My husband and best friend passed away 4 1/2 months ago. I am not handling it very well. I cannot sleep at night. My doctor has given me anti-depressants and sleeping pills. He changed my sleeping pill and I still cannot sleep. I cannot sleep in my bedroom at all. I have been sleeping in the recliner in my living room since he was hospitalized in October. Can someone tell me what the secret is to be able to sleep? My doctor feels that I just need to get used to being without my husband and I know that he is right. The problem is I am not dealing well without him. My children and friends are great but it doesn't replace my husband. We were married 46 years in October. I try to be active during the day so that I would be able to sleep but it just doesn't work. I am hoping that someone can tell me how to get through this.