I got this chilling cold air, almost like you can see your breathe in the winter. Mine you, it was 74 degrees in my house. I knew it was my family on the other side. Five of them in front of me getting my attention. Yes, I cried alot to. Lost two brothers four months apart. The other three were few years apart. Often time I just sit on my couch and my right leg always get extremely cold. Tonight, I was on computer, hum, I felt this hand of some sort on my left shoulder area, I thought it was my husband, and I turned to say something to him and realized it was not him. Butterflys is what I always see, white birds flying low around the house. One morning I saw two humming birds out my backdoor, just sitting there. LOL I just knew in my heart it was my mother and father. If we all just slow down as I said previous in a response, we can see the signs. Honestly just burn a white candle each day and talk to them on the other side. Ask for any little signs and you will see. That was the advice my best friend gave me over two years ago, at first I was frustrated, but then realized that there is to be no interuptions while doing this. Hope this helps in some ways. Much love to everyone in here and God bless you all. Our angles are always with us.
Melissa said:My boyfriend always felt bad when I would get upset and start crying. If we were having a serious conversation and my eyes started to fill with tears he would make a funny face at me til I either smiled or laughed. After his sudden death on Christmas Eve morning he came to me in his way. 2 days after he died, I was on the phone with my friend and was hysterically crying. All of a sudden I dropped my signal on my cell phone. When I looked at my phone, I had 3 bars. Every time I cried on the phone I dropped my call but it never happened when I wasn't crying. Then later that night at work (we worked together at the same bar), I started breaking down again. As I cried the light outside the front door, where I was working, began to flicker. I stopped crying. Later when I started crying again, the light flickered again. The light switch is in the office where no one was at. That light has never flickered before or since then. I believe it was his way to make me stop crying since he couldn't make a face at me....may sound stupid but that's what I believe.
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