Hi, I just got the courage to join.  I lost my son last July and don't think I will ever get over it.  He was 30 years old and was killed in a motorcycle accident.  He is still my baby, my son and I feel so lost and unprotected.  I did get the cremation jewelry and it helps to know that he is with me every day.

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So sorry for your loss Debbye. I feel your pain. I lost my 15 year old daughter in a car accident in April.

Debbye, so sorry for your loss.  I understand how you feel.  I too lost my son in a motorcycle accident on 6/7/2008, he was also 30. I miss him so much, even now after 4 1/2 years it doesn't get any easier you just learn how to deal with it better.  I haven't been on here in quite sometime but got an email today about your post and it really jumped out at me so had to respond.  You just have to take it one day at a time, sometimes one minute at a time.  I have good days now but my son is always on my mind, the first thought in the morning and the last thought at night.  Somedays it's like I'm back at the beginning all over again.  I'm here to listen anytime you need an ear. (((hugs)))

 

Debbie

Thank you so much..Patrick was my oldest and I just still cannot believe it happened.  Everytime I hear a motorcycle I think he is getting ready to pull up in the driveway.  I get hurt all over when I have to make myself realize that it is not going to be him.  I keep his motorcycle keys and wallet in my purse all the time since they were given to me at the hospital.  I know what you mean about sometimes it seems you are back to the beginning all over again.  He was such a fun person and had so many friends.  He left four children and I see him in every one of them.

 

 

 

jeremys mom said:

Debbye, so sorry for your loss.  I understand how you feel.  I too lost my son in a motorcycle accident on 6/7/2008, he was also 30. I miss him so much, even now after 4 1/2 years it doesn't get any easier you just learn how to deal with it better.  I haven't been on here in quite sometime but got an email today about your post and it really jumped out at me so had to respond.  You just have to take it one day at a time, sometimes one minute at a time.  I have good days now but my son is always on my mind, the first thought in the morning and the last thought at night.  Somedays it's like I'm back at the beginning all over again.  I'm here to listen anytime you need an ear. (((hugs)))

 

Debbie

This is such a blessing to find out other people know how I feel without having to explain it.  Thank you so much. I hurt for any mother that has lost a child.  Have a blessed day


 
teresa said:

I am so so sorry, Debbye. He will always be your baby and son and nothing will ever change that, ever. My son was also about the same age, barely 29 when he passed away suddenly. Everything about life is altered. It has been two years for me and I still cannot believe it. Please talk about it if you can and know you are not alone.

Hi!  I was thinking about you and the kind words you had left for me so I wanted to stop and just say hi!  I hope all is going well--it has been for me--well for most days.  I just keep what you said in the back of my mind and know that I am not alone in the world. 

Have a great day and hugs to ya!!

 

Debbye


 
jeremys mom said:

Debbye, so sorry for your loss.  I understand how you feel.  I too lost my son in a motorcycle accident on 6/7/2008, he was also 30. I miss him so much, even now after 4 1/2 years it doesn't get any easier you just learn how to deal with it better.  I haven't been on here in quite sometime but got an email today about your post and it really jumped out at me so had to respond.  You just have to take it one day at a time, sometimes one minute at a time.  I have good days now but my son is always on my mind, the first thought in the morning and the last thought at night.  Somedays it's like I'm back at the beginning all over again.  I'm here to listen anytime you need an ear. (((hugs)))

 

Debbie

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