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Permalink Reply by Susan - Donny's Mom on February 23, 2011 at 9:19am

@ C Ross

I believe that one....too ironic that it was at that moment.  He was sending you a warm sign to give you comfort.

Permalink Reply by River of Tears on February 23, 2011 at 3:29pm

Dear C Ross,  As others have shared with you that this is a wonderful and loving sign by your Brother that as only for you at that moment for that love you shared was one that could not be broken .  In a way that he only knew he could right at that time , when you were alone with him .  This I know for my Sister too left me opening her eyes yet one  looking straing at me for one more time after days of not waking up as I laid beside her before she passed . So who is to tell us how our loved ones will want to reach out to us and how we may someday do the same for all those we may have to leave on day too .  The love we know and share is one that we were blessed to have .  There is yet a science or medical book that can truly be absolute is what happens as you had that moment with your Brother .  A lasting one at that .   As though he was reaching out to you , for your heart to only hear .  Something that has touched the many that have now read what you have shared ,to see that anything is possible . 

Thank for sharing that loving moment you shared with your brother with all of us . If only science would look at things with love, maybe then they would know that this is possible too . 

  Who says what God and  Our loved ones will do to show us how much they loved us too ,  in life and in passing , but them .  

 

May loving signs and messages come to all of you .

 

Please take care

Permalink Reply by River of Tears on February 24, 2011 at 3:03am

Dear C Ross ,   Maybe this is where the "Touched by an Angel " Statement came from . Who's to say buy what a wonderful thought just knowing that  maybe your Brother as many have been IE: Have had signs from now " Angels ,our loved ones."  No matter how it is , it is a sign that they are sending .  Hoping they know that we so love them and miss them no matter how much time will pass they will be forever in our hearts .

 

To all , may we all be " Touched by Angels " as it seems C Ross and many many have been .  Many things end when someone passes away yet the one fortunate blessing is Love will always be there in our hearts .  

~Up early as always thinking of all of you and  what you have shared .   Thinking every moment of my days of my Sister , Mother and Father who all went to heaven at the same time .    Angels with your loved ones now ,to live in peace and joy .

Please take care

River of Tears said:

Dear C Ross,  As others have shared with you that this is a wonderful and loving sign by your Brother that as only for you at that moment for that love you shared was one that could not be broken .  In a way that he only knew he could right at that time , when you were alone with him .  This I know for my Sister too left me opening her eyes yet one  looking sharing at me for one more time after days of not waking up as I laid beside her before she passed . So who is to tell us how our loved ones will want to reach out to us and how we may someday do the same for all those we may have to leave on day too .  The love we know and share is one that we were blessed to have .  There is yet a science or medical book that can truly be absolute is what happens as you had that moment with your Brother .  A lasting one at that .   As though he was reaching out to you , for your heart to only hear .  Something that has touched the many that have now read what you have shared ,to see that anything is possible . 

Thank for sharing that loving moment you shared with your brother with all of us . If only science would look at things with love, maybe then they would know that this is possible too . 

  Who says what God and  Our loved ones will do to show us how much they loved us too ,  in life and in passing , but them .  

 

May loving signs and messages come to all of you .

 

Please take care

Permalink Reply by River of Tears on February 25, 2011 at 4:27am

Has anyone else felt this the hug or embrace of your loved one .  Is this a sign ?    As many days have been a challenge ones wondering how it is that I can even go about my days now with out my Sister here or my Mother to call or my Father .  On some days I will be just walking most times when I am feeling great pain , and then I feel this embrace that I used to have from my Sister .  Am I just imagining this ?  It feels just like hers not like anyone .  The gentle and loving hug that she only could give . The one we would give to each other when we would first see each other and when we would say goodbye , the someone we gave to each other dozens of times in the hospital before she closed her eyes .  Is this just something I want to be , or can this be true as all the signs I think may be from them or can it really be .  Or is it because I have not slept for months at least not for more then a few hours here and there .  When I read what all of you have shared it gives me such hope and the million of pieces that my heart is in now that it is shattered is so happy for you that you were in a sense touched by " your angel " in a way they choose to come to you .   I am not sure this morning at least .   Maybe it is the pain has hit another level of depth even though months now have passed .  Though along I know that it is the love that we all have for our loved one and their love for us , as love that many may not understand or sad ever be blessed with in life may be what brings these signs to us .     Wishing I could send a sign to her as well as my Father and Mother . Is there a way other then talking out loud in a room by myself to them telling them I love them more then words will be able to express . Wishing only that I had taken the gift of time I was granted with to do more say more and hold on to them as that hug now I am feeling from my Sister .    I do not know but it does bring a bit of comfort just in the thought that it may be true.

