Tami said:Dear Karen, I just lost my son in a motorcycle accident last month 6/22/09, My heart is broken in a million pieces....How do I survive this and keep the faith?????
Karen Monsalve said:Hi Melissa, my name is karen, and i just joined after i saw your story. my heart goes out to you, but most of all, i can relate to you, and i do understand what ur saying about the cell phone thing. I went thru that,after my only son was killed in a motorcycle accident. the love of my life, my pride and joy, gone. gone forever. And so many strange things happen with his cell phone, and so many other strange things. It made me feel better, knowing that other people go thru this stuff also, and im not crazy. . But to talk to people who have never gone thru, they just think ur crazy. I really think ur boyfriend was telling you he was ok, and is doing good,and will keep you safe, he was telling you not to cry. Have you ever read sylvia brown books? she is really good,and i belive her, cause of the grief,and all the strange things i went thru. I belive in what she says. She says this is hell,here on earth. Are love ones are in a great place,and they know how much we miss them. Stay strong melissa, he is looking over you at all times, and wants you to stay strong. God bless.
My wife died on her birtday on April 16,2009. I have many stories to tell of her giving signs to me. Got the car insurance bill this past month due April 16 and my heating bill due May 6, my birthday. This is not coincidental as many more things happened during the first year, including the exact time of her death to all of the family, who were there. I actually love it 'cause I know she is still there in spirit.
Randolph L. Schrader said:My wife died on her birtday on April 16,2009. I have many stories to tell of her giving signs to me. Got the car insurance bill this past month due April 16 and my heating bill due May 6, my birthday. This is not coincidental as many more things happened during the first year, including the exact time of her death to all of the family, who were there. I actually love it 'cause I know she is still there in spirit.
I just woke up from a dream with Daddy. I was on the phone with him and he told me that anytime I wanted to talk to him, just to talk to him and he would be listening. And he also told me that he loved me and always will. I am trying to believe that was his own way of coming through, but somehow I also believe that it is me trying to make myself feel better about it and brought it upon my own thoughts/dreams. It was weird, because after he hung up, I tried to tell him I loved him, but he had hung up and I started yelling, because at that point he was gone and reality struck that he was not alive... I woke up after I started yelling to my husband.... "I miss my daddy!!!" It was strange to hear and see all this, but would like to think Daddy was telling me something.
Julie, i agree with you. I think some of us are a little more "sensitive" than others.. in feeling... there has been a horrible tragedy in our town recently, where two sisters commited suicide 7 months apart. Both girls (in spirit) have already visited us..I have tried very hard to wake up their family members.. but im sure they think i belong in a looney bin so be it.. but i have asked them (the girls) to go where they need to go. I didn't "create" their environment that shook up their lives and honestly it's very very draining at this time. Blessings to them big time!! And i've prayed to God to send his Angels down, and open their huge wings and scoop these tortured souls up to him. Prayers for everyone here one day at a time.
Julie said:I believe that we all are able to receive signs from our loved ones. Sometimes I believe we just don't "see" them. And other times, I believe we try to hard. My mother passed 5 years ago and I have received signs from her. I think that our loved ones are always around us and pay special attention to dreams, that is one easy way for them to get through.
oh yes. my deceased husband left me a message today, i was thinking of him and dinkin around on my computer and had to get up to do something. when i got back, there was a shiney new 2008 penny in chair that was not there before. my husband passed 2 years ago. april 1, 2008. ive been asking the higher powers to help me win the lottery or something to get out of this financial mess i am in. it was either him or jesus, maybe it was both. it feels more comfortable now then before. i could feel him sitting on the bed or laying down with me. i dont think i was imagining it. and even if i was, i dont care. i think theres alot of things that go on when they pass. a really good book i picked up, is called "healing the greatest hurt". if you had any religious upbringing this may make sense for you. just thought id share