Messages from the other side

Do you believe in the supernatural? Do you think that anyone has ever tried to contact you or send you signs from the other side?

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Permalink Reply by Lanne Kowal on April 22, 2011 at 6:00pm

My name is LynneAnne and I lost my husband Larry in a tragic motorcycle crash on June 15, 2010. I was absolutely devestated by the news. I know my husband was right there with me when the police notified me of the crash because my legs went right out from under me, but somehow I never hit the ground. Sadly, the local police here just treated it as some freak accident. "It was late at night and he was just tired" is what they told me ..... They refuse to hear the fact that he worked nights so that is just a flat out lazy excuse on their part. Anyway, because I have gotten no justice YET for my husband, my loss has felt like it is doubled. There are so many times I see my husband's image flash near my bathroom right around 9:30 at night. That is what time he used to be getting ready to take a shower and get dressed for work. And I NEVER see the flash on a Friday or Saturday night. (He was off those nights)

Also, there are times when I am just sitting at home and I will suddenly just smell his Tommy Hilfiger cologne that he always wore. My husband and I also had cats that he absolutely adored ... and they adored him as well. Many nights, I will find my kitties sitting right by the little shrine I have for him where his ashes are, as well as a few of his other things. Sometimes they will even take one of their favorite toys and just drop it there with the other belongings that are with the ashes. They never went near that spot before. They used to take toys to him and drop them so that he would play with them and now its just so neat that they take the toys to his ashes.

One more thing .... because justice is still trying to be done, I have taken several pictures of the crash scene ... Sadly, my husband's death happened when he was ejected from the bike and hit the wall head on. But in every one of the pictures that I take of that wall, images of a face are all over in the picture on the wall. Especially the eyes. And believe it or not, the little bit of his hair that was ripped out when he hit that wall is STILL on that wall. Through all of the rain, wind, snow and everything else, it is still on that wall and it is 10 months later ...... I believe that my husband is with me all of the time, but he still leaves his little signs here and there just to let me know that he is always right here with me and that he loves me. I hope to always have these little things. I miss him so much. I think too that he gives me these things to thank me for not giving up on the fight to find out who cut his life short that night last summer. I love him still so very much and always will, and will not rest until justice is done for him. He did so much for me in our lives, and I will die trying if I have to - to find the person who killed him.

Permalink Reply by Melinda Ellen Guinn on April 22, 2011 at 6:49pm

You have my condolences. I'm on this site because my just turned 30 yr old daughter died on April 9, '10. Her and her husband wewr b-b-q-ing and they got into an arguement. He took their 3 little girls and went to his parents home for the night. When he came back the next morning, it looked like she had fallen asleep while playing a video game. She was sitting indian style with her head slumped down. He nudged her as he walked by. No response. She was turning black and rigor was setting in. My Baby was gone!! I'm going to his apt for Easter. He had his parents move in for help w/the girls. Ages 8,9 and 3. Candace came to me 2 days after she passed. I think she stayed at their home w/Mike and the girls. She loved them so much! They've been together since she was 15. The spirit DOES live on!
Lanne Kowal said: My name is LynneAnne and I lost my husband Larry in a tragic motorcycle crash on June 15, 2010. I was absolutely devestated by the news. I know my husband was right there with me when the police notified me of the crash because my legs went right out from under me, but somehow I never hit the ground. Sadly, the local police here just treated it as some freak accident. "It was late at night and he was just tired" is what they told me ..... They refuse to hear the fact that he worked nights so that is just a flat out lazy excuse on their part. Anyway, because I have gotten no justice YET for my husband, my loss has felt like it is doubled. There are so many times I see my husband's image flash near my bathroom right around 9:30 at night. That is what time he used to be getting ready to take a shower and get dressed for work. And I NEVER see the flash on a Friday or Saturday night. (He was off those nights)

Also, there are times when I am just sitting at home and I will suddenly just smell his Tommy Hilfiger cologne that he always wore. My husband and I also had cats that he absolutely adored ... and they adored him as well. Many nights, I will find my kitties sitting right by the little shrine I have for him where his ashes are, as well as a few of his other things. Sometimes they will even take one of their favorite toys and just drop it there with the other belongings that are with the ashes. They never went near that spot before. They used to take toys to him and drop them so that he would play with them and now its just so neat that they take the toys to his ashes.