 

Blessings to all

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Permalink Reply by River of Tears on February 26, 2011 at 1:19pm

Dear Melinda Ellen Guinn , When I could not sleep last night which seems to what happens often , I find that I hear to read what others have shared  here at   Legacy .  Once I read the first few words that you wrote " I believe it is your sister " this is all it took , and I started to cry .  Just those words that you gave to me was as though you confirmed something that something so dear to my heart even beyond the sense that she came to hug me . What it was it felt as though there was a confirmation of a relationship that was greater then any I have ever had before .  That she was truly my Sister not just by blood or in growing up she was so apart of me .  That you some how believed that this could actually happen as it so beautifully happen with you and your Daughter .  As though your Daughter came to you to be present like no one else could be , that you knew when she was right beside you .   How loving and what a imagine of her there with you which again kept my tears there not for me but for you .     Amazing how just few words from another can connect to ones heart  .  May many hugs and comforting signs be what she sends to you .

 Many Blessing and comfort to all in each sign you may see or feel from the one you loved ,that now may have returned to help us heal .    

 

 

 

Melinda Ellen Guinn said:

I believe it IS your sister. Since my daughter, Candace Rae Watson, passed, I've felt her TWICE! The first time was a couple days after she passed. I actually FELT her rubbing my arms up and down as if to comfort me and let me know she's OK. Tha next time was on her birthday, Feb-11. Both times she was standing behind me. On her birthday she touched my shoulder to let me know she was w/me. She passed April 9,'10. I miss my just turned 30 yr old Baby soo much! I can't wait to see her on the "other side". I KNOW she's w/loved ones and a friend of hers who was killed. 
River of Tears said:

Has anyone else felt this the hug or embrace of your loved one .  Is this a sign ?    As many days have been a challenge ones wondering how it is that I can even go about my days now with out my Sister here or my Mother to call or my Father .  On some days I will be just walking most times when I am feeling great pain , and then I feel this embrace that I used to have from my Sister .  Am I just imagining this ?  It feels just like hers not like anyone .  The gentle and loving hug that she only could give . The one we would give to each other when we would first see each other and when we would say goodbye , the someone we gave to each other dozens of times in the hospital before she closed her eyes .  Is this just something I want to be , or can this be true as all the signs I think may be from them or can it really be .  Or is it because I have not slept for months at least not for more then a few hours here and there .  When I read what all of you have shared it gives me such hope and the million of pieces that my heart is in now that it is shattered is so happy for you that you were in a sense touched by " your angel " in a way they choose to come to you .   I am not sure this morning at least .   Maybe it is the pain has hit another level of depth even though months now have passed .  Though along I know that it is the love that we all have for our loved one and their love for us , as love that many may not understand or sad ever be blessed with in life may be what brings these signs to us .     Wishing I could send a sign to her as well as my Father and Mother . Is there a way other then talking out loud in a room by myself to them telling them I love them more then words will be able to express . Wishing only that I had taken the gift of time I was granted with to do more say more and hold on to them as that hug now I am feeling from my Sister .    I do not know but it does bring a bit of comfort just in the thought that it may be true.

 

Blessings to all

Permalink Reply by Melinda Ellen Guinn on February 26, 2011 at 2:16pm

To River of Tears, I believe there are many dimensions. Candace's "spirit" went to another dimension when her body died. I'm still trying to figure it all out. I know my Baby didn't leave her family and me. I know she did in one sense, the 3-dimentional one. I'm not a scientist, but I do read things and there is alot of talk about "the other side". Look how long Jesus has been talked about! There is much more to this universe than we know. I KNOW i'll be w/my Baby, Candace Rae Watson again! Note: in PCH where you put in a word or words to find something, put in Melinda Ellen Guinn. It says a couple things I believe. (i didn't even know it was there, I was searching for something and saw it!)

Permalink Reply by JOYCE MASHER, 4 Amy 5158791808 on February 27, 2011 at 9:28pm

I watched this on TLC the other night with my husband. I think it aired last year, and not sure if it will be on again, Paranormal Court, renowned psychic medium Robert Hansen

This man helped family members supposedly unknown by him get answers from their deceased loved ones to settle questions and a few arguments. I did a search on youtube and there are videos of what was on. 

 http://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=paranormal+court&aq=f

Someone else said they couldnt find it on TLC web site, and when I searched it shows dates of 2010. Maybe its a repeat but it was very interesting to say the least.

Some of what one family was going thru hit home here. What to do with our childrens room and things. Who gets posession of a cross necklace and a car for two families.  One was about how their child was found and that there is a person involved that knows how she died.

