My grandaughter told me on Saturday that it is not healthy for me to go to the cemetary every day. Since Phil passed on November 9, 2009, I have gone to the cemetary almost every day and sometimes more than once a day. I am having some health issues right now but I attributed them more to the fact that my heart is broken rather than the fact that I go the cemetary daily. I would like to know what you guys think. I feel close to Phil when I am at the cemetary. It breaks my heart that I have to leave him there and come home to an empty house. I don't know if this is the reason I am not feeling well. Please help!!!!!