One more thing .... because justice is still trying to be done, I have taken several pictures of the crash scene ... Sadly, my husband's death happened when he was ejected from the bike and hit the wall head on. But in every one of the pictures that I take of that wall, images of a face are all over in the picture on the wall. Especially the eyes. And believe it or not, the little bit of his hair that was ripped out when he hit that wall is STILL on that wall. Through all of the rain, wind, snow and everything else, it is still on that wall and it is 10 months later ...... I believe that my husband is with me all of the time, but he still leaves his little signs here and there just to let me know that he is always right here with me and that he loves me. I hope to always have these little things. I miss him so much. I think too that he gives me these things to thank me for not giving up on the fight to find out who cut his life short that night last summer. I love him still so very much and always will, and will not rest until justice is done for him. He did so much for me in our lives, and I will die trying if I have to - to find the person who killed him.

Permalink Reply by jennifer sutton on April 28, 2011 at 10:02pm

Hello! My name is Jennifer Sutton. I recently joined legacy.com as my mother passed away recently. She has been gone a month today!..... I have been smelling cigarrette smoke throughout my home the past two days! Both parents used to smoke intensly before passing ! (My dad seven yrs. prior). No onelse in our house hold smells what I smell! It is almost intense to the point of making my nose sore and a burning sensation! This lasted almost a year when my dad passed away,and I would notice this specifically at night while watching t.v. or going to bed.

I guess they are both letting me know they are with me!...... Jennifer

Permalink Reply by Lynn C on April 29, 2011 at 11:33am

jennifer sutton said:

Hello! My name is Jennifer Sutton. I recently joined legacy.com as my mother passed away recently. She has been gone a month today!..... I have been smelling cigarrette smoke throughout my home the past two days! Both parents used to smoke intensly before passing ! (My dad seven yrs. prior). No onelse in our house hold smells what I smell! It is almost intense to the point of making my nose sore and a burning sensation! This lasted almost a year when my dad passed away,and I would notice this specifically at night while watching t.v. or going to bed.

I guess they are both letting me know they are with me!...... Jennifer

Jennifer I am so glad you notice the signs they are sending you, don't think for a minute that they are not real because they are. Even though is is hard for us to lose the physical presence of the people we love they are very much with us. When you are in spirit you have to be more creative on how to get your messages through so we just say no it can't be and we miss so much that they are trying to tell us. The most important thing is love has no limits even from the afterlife, love goes beyond the grave and they never really leave us. My husband has been gone for two years and he makes his presence known in all different ways. Pennies, feathers, dreams, birds, music and even moving pictures. When the grief lifts and you adjust to your new life the signs will be there.

love to everyone,

LynnC

Permalink Reply by joanie london on May 1, 2011 at 9:36am

I never really beleived in signs from a deceased loved one. But, my husband died a year ago. I ofton smell his cologne, also, about a month ago while visiying his grave I noticed 2 beautiful silver geese near his site. I had never seen such a beautiful color of geese. Yesterday they were there again... Weird. I wonder if their is some kind of meaning to this...

Permalink Reply by joanie london on May 1, 2011 at 9:36am

joanie london said:

I never really beleived in signs from a deceased loved one. But, my husband died a year ago. I ofton smell his cologne, also, about a month ago while visiying his grave I noticed 2 beautiful silver geese near his site. I had never seen such a beautiful color of geese. Yesterday they were there again... Weird. I wonder if their is some kind of meaning to this...

Permalink Reply by Melinda Ellen Guinn on May 1, 2011 at 1:28pm

I know first hand also. My daughter, Candace Rae Watson, came to me. I felt her standing behind me and she rubbed my arms up and down twice. Comforting me! Prior to that, my room-mate passed in the hospitol from C. He made our smoke-alarm go off WITHOUT any batteries! I don't smoke in the house and I wasn't cooking. I was asleep and it woke me up!! He said he would and he did! We had removed the batteries from the alarm because we couldn't cook without it going off!

