Do you believe in the supernatural? Do you think that anyone has ever tried to contact you or send you signs from the other side?

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Dear Joyce Masher , Amy's mom ,  Your words I cant say I am afraid of death , I think I am afraid to go to soon . Were words that were so profound yet so pure of heart for the love you have for you family as anyone would read what you have to share . 

 My parents nor my sister as much that they had to go through they never were afraid of death either , they just wanted to do so much in life , they so appreciated each moment that were given . They never looked for what they could take rather what they could give . When reading what you wrote this is how they too lived .  I too only hope now to do something of worth in life if not for them then for others. For this life and what now seems to have changed to be one of functioning more then living is one that I only hope someday that I too can start giving back .  It is through the writings of you and others that I seem to be maybe seeing signs of what seems to be such a mystery to me , a mystery that was something I used to live by naturally , yet feel so much guilt that I did not do enough when my family was here .  I know I will never be able to make up or do enough to make up for what I only hoped to do for if to try I would have to stay alive for 1000 of years. But if only to give on day to another , or to be kind ,as my family was each and everyday this will never pardon me from what I only hoped to do it may only help not me but hopefully another along the way .   Just in the words I read each day at Legacy I am starting to believe these have become signs or sort to me ,  to read ,to hear , to feel for another , a sign that is so like those I loved that are no longer here that I if to see this all a new day it will make.

 

I thank you .  and please to take to each of you  .  Continued " Signs"

 

I did mention that I felt my Grand Parents so close , well they are still here.  If I knew I would have cleaned my house , yet there is such a comfort and love from them just by their presence . Not sure why they have come to me though they are forever welcomed family in my "messy house"   Maybe this is why, to get me to clean finally .   Take care .. to all .  

Maybe the house is not only what I live in,   but  the mess that comes with all this pain .   Here to guide me through . If only that were to be true .    ( they passed away over 40 years ago ).

 

 


JOYCE MASHER, Amy's mom said:

I think we all want some kind of answer for what has happened in our lives, whether it be religion, the Bible/books, stories of others who have had Near Death Experiences and now tell their stories. We always want an answer to the unknown. We grasp at whatever it is that calms us or comforts us. I am good one day after hearing or reading or watching any of these answers, and then I start to think again, and I end up just crying. I tell my friends and family, I am not OK, but getting better. I talk about her all the time with a strong heart and then later I break down. I feel like I can hold it in just so long.

As much as we find some peace, we as humans will always still miss our loved ones. I think we don't want to let go or ever forget them and the further time goes on, we may feel like that. I think our brains are meant to forget some things but maybe we just don't want to. I am glad this site is here for us to help each other. Any signs we get, even if was in a dream or some kind of not awake state, make us feel good. I hope they had a part in it.  

I cant say that I am afraid of death, I think I am afraid to go too soon. I think I have unfinished things, but not sure what they are. I am a grandmother to one 3 yr old of my older son. My other son just got divorced. I do know that if I or my husband were to pass on, she will be taken care of by her parents. So, as much as people say, you have family, I sorta feel I have done my part. Ball in their court now, lol. As for my daughter, there will be no children. My parents are still living and they too have done their part. I just dint want to be a burden to anyone and hope that when the time comes, it is quick. So from what I see or read and watch, the Angels will take us and we will be with those who have gone before us, whether out of order as we say, or not.

hugs and God bless all as we continue to heal somehow in this cruel world.

 

ps: my Amy's best girl friend in the world, told me that she saw and talked to my Amy right after she passed. not sure of the date or how soon after. She asked her, Are you in Heaven?, and she told me, that Amy said, "well, let me tell you, it was a journey!" She described her standing with her arms folded wearing jeans and one of her hoodies that she was known for. Another person said, that night he had a dream with her in it, and she had a look on her face, like, What the $%^%$$#? I believe it was a swear word,lol. I have been told also by my mom in law, she felt a hand on her under the blankets, and said to her sister, Pam, stop it. But the person said back to her, Gram, its me, Amy. and then she was gone!! She said this was not a dream.

I have had my cell receive a call from her phone. It was in the possession of my dinlaw, and she told me that day, there was no way she could have called me. it was in her vehicle in teh parking lot at work and she was not on break at that time. I took a picture of the call. it later was not on my phone and not in my list of calls of my bill. That was the day we picked up her police report. Small thinigs have happened, and we take them all as signs. Just need something to hold on too. Also, wish we could do it on command, that would be great!!!

