Do you believe in the supernatural? Do you think that anyone has ever tried to contact you or send you signs from the other side?

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Elaine

I had a good dream last night. I have been asking Charlie to "wrap around" me. We always slept that way befor he had his transplant (after that his side was always too painful). In the dream/contact he did "wrap around" and it felt very real. Of course I begged him not to let go and tried to hold on to him - this only made me wake up sooner than I might have wanted to. I think it certainly means that he knows what I need and also that he doesn't have the pain anymore - very comforting.

I am so sorry about your losses. A child must be especially hard and Brian must have suffered a lot more than Charlie did. I lost my Dad four years ago and it was really hard, but it doesn't begin to compare to this. My mother is still living and I want to help her as much as I can, but I seem to be leaning on her. My brother and sisiter are very supportive but they both live across the country from me. I do have some good friends, but they want to do things and go to places to make me feel better and right now I don't want to run away. At the present time this group and some other online sites seem to do me the most good.

I'm going to try to stay on our farm in the house we lived in for 44 years. We have rented the land out for 13 years but there are still so many other things to be done here. Charlie was not always able to do much by himself, but together we could move mountains.

I think I do know Charlie is happy but I am still not willing to say that I want to live a lot longer without him.

When ever i have to call someone my husband didnt like me to talk to like his estranged brother or my youngest daughters father my cell phone will do the strangest things from drop out of signal even though it has several bars or theres this weird sound my girls describe it as sounding like a robot or aliens. i laugh.

But it never happens when i talk to anyone else just them two.

My electrical appliances are doing the same stuff they are all brand new yet first i was vacuming and it stopped working, i tried it several times over the last couple of weeks but nothing then i accidently plugged it in instead of my cell phone charger and it started, then my computer which was both my husbands and mine just crashed a few days later it came back on. my kettle wouldnt work now there is nothing wrong with it, the television was the weirdest cause it wouldnt work and i said please honey help me out and boom it came on, now my washing machine wont spin and its one of those smart sensor ones so im hoping in a few days it might start again. ive been feeling like im going crazy. our bedroom has a glass sliding door and every night i close it but every morning its open. my daughter said she didnt come in and it has a latch on the inside. our back door is also a glass sliding door and the other morning my daughter said mum you left the back door open all night but i knew i had locked it before going to bed but when she got up in the morning it was wide open. at first i thought someone broke in but nothing had been taken. the next night i was woken several times by loud noises through out the house and i was scared, checked the house but no one was there. sometimes i think i can hear someone knocking  as its really loud but there is never anyone there. am i going crazy, this stuff only started happening after my husband took his life 6 weeks ago

Hello Bethany King....I don't feel as if you are going crazy....My son w "Johnny"as murdered Sept.30, 2009. Since His death the same type of things has been happen at our home....The strangest one to me is my mother has been diagnosed with cancer after a long battle with COPD, anyway her nose started bleeding...really badly we tried all the old rememdies...ice pack, pinch the nose and etc....It wasn't until my mother said "Johnny are you going to just let your granny bleed to death?" At that time her nose just stopped bleeding. It has happen 3 other times since then and she asked the same question and got the same result. Doors open, food missing, remote controls moved and returned to places you and others has looked...My mother say she know it's Johnny because he use to love to play alot. I know I can feel his presence in my room...It stay ice cold in there without and air conditioner...we live in Texas and it gets very hot here.....So I am a believer that they do give us signs after they leave here...Mother is always saying that boy is in my bed....Even at 23 years old he would still come lay in the bed with his granny.....My mother also believe that Johnny is here to help her with her transition....



Bethany King said:

When ever i have to call someone my husband didnt like me to talk to like his estranged brother or my youngest daughters father my cell phone will do the strangest things from drop out of signal even though it has several bars or theres this weird sound my girls describe it as sounding like a robot or aliens. i laugh.

But it never happens when i talk to anyone else just them two.

My electrical appliances are doing the same stuff they are all brand new yet first i was vacuming and it stopped working, i tried it several times over the last couple of weeks but nothing then i accidently plugged it in instead of my cell phone charger and it started, then my computer which was both my husbands and mine just crashed a few days later it came back on. my kettle wouldnt work now there is nothing wrong with it, the television was the weirdest cause it wouldnt work and i said please honey help me out and boom it came on, now my washing machine wont spin and its one of those smart sensor ones so im hoping in a few days it might start again. ive been feeling like im going crazy. our bedroom has a glass sliding door and every night i close it but every morning its open. my daughter said she didnt come in and it has a latch on the inside. our back door is also a glass sliding door and the other morning my daughter said mum you left the back door open all night but i knew i had locked it before going to bed but when she got up in the morning it was wide open. at first i thought someone broke in but nothing had been taken. the next night i was woken several times by loud noises through out the house and i was scared, checked the house but no one was there. sometimes i think i can hear someone knocking  as its really loud but there is never anyone there. am i going crazy, this stuff only started happening after my husband took his life 6 weeks ago

Ok so i knew that strange things were happening to my appliance but i was in so much envy of you people that had felt physical contact from your loved ones and i was feeling so alone.

