I donot think it slow down the healing for me my husband thing helped me remmber him nd remmber and working with the grief and mourning helps . I read some where to face the pain not run from it
This fall a classmate of mine had suddenly died, Heart Attack. I hadn't seen her since High School and never really ran around with her, as in friends. However, I decided to attend her Celebration of Life, as I did remember her from high school and believe I had met her since & did not realize who she was, just that she was familiar and did not know why. Her celebration of life was beautiful. The songs that were sung by her friend was Great. I sat and prayed alot through this. As I was driving away, I turned on the radio and the song that was sung, that I had just heard was on the Radio. God Forgives, just have to ask God. She made her positive mark in this world and I am glad I was a classmate of hers.