 


River of Tears said:

Dear JOYCE MASHER ,  Amy's mom, 
After just reading what Melinda had to share I then came to your entry , maybe this is all through both of you that I too take a look at the web site that you have left for all to take a look at .

Even in your sadness of your pain as others it seems that all have a way to reach out to one another to be there in anyway they can .  This is why I have found Legacy a place a haven shall I say a place to find comfort in a world that in itself has so many dimensions of how others are or where it is to be now that ones world is at maybe in itself at a different dimension since our love ones have passed . Not that of heaven or the one all may have a belief in . A deminsion of sort that takes you to on a journey that you never wanted or asked for  . One that we all know some day will happen to us all , yet when it does it is not a pain that has a deeper meaning a feeling that one can cover up with a band aid so it can not be seeing .     When I get up each morning I say good morning to my Sister Mother and Father who all have passed and today I nearly gasped , I felt my Grandfather and Grand Mother ( who I never met ) right there saying " Good Morning "  The room was silent though I thought to hear their voice yet is this a sign or a hope I am not sure , so I am going take your gesture of kindness and advice ..  Thank you for the You tube address .   Not sure why I am scared but I am .  Maybe it is just that I have been hoping so long for so much I worry that I may be wrong ..

 

Please take care ..  Blessing to all

 

 

 
JOYCE MASHER, Amy's mom said:

I watched this on TLC the other night with my husband. I think it aired last year, and not sure if it will be on again, Paranormal Court, renowned psychic medium Robert Hansen

This man helped family members supposedly unknown by him get answers from their deceased loved ones to settle questions and a few arguments. I did a search on you-tube and there are videos of what was on. 

 http://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=paranormal+court&aq=f

Someone else said they couldn't find it on TLC web site, and when I searched it shows dates of 2010. Maybe its a repeat but it was very interesting to say the least.

Some of what one family was going thru hit home here. What to do with our childrens room and things. Who gets posession of a cross necklace and a car for two families.  One was about how their child was found and that there is a person involved that knows how she died.

If anyone watches the clips or the shows, let me know how you feel about it. I thought it was interesting and hopefully true. It just gives us something else to hold on too. that they are truly with us.

luv to all. hugs 

Dear Legacy Friends,

    You may think that I may need a " white coat" and believe me I am starting to think it is more then a    fashion statement  .   It is if I may as is are there " signs" in the obvious , which is those now around us .

Maybe this thought comes to me for the lack of sleep is more of what is rather then an occasion event .  The pain that is the subtext of grief might as well be just defined as that Pain .  

   I have had he occasionally now signs that I am have taken my breath away  , but yet the question of the individuals now that have entered my life , are they there for a reason as a sign or am I just in such need and want that I am making them to be just that .

   Example :    A woman  intelligent, bit older then I , a family that does not visit or is able to , . Someone that just wants to share a moment of time to talk or to walk down the hall with to get her mail or to be able feel free to ask if I could pick up a bottle of Coke or Bread for her . ( though I find that now Coke has a trillion selections so I find myself calling her in the aisle .  Allot like it used to be when My Mother was her ..      Is she a SIGN or is it someone I needed or wanted to come into my life , but if you knew how much guilt I have you would see it walking in the room before I did .  The guilt of not being there enough for my Mother nor Father or my Sister yet now I will never have that chance . 

  Are people that come into out lives signs of sorts, not always ones  we  feel comfortable with as I am finding that I may have to step away for they are reminders of what I and my Sister tried to steer away from so that we could live a life of joy rather then one that some individuals deem that is their way of living for all .    Ones that I truly feel sad around that words and thoughts can cut to the core, yet again are these signs that I did not ask or expect or think we the signs that I was looking for .  Yet when they do come I have a sence the my Mother , Father and Sister are around trying to guide me in a way .

Or is this only my Need and Want  which sound terrible , for I never thought myself to need , other then to have for others and be all that I could for them  .A question I can never ask them my Family for they are all in heaven now .  Are these signs or are these wants and needs to see it in others .

 

I know for one thing the kindness  I have found here at Legacy if it is not a Sign from my Family now in Heaven then it is a Sign that each of you even through you pain have brought comfort to this one who may now be wearing the new winter white, come spring . 

 

Take care .  

To this John Micah.....I checked out your "page" and you have nothing to share....AND you have another page, same name.  One is a male from WA and the other is from ND.  

This discussion is about our personal feelings and our messages from our loved ones.  We are enjoying sharing our stories and do not appreciate people getting on religious beliefs.  We all believe something different and respect each others differences. 

