Jeanette, I am so sorry for your loss and the pain that I know you are feeling. My Junior died a little more than 16 months ago. The hurt and pain that I feel has gotten a little "softer" with time; but there are still some days that are much harder than others and times when I cry at the drop of a hat!! There is still a hole in my heart that aches and cries for my hon every day. Debbie Flores said it best with her quote: "Death leaves a pain no one can heal, Love leaves memories no one can steal"!! At times, it seems that I will never be able to get my life back together . . my sleep habits, eating habits, and ability to concentrate are all having to try to adjust to this "new normal" in my life. This thing called "grief" is not easy on any of us; but at least we all have each other to share and commisserate!! I don't post here often, but I read the other posts daily. I hope you find comfort and peace here by reading the other posts and knowing that we do know and understand what you are experiencing. We are all here for each other. God bless and keep everyone! Per Randolph, hugs to everyone . . hugs are ALWAYS good!! :)
jEANNETTE I don't know when things get better, December 28th will be my husband's anniversary first year, and I hope someday the tears will stop and the pain will ease. I hope it will happen for all of us on here.
JEANETTE, I JUST WANT TO SAY I AM SO SORRY FOR THE WAY THAT YOU ARE FEELING. I DO KNOW HOW YOU FEEL. I LOST MY HUSBAND IN FEB. 2010 AND AT TIMES I THINK I AM GOING TO LOSE MY MIND. I MADE THE DECISION TODAY, TO CALL A THERAPIST AND MAKE AN APPOINTMENT. I REALLY CANT SAY THAT MY GRIEF GROUPS HAVE HELPED ME. I AM STRUGGLING TO FIND SOMETHING THAT MIGHT HELP. ONCE AGAIN I AM SO SORRY FOR WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH , I WISH I COULD JUST MAKE THE PAIN GO AWAY FOR EVERYONE ON THIS SITE.
jeanette: sorry for your loss it was 20months that i lost george. the hurt is still there i think it would never go away for me at least. you just have to take day by day and keep busy with yourself.the holidays will be hard for you but you have this site by yourside if you ever need talking to please be strong i know it is hard because as i stated it is still very hard for me i would have been married 35 years 4 mos after i lost my best friend my husband as randolph would said hugs hugs are good