If anyone watches the clips or the shows, let me know how you feel about it. I thought it was interesting and hopefully true. It just gives us something else to hold on too. that they are truely with us.

luv to all. hugs 

Permalink Reply by River of Tears on February 28, 2011 at 3:10am

Dear Melinsa Ellen Guinn,  Thank you for your response , sometime just hearing it from another puts many of you doubts or wonderments in perspective or at least for me I can reach a place in my heart that I have such joy and hope for you and all that know this .  I guess for me , allot of it is still my Guilt , the guilt that many may carry , not even one that make sense to others that you may feel that you were apart of ones passing or that you did not do enough for them in life .  It is a guilt that comes from my soul of all that I wanted to do for my Sister and Mother and Father that I just never did or failed to do , or was unable to be the one to help them .  This to me is still what holds me from ever thinking I even , worthy to being with them again .  Which now in saying that many will think she is really in deep trouble , well may be I am , maybe it is that I know I will not be at least at the same level or dimension that they are all at which saddens me that I may never see them again .  Still something I need to work through . not an easy one at that yet , one I read what you have shared or others hopes are that this brings a bit of light to what I used to always say to others .  A belief that I held that we all will be together again not matter what has happened in life .  Though right now I have become my own judge and jury that is not lenient and have already committed my to a sentence that I feel I deserve .  Yet it is interesting as I move through my days now I still want to be there for anyone and do what I can , yet this will never make us for what I only hoped to do for my family .  

To think f Candace waiting for you or maybe not even that for the love you express seems as though she is right beside you all the way .    You have shared words of hope for me if not to see that others still believe and know that they will be together again . This is how it what love is how could it ever end .   Unless it is as me , wishing she had been more , or stepped up to the plate . or actually took in the words of one that told me a day after my Sisters passing of where I deserved to go .  A deminsion far deeper then anyone would want to go .    Maybe now I realize that if only I had , then others would not see this in me and say what they had .    If only to see them in passing as I travel to where I destined go that even now seems better them not seeing them ever , since I can not let them go .  These words come from a sad and broken heart today , though I pray and know that all of you will see your loved ones once again some day .

 

Blessing to all of you , and thank you for the words of perspective and words from your heart

 

 

Melinda Ellen Guinn said:

To River of Tears, I believe there are many dimensions. Candace's "spirit" went to another dimension when her body died. I'm still trying to figure it all out. I know my Baby didn't leave her family and me. I know she did in one sense, the 3-dimension one. I'm not a scientist, but I do read things and there is alto of talk about "the other side". Look how long Jesus has been talked about! There is much more to this universe than we know. I KNOW I will be w/my Baby, Candace Rae Watson again! Note: in PCH where you put in a word or words to find something, put in Melinda Ellen Guinn. It says a couple things I believe. (i didn't even know it was there, I was searching for something and saw it!)

Permalink Reply by River of Tears on February 28, 2011 at 3:33am

Dear JOYCE MASHER ,  Amy's mom, 
After just reading what Melinda had to share I then came to your entry , maybe this is all through both of you that I too take a look at the web site that you have left for all to take a look at .

Even in your sadness of your pain as others it seems that all have a way to reach out to one another to be there in anyway they can .  This is why I have found Legacy a place a haven shall I say a place to find comfort in a world that in itself has so many dimensions of how others are or where it is to be now that ones world is at maybe in itself at a different dimension since our love ones have passed . Not that of heaven or the one all may have a belief in . A deminsion of sort that takes you to on a journey that you never wanted or asked for  . One that we all know some day will happen to us all , yet when it does it is not a pain that has a deeper meaning a feeling that one can cover up with a band aid so it can not be seeing .     When I get up each morning I say good morning to my Sister Mother and Father who all have passed and today I nearly gasped , I felt my Grandfather and Grand Mother ( who I never met ) right there saying " Good Morning "  The room was silent though I thought to hear their voice yet is this a sign or a hope I am not sure , so I am going take your gesture of kindness and advice ..  Thank you for the You tube address .   Not sure why I am scared but I am .  Maybe it is just that I have been hoping so long for so much I worry that I may be wrong ..

 

Please take care ..  Blessing to all

 

 

 
JOYCE MASHER, Amy's mom said:

I watched this on TLC the other night with my husband. I think it aired last year, and not sure if it will be on again, Paranormal Court, renowned psychic medium Robert Hansen

This man helped family members supposedly unknown by him get answers from their deceased loved ones to settle questions and a few arguments. I did a search on you-tube and there are videos of what was on. 

 http://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=paranormal+court&aq=f

Someone else said they couldn't find it on TLC web site, and when I searched it shows dates of 2010. Maybe its a repeat but it was very interesting to say the least.

Some of what one family was going thru hit home here. What to do with our childrens room and things. Who gets posession of a cross necklace and a car for two families.  One was about how their child was found and that there is a person involved that knows how she died.