Permalink Reply by Sheryl McCormick on May 8, 2011 at 8:03am

I believe I have had many signs. Right after my husband died several light bulbs burned out within minutes around the house. I was home alone trying to sleep and felt so afraid to face life without him and prayed for God to please help me and hold me and at that moment I felt like I was being hugged very tight by someone very strong and was even lifted up by the embrace. I was afraid to share it because I thought that others would think I was crazy and my grief counselor told me she has heard countless stories like this from others and definitely agrees it was real - maybe an Angel was sent to comfort me or even a hug from my husband to comfort me. One morning I woke up to beautiful music playing and didn't know where it was coming from and then found that a CD in the computer started playing on its own. I have my husband's picture on my desktop and sometimes the picture changes to look like there are sun rays shining down on him - then it will go back to normal. It has happened three times at least - I had my son take a picture of is because I wanted to show others. I have had birds come very close to me just this last week a cardinal flew and landed on the driver's side rear view mirror and just stared at me and then he went to the front window to look at me. Two days later I was driving through a drive through restaurant and a sandhill crane was 4 feet away from me looking at me. I have never had this stuff happen to me before. The other thing that happened right after my husband died is that I could smell something burning in my house and couldn't find where it was coming from - my two sons could smell it too and we were looking for the source - it turned out to be the dryer hose was packed with lint. I have never smelled that before this. My brother and sons worked on replacing the dryer vent and also routed it so it was safer - the previous owner had a very long hose that should have never passed inspection. I feel all of these things are signs either from God to comfort me or God allowing my husband to reach out to me.

Permalink Reply by Melinda Ellen Guinn on May 8, 2011 at 6:24pm

I believe that when a "body" dies the spirit or soul leaves it and goes into the 5th dimension. That's where "energy" is. I'm still trying to figure it all out. My just turned 30 yr old baby, Candace Rae Watson.
She touched me twice! 2 days after she passed and on Valentine's Day. Maybe she's settled now and won't be touching me any more.

Permalink Reply by Sheila Horvath on May 8, 2011 at 8:22pm

I lost my fiance last week. We were so close. He was 44 and had a massive heart attack. He was doing good then he got the septic infection and passed away. Everyone tells me he is with me in spirit. I dont even know what that means. I dont feel him...I want to so bad. Every day I cry. I have never hurt so much. Him and I were soul mates. We were the fairy tale that everyone wishes they had. I just want to lay in my bed all day long and just cry. I dont know what to do with myself or how to deal with this. Do their souls leave and you never get any kind of a sign? Or do they look out for you? I dont understand any of this. All I know is now Im alone and I have never felt so numb or empty. Someone please help me? Thank you in advance

Permalink Reply by Sheryl McCormick on May 9, 2011 at 6:17am

Sheila I am sorry about your loss and the pain you are feeling. I guess I'd recommend a few books that might help and there are great articles on this site from experts too. I do believe in life after death personally due to my Christian faith. My husband was a believer too. I never thought that the dead could reach out to us until the loss of my husband this past November. Your loss is very new to you and your heart is breaking. Try to share your feelings with people you trust or will just listen and let you share - talking about our feelings is healing for us. I have a grief counselor and also attend a support group for people who have had a significant loss. Try to exercise - it helps. I read the Bible a lot Psalm 91 and Psalm 139, Psalm 34 are all very comforting to me. I will pray for you - I understand your sadness and I am sure you will hear from many others on this site that will encourage you and help you to not feel so alone in your hour of grief. God bless you and comfort you Sheila.

Permalink Reply by Sheila Horvath on May 10, 2011 at 4:30pm

Sheryl...I am also sorry for your loss...It is so hard to cope. I read a lot of things on here, not sure what kind of book to actually go get. Have you had signs from your husband? Can you feel him near? I wish I could Jeff. I just feel abanded. I try to talk to my friends...but some tell me I need to pick up and just move on. How do you do that? I am trying to continue life..but it's all changed now. God Bless you to...you are in my thoughts. BTW thank you so much for writing me! HUGS