Having a hard time coping

My partner of over 30 years passed away almost 2 months ago. He was 20 years older than me so I always knew that he would possibly pass before me. Yet his death was so sudden it was still a shock. He was a wonderful guy. He was so kind and soft hearted. He was not only my partner but my best friend. I miss him terribly. We loved each other so much. Most days I don't feel like life is worth living anymore. I know that he wouldn't want me to feel this way but I can't help it.

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Permalink Reply by Darrell Sours on September 15, 2012 at 4:16pm

Hi Curtis, Thanks so much for responding to my post and your kind words. I want to offer my condolences to you also on the loss of your partner. Yes it has been very devestating losing Homer. He was a big hearted wonderful man.I loved him dearly. I can't even put into words how much I miss him. It has been hard to go on many days.

I do have a good kind friend that I met through this site. We correspond quite often. He has really been a great help. God willing one day I will be with my Homer again. Please write anytime Curtis. Take care.

Curtis Magnuson said:

My heart and sympathies go out to you. I too was 20 years younger that my partner. I put myself in deniel of health concerns. I know you love your partner very much and days some seem not to go on, this is why you have this group. And hopefully you have friends whom you can lean on. I have some friends whom if I had bad days that would be with me in a heart beat. Just go day by day. My prayers are with you.