If anyone watches the clips or the shows, let me know how you feel about it. I thought it was interesting and hopefully true. It just gives us something else to hold on too. that they are truly with us.

luv to all. hugs 

Permalink Reply by JOYCE MASHER, 4 Amy 5158791808 on February 28, 2011 at 8:57pm

I think we all want some kind of answer for what has happened in our lives, whether it be religion, the Bible/books, stories of others who have had Near Death Experiences and now tell their stories. We always want an answer to the unknown. We grasp at whatever it is that calms us or comforts us. I am good one day after hearing or reading or watching any of these answers, and then I start to think again, and I end up just crying. I tell my friends and family, I am not ok, but getting better. I talk about her all the time with a strong heart and then later I break down. I feel like I can hold it in just so long.

As much as we find some peace, we as humans will always still miss our loved ones. I think we dont want to let go or ever forget them and the further time goes on, we may feel like that. I think our brains are meant to forget some things but maybe we just dont want to. I am glad this site is here for us to help each other. Any signs we get, even if was in a dream or some kind of not awake state, make us feel good. I hope they had a part in it.  

I cant say that I am afraid of death, I think I am afraid to go too soon. I think I have unfinished things, but not sure what they are. I am a grandmother to one 3 yr old of my older son. My other son just got divorced. I do know that if I or my husband were to pass on, she will be taken care of by her parents. So, as much as people say, you have family, I sorta feel I have done my part. Ball in their court now, lol. As for my daughter, there will be no children. My parents are still living and they too have done their part. I just dont want to be a burden to anyone and hope that when the time comes, it is quick. So from what I see or read and watch, the Angels will take us and we will be with those who have gone before us, whether out of order as we say, or not.

hugs and God bless all as we continue to heal somehow in this cruel world.

 

ps: my Amy's best girl friend in the world, told me that she saw and talked to my Amy right after she passed. not sure of the date or how soon after. She asked her, Are you in Heaven?, and she told me, that Amy said, "well, let me tell you, it was a journey!" She described her standing with her arms folded wearing jeans and one of her hoodies that she was known for. Another person said, that night he had a dream with her in it, and she had a look on her face, like, What the $%^%$$#? I believe it was a swear word,lol. I have been told also by my mom in law, she felt a hand on her under the blankets, and said to her sister, Pam, stop it. But the person said back to her, Gram, its me, Amy. and then she was gone!! She said this was not a dream.

I have had my cell receive a call from her phone. It was in the possession of my dinlaw, and she told me that day, there was no way she could have called me. it was in her vehicle in teh parking lot at work and she was not on break at that time. I took a picture of the call. it later was not on my phone and not in my list of calls of my bill. That was the day we picked up her police report. Small thinigs have happened, and we take them all as signs. Just need something to hold on too. Also, wish we could do it on command, that would be great!!!

 

River of Tears said:

Dear JOYCE MASHER ,  Amy's mom, 
After just reading what Melinda had to share I then came to your entry , maybe this is all through both of you that I too take a look at the web site that you have left for all to take a look at .

Even in your sadness of your pain as others it seems that all have a way to reach out to one another to be there in anyway they can .  This is why I have found Legacy a place a haven shall I say a place to find comfort in a world that in itself has so many dimensions of how others are or where it is to be now that ones world is at maybe in itself at a different dimension since our love ones have passed . Not that of heaven or the one all may have a belief in . A deminsion of sort that takes you to on a journey that you never wanted or asked for  . One that we all know some day will happen to us all , yet when it does it is not a pain that has a deeper meaning a feeling that one can cover up with a band aid so it can not be seeing .     When I get up each morning I say good morning to my Sister Mother and Father who all have passed and today I nearly gasped , I felt my Grandfather and Grand Mother ( who I never met ) right there saying " Good Morning "  The room was silent though I thought to hear their voice yet is this a sign or a hope I am not sure , so I am going take your gesture of kindness and advice ..  Thank you for the You tube address .   Not sure why I am scared but I am .  Maybe it is just that I have been hoping so long for so much I worry that I may be wrong ..

 

Please take care ..  Blessing to all

 

 

 
JOYCE MASHER, Amy's mom said:

I watched this on TLC the other night with my husband. I think it aired last year, and not sure if it will be on again, Paranormal Court, renowned psychic medium Robert Hansen

This man helped family members supposedly unknown by him get answers from their deceased loved ones to settle questions and a few arguments. I did a search on you-tube and there are videos of what was on. 

 http://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=paranormal+court&aq=f

Someone else said they couldn't find it on TLC web site, and when I searched it shows dates of 2010. Maybe its a repeat but it was very interesting to say the least.

Some of what one family was going thru hit home here. What to do with our childrens room and things. Who gets posession of a cross necklace and a car for two families.  One was about how their child was found and that there is a person involved that knows how she died.

If anyone watches the clips or the shows, let me know how you feel about it. I thought it was interesting and hopefully true. It just gives us something else to hold on too. that they are truly with us.

luv to all. hugs 

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