But last night was the first time i was on my own and i went through mine and my husbands usual routine before he died 7 weeks ago, dinner, shower, coffee and then went to bed and watched two movies whilst drifting in and out of sleep all night as i havent been able to sleep well since he died plagued by the visions of his passing anyway at 5am i woke up because i felt as though an icy cold wind was blowing in my face, the rest of me was warm and as i was wondering why i had felt it the blankets lifted as though someone was getting in bed with me, the t.v remote and blu rayer player remote which where on that side of the bed went flying and all of a sudden someone was on top of me, i was freezing and i couldnt move, my husband use to sit on top of me and pin my arms down to kiss me in a completely loving and playful way when i was always on the go. at first i was thinking i was still asleep but as i tried to reach for my phone my arms were pinned down. it scared the crap out of me at first, i got up and walked out of the room but when i went back in the remotes were no where to be found and when i realised the feeling i had felt it occured to me it maybe my husband so i got back in bed and i could still feel a presence there. im not scared anymore as i feel it was my husband but i just wasnt expecting it to happen like that, i thought maybe hed come to me in a dream or more strange things happening in the house but not quite as physical as this. has any one else had anything like this happen

I believe that our loved ones "peek in" every once in awhile and sometimes send us messages. I think that when a sign does come through rather than question it, accept it and embrace it. My mother and father have both passed. I miss them more than words could ever express. Although I am in my 40's, I sometimes feel like an orphan. It is an emptiness that never can be filled. Not too long ago I was sitting in my quiet room thinking about my mom and dad. I was crying and feeling sad when all of a sudden I heard a music box play. It did not last long and than it quit. I had never heard it before so I went through all of my music box collection to try to find the song that I heard. Could not find it. I was ready to give up when in my head I heard my mom's voice say, "Julie, don't give up that easily". And then I turned and looked at a picture I had of my mom and dad. I had this since they had passed and it had been in the same place since then. I picked it up and looked on the back...there was a winder and I turned it...I found the song. It was an anniversary song and it was their anniversary picture. I did not even know that there was a music box in it. But that was the song I heard.

A reply to Bethany....don't ever feel as if you are going crazy. The only crazy people are the ones that ignore the signs. Best of luck to you and I am sorry for your loss. Julie.

May 20, 2012 was the 4th anniversary of my son's death.  Aaron was killed in a motorcycle accident by a car pulling out into him.  I have been so blessed that right from that moment, my son has been trying to make contact with us to let us know that he is okay.  I did not completely believe in life after we die but now there is no doubt.  Aaron made communication with anyone that would listen to him to get me notice. Finally I was introduced to a medium that changed my life again.  I have had so many messages and confirmations from my son and I even can feel him and sometimes interpret the messages myself, although not as often as I would like.  I have written a book Aaron's Mailbox,and started a website and blog; www.aaronsmailbox.com ,  at his insistence, which I am happy to say is on the media list for this site also.  

Aaron has helped me, his family, friends and people that he never even knew since his passing.  That's exactly how he was in life too.  He is persistent in his efforts to get messages to me and that I help others to gain peace and healing in their own hearts.  It's so very difficult, to say the least, when someone that you love so much passes.  It must be so important for their spirits to help us in this healing process and that is why they are around us all, we simply need to notice them and their messages.

Check out my new post on my web site www.aaronsmailbox.  I update it often with messages that I have received or stories sent in from someone else.  I feel that it doesn't matter who's story it is, the end result is the same; to bring peace to our hearts.

Happy Birthday Bill, I love you

I know this may sound crazy to some of you but ever since my mother died a year ago I have this thing going on with red birds.It all started when I moved into another house after she died and there was a red bird that started coming to my window.At first it would come to the front and hit against it like it wanted in then it would go to the back of the house and hit up against that window and it was there everyday it would go to the front then find it's way to the back of the house always hitting against the windows,so I bought a bird feeder nd put out back and it would come everyday to the front then to the back hitting against the windows.I would see red birds everywhere I went at work just about anywhere I went everyday and they would also fly across the road in front of me while I was driving and that happens a whole lot.I just seem to see them all the time.I moved a few weeks ago and I was worried about my little red bird that would come to the windows.I left the bird feeder there hoping they will feed it.I said to myself I hope it finds it's way to my new home that I moved to which isn't far away from the one I lived before.I saw one the other day at my new home.I know it sounds crazy but I just feel that it's a sign from my mother letting me know she's ok and that she's always with me and always watching over me.

 

No. I don't believe this at all.

I think sometimes that God gives us precious things that bring joy to us. After my sis passed a white butterfly seemed to be around me often outside in the yard. When my son passed, a strange looking bird was just sitting on top of my car. It didn't leave as I approached. It just kind of danced around. It was the funniest thing. Made me laugh. It just came closer to me, stopped and just looked at me. I had never had anything happen like that before. It was the most funniest thing to watch. So, I believe God gives us these little joy gifts so to speak. Just my own personal thoughts.

 

well I stil believe that the red birds are a sign to let me know that my mother is watching over me and everyone has a right to their own opinions but I would like the negative ones to just keep their opinions of what I think to themselves.

 



Trudy said:

I think sometimes that God gives us precious things that bring joy to us. After my sis passed a white butterfly seemed to be around me often outside in the yard. When my son passed, a strange looking bird was just sitting on top of my car. It didn't leave as I approached. It just kind of danced around. It was the funniest thing. Made me laugh. It just came closer to me, stopped and just looked at me. I had never had anything happen like that before. It was the most funniest thing to watch. So, I believe God gives us these little joy gifts so to speak. Just my own personal thoughts.

 

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