We would appreciate if you would do the same.....if you continue to preach here on this discussion we will send a complaint to the main website and you will be removed.

You are welcome to be in this discussion but keep your beliefs to yourself please. Thank you!
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Susan - Donny's Mom said:

To this John Micah.....I checked out your "page" and you have nothing to share....AND you have another page, same name.  One is a male from WA and the other is from ND.  

This discussion is about our personal feelings and our messages from our loved ones.  We are enjoying sharing our stories and do not appreciate people getting on religious beliefs.  We all believe something different and respect each others differences. 

We would appreciate if you would do the same.....if you continue to preach here on this discussion we will send a complaint to the main website and you will be removed.

You are welcome to be in this discussion but keep your beliefs to yourself please. Thank you!

 

 

 

 

alls i can say to donnys mom is ....wow.......for someone who says we all respect each others differences and beliefs, you certainly didnt show any to him.......someone describing how they find comfort, eg. "the father", is WHY were here. isnt it the whole point of this forum.....? i certainly dont consider THAT "preaching"  

 

To john micah...........i dont think you HAVE to put something in your profile to be considered a "member" here for goodness sake. I hope that you have at least felt some comfort by writing what you wrote AND in reading what other people wrote..........its why we all come on here after all.

 

@C Ross.    I know I might have seemed harsh but we have been having trouble trying to keep this discussion open for members sharing different "signs" that they have experienced.  Mr. Micah was very light in his suggestions but I don't believe he has lost anyone and why does he have two different "pages" from 2 different states.....

If you look back on our posts here we have problems with people insisting that there can be no communication with our lost loved ones.  They go overboard with their beliefs and we have asked them to please start their own discussion forum.  If you do read the old posts you will see what I mean.

I never mean to get everyone upset about something.....sorry if I did.  I think HE knows what I am talking about though.

Thank you River, I KNOW it was my just turned 30 yr old Baby-girl! I always wondered about the "other side", now I have absolute proof!

Dear Melinda Ellen Guinn,   Isn't it amazing when it does happen , though it still something that unexplainable other then what you too must have felt .   Thank you for sharing . 

 Happy Birthday to your daughter , which is a difficult to say,yet it is a day that does have meaning a day that this wonderful loving person came to be .  

  When I look at the calender and see the it is the birthday of my  Sister or Mother or Fathers  it is one of difficulty yet if not for that day I would not have been so fortunate or blessed .  All born before me yet in that they welcomed me when I came to this world and loved me and shard time as the years went by . Years now that went to quickly .      

 

How beautiful that your daughter  came to you , do you think it could be to  thank you for her life and to tell you that she loves you . ?

.  My  Sister used to do this  on her Birthday rather the ever wanting anything she would make the first call to my parents and tell them both how much she loved them and to thank them for all they did for her mostly for her life    ..   Now she does not need to call as she is right there in heaven with them , for her to hug them and them to hug her and to truly see this wonderful and special daughter they had in life one that was a Sister and Friend to me . 

 

May continued Signs what ever they may be come to each of even if it may seem a bit off or strange for it may just be what what is for who knows other then our hearts . 

 

 

Thank you Melinda (I can now consider taking off this white coat that many may think I need to be wearing .)  Maybe ??

Take Care .

 

Blessings to All 

 

 

 

Melinda Ellen Guinn said:

Thank you River, I KNOW it was my just turned 30 yr old Baby-girl! I always wondered about the "other side", now I have absolute proof!

Melinda Ellen Guinn , Thank you ,  brought a smile one who doesn't often smile anymore .   . Though this  wearing  white coat of mine  it seems to have  adhered to me.      To think even to wear white before spring goodness gracious .  Yet with this pain of grief , ( one that has not map or guide to tell you how or what you will feel or the depth of it all ) maybe if not to be able to wrench it off yet its ok .  I often wished I had a roped to pull me out of the depth of it all .  And you know what , it may be that it is the kindness and care that someone like you and all that come to share that may in fact have been that rope or rather that hand for me or all to hang on to so that we all can walk together through this all .  

May I ask are you closer to the other side because you have not been fitted for a jacket or is it something more that you are facing yourself .  I ask this only because I have come to care about you and the many others that come to share .  Not that you have to say either .  

If it is that you just do not have the need for a Tailor as I have had for "white coats " even before spring then how wonderful and joyful that you have been able to be touch by you Daughter  . An Angel

 

 

Please take care , may the love in our hearts be the passage . 

