I LOST MY MOM ON JUNE 23,2010. THAT DAY WAS THE WORST DAY OF MY LIFE. WHEN SHE PASSED AWAY A PIECE OF HER WENT WITH ME. THIS CHRISTMAS WILL BE 6 MONTHS TO THE DAY THAT WE BURIED HER. I MISS HER TERRIBLY. THE ONLY GOOD THING ABOUT THIS IS SHE ONLY LASTED ABOUT ONE MONTH IN A NURSING HOME WHICH SHE SAID SHE NEVER WANTED TO BE IN A NURSING HOME. MOM I THINK OF YOU EVERYDAY AND I LOVE YOU . DEBBIE
Hello all here* First i would like to say, I pray for everyone here that includes me:)
Secondly, here comes Christmas Again~ and it is going on one year and nine months since my mom has gone. Still - i am struggeling in jobs, finances, domestic chores.. sometimes i feel we need to move from here and get a fresh start. We moved my mom into an apartment next to ours and cared for her on Hospice.. I am a changed person, and i try to regain parts of who i once was.. continueing to have post stress issues.. no insurance for counseling. What is one to do? I once was up on the cleaning, cooking, bill paying.. now that is all history. Thinking of not even putting up our little tree this year. I would love to know when life will change for the better? Thank you for letting me vent this most Holy of Holidays...
Hello to all~ I hope everyone "survived" Christmas ok... without our loved one's being physically here... Sad to think it is a survival mode, but i guess all we can do is push hard and hold on tight to our faith, to make a forward kind of movement here (on this earth). Someone told me, "life brings changes, and we must change along with them". Well, i don't know about anyone else here, but my changes haven't been anywhere near of where or who i used to be. Still trying, praying and pushing.
We must all know in our Hearts, that our loved ones (Moms) are still SO MUCH with us in spirit and in our Hearts! And As my mom used to say, "life here, is just a short flash in a pan". So for today, i will try once again to go past just survival.** Love, and Blessings to everyone!
DEBBIE SYMONS-NETZLER said:
FLORES, SO SORRY ABOUT YOUR LOST. I KNOW WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH. LIKE I SAID I LOST MY MOM JUNE 23,2010.AND IT SEEMS LIKE IT DOESNT GET ANY EASIER.WHEN I LOST MY MOM I LOST A PIECE OF ME WITH HER. I KNOW WE HAVE TO GO ON WITH LIFE BUT I REALLY MISS TALKING TO HER. SHE WAS ONLY IN THE NURSING HOME FOR A MONTH SO THAT WAS A THING. SHE WAS A STRONG , COURAGEOUS WOMAN. SHE WAS BLIND THE LAST 7 YEARS FROM DIABETES BUT SHE ALWAYS HAD A SMILE ON HER FACE AND SHE LIVED ON HER OWN. SO HANG IN THERE AND WE CAN HELP EACH OTHER.