 

Comfort to all .

 

A hand in turn that will hopefully reach out if one will need to just hang on , if not to just be , or to be able to able share .    To be present in a world that seems to be empty at times of what we all knew . 

 May a hand , a heart reach out to you .  

 



Melinda Ellen Guinn said:

River take that white coat off! You don't need to be wearing it any more than I do! I'm closer to the other side now. I'm privileged. 

Hello everyone.  I have to share something that happened this week.  My husband was going into a serious back surgery on Friday.  Everyone in the family was so concerned.  The day the Dr. scheduled his surgery was Donny's birthday (March 4th).  We all took that as a positive sign.  The night before the surgery, Donny's oldest daughter was out for dinner with her boyfriend.  When the change came back from paying they went to leave a tip and noticed that one dollar had something written on the corner.  On that corner was the word, "DON".   She came right to my home to show me that dollar.  She wanted her grandfather to have that dollar when he went in to surgery.

Well the surgery went better than good and we all felt Donny protected and was watching over his Dad that day.  If THAT isn't a "sign" I don't know what is....

We re going to frame that dollar.  Made us all have such a warm feeling.

Susan   Donny's Mom

River, I am by no means psychic, but I thik i've always been closer to the other side. When I was 10 yrs old (I'll neve forget it) 3 things came into my head, my thinking. It said when i was 12 I'd get a horse. When i was 19 something would change my life forever and at age 40 I would die. Well, right b/4 i turned 13 i got a pony. When i was 19 i met my daughter's father and he's still a good friend. At 40 I was involved in a terrible car accident that's left me disabled for life. Close but not exact. I think it was all predestined but somehow altered.

Dear Melinda Ellen Guinn,    If this is not being a definition of what it is to be psychic I not sure what is . Or it is that you have this special connection to this world that many may not have or yet have tapped in to .  I am so sorry about the accident you went through .  One that seems to cause such harm yet some how did not take your strength ..  Wonderful and touching images of of you getting a pony and still , and having a good friend in your Daughter's father ,    

  Sometimes I wish I would not absorb the world around me so much it is as though I feel and sense all around me .  Especially when just before my father and mother and sister all passed I felt a feeling that my Grand Parents were close by who had pasted on years before .  As if they came to be here to take them back .. I just recently felt them close by again which was both wonderful yet at the same time worrisome that some one else as my elderly aunts are nearing their time of passing .  

You seem to have such insight to life a it seems you did even at the age of 3 , something that has carried through out your life even sadly through such difficult times .  You have offered such comfort in what you share .   

I often wondered if all of this is predestined would we have wanted to know or is it better that we do not .   Hopefully your esp or deep insight to what this life is , will offer more  of the joy then just pain .   As I hope this for all the many others that come to share .

 

Please take care , and blessing to you and all

 


Melinda Ellen Guinn said:

River, I am by no means psychic, but I think I've always been closer to the other side. When I was 10 yrs old (I'll never forget it) 3 things came into my head, my thinking. It said when i was 12 I'd get a horse. When i was 19 something would change my life forever and at age 40 I would die. Well, right b/4 i turned 13 i got a pony. When i was 19 i met my daughter's father and he's still a good friend. At 40 I was involved in a terrible car accident that's left me disabled for life. Close but not exact. I think it was all predestined but somehow altered.

Susan:

 

That is wonderful our children does watch over us, but to let you know in 2 ways what a blessing you got

from your son, Jonathan use to give us signs like that but not as much anymore but that is giving me hope again, that we all can still get signs even though they have been gone longer mine is only 3 1/2 months but I miss my signs so much.

 

Terri  jonathan's mom

Susan - Donny's Mom said:

Hello everyone.  I have to share something that happened this week.  My husband was going into a serious back surgery on Friday.  Everyone in the family was so concerned.  The day the Dr. scheduled his surgery was Donny's birthday (March 4th).  We all took that as a positive sign.  The night before the surgery, Donny's oldest daughter was out for dinner with her boyfriend.  When the change came back from paying they went to leave a tip and noticed that one dollar had something written on the corner.  On that corner was the word, "DON".   She came right to my home to show me that dollar.  She wanted her grandfather to have that dollar when he went in to surgery.

Well the surgery went better than good and we all felt Donny protected and was watching over his Dad that day.  If THAT isn't a "sign" I don't know what is....

We re going to frame that dollar.  Made us all have such a warm feeling.

Susan   Donny's Mom

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