I Need Him in my Dreams...

I see on here that alot of you have dreams about your loved one. Brad has been gone 1 year and 15 days and only once I had a dream where I saw Brad so briefly, it was like he was driving by and he had a smile on his face and waved at me. It was so short, I woke up right away and cried, wishing it would have been longer, that I could have seen him more and that he would have said something. That was the only time he was in my dreams. My daughters have had dreams about him, but not me. Does anyone have any ideas why?? I have smelled his scent a couple of times in the garage where we spent alot of time working together on cars. When that happens I just sit there and take deep breaths to take it all in. I really need to see him in my dreams, I miss him so and if I could only he would come to me in my dreams, it would give me some peace.

Thanks to everyone for your support. I'm trying to be positive but if the dreams would come it sure would make me feel better.

Hugs to all of you, my friends

Barb

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Permalink Reply by Nancy Satterthwaite on September 3, 2010 at 4:02pm

Hi Barb,

I lost my husband Don, four months ago. I wish my husband would come to me in my dreams, but I don't dream, and if I do, I don't remember them. I know what you are going through, we just want an affirmation or something, to let us know they are near us, or watching over us. I pray that God will give me a sign that he is fine and happy in heaven, but so far nothing.

I agree, a dream or sign, would make us feel better. Maybe in time it will happen.

Hugs,
Nancy

Permalink Reply by b mohlere on September 3, 2010 at 8:44pm

I hope it helps. I have his wedding ring sitting on the paper. I like the idea of having it in more than one spot.
B

kathy obiedzinski said:

b mohlere i am going to print the message out and also put it in my bedroom also in george computer room thanks

b mohlere said:
I printed this out and have it on my nightstand. I read it before I go to bed each night.

Tell him, O gracious Lord, if it may be, how much I love him and miss him, and long to see him again; and, it there may be ways in which he may come, vouchsafe him to me as a guide and guard, and grant me a sense of his nearness as Thy laws permit.

I have occasional dreams of him. Some are meaningful with what I perceive as a message but other are just dreams about our normal times together. Those mean so much to me.

B

Permalink Reply by Brigitte on September 4, 2010 at 5:37am

I have only had one dream of Douglas. He called me and his voice was so soft and I could barely hear him (actually, he had lost the ability to communicate verbally toward the end of his illness). But I understood him -- and all I could say to him was, "Where are you Douglas? I have been looking for you and can't find you." He said, "I am okay and will be with you always." Then the line went dead. I woke up crying. I miss him so very much. It has been 14 months and I still cry -- not as often, but when I do my heart feels so empty and I can't catch my breath. Losing this gentle spirit has been difficult to accept. In time we will be together again and he will be waiting!

Permalink Reply by bc on September 4, 2010 at 5:37pm

Thanks Nancy, I hope you do have a good dream where your husband comes to you. I'm also still waiting after 1 year and 29 days. I feel Brad watching over me but I just need to see his face again and hear him tell me its okay. I wish you peace.

Nancy Satterthwaite said:

Hi Barb,

I lost my husband Don, four months ago. I wish my husband would come to me in my dreams, but I don't dream, and if I do, I don't remember them. I know what you are going through, we just want an affirmation or something, to let us know they are near us, or watching over us. I pray that God will give me a sign that he is fine and happy in heaven, but so far nothing.

I agree, a dream or sign, would make us feel better. Maybe in time it will happen.

Hugs,
Nancy

Permalink Reply by bc on September 4, 2010 at 5:37pm

Hi Barb,

I lost my husband Don, four months ago. I wish my husband would come to me in my dreams, but I don't dream, and if I do, I don't remember them. I know what you are going through, we just want an affirmation or something, to let us know they are near us, or watching over us. I pray that God will give me a sign that he is fine and happy in heaven, but so far nothing.

I agree, a dream or sign, would make us feel better. Maybe in time it will happen.

Hugs,
Nancy

Permalink Reply by Connie on September 4, 2010 at 8:15pm

Barb, I know how you feel. I am going on 10 months and I have only dreamt of Phil one time. I was going through a rough time with a decision I needed to make about the dogs. In my dream there were hundreds of dogs and ours were in the middle of them and I was angry with him for always telling me that the dogs would never leave the house when he came walking around the front of the house and said to me "Look, hon, I can walk and it doesn't even hurt." He had been having a really difficult time walking before he passed. Since then, he has not come to me in a dream at all. I know how it would make me feel so much better if he did but........ I guess it just isn't to be right now. I hope that very soon he will visit me much more often if only in my dreams. Boy, 2 days back and back to reality already.

Permalink Reply by Nancy Satterthwaite on September 4, 2010 at 10:35pm

Thank you Barb,
Peace to you too.

Barb said:

Thanks Nancy, I hope you do have a good dream where your husband comes to you. I'm also still waiting after 1 year and 29 days. I feel Brad watching over me but I just need to see his face again and hear him tell me its okay. I wish you peace.

Nancy Satterthwaite said:
Hi Barb,

I lost my husband Don, four months ago. I wish my husband would come to me in my dreams, but I don't dream, and if I do, I don't remember them. I know what you are going through, we just want an affirmation or something, to let us know they are near us, or watching over us. I pray that God will give me a sign that he is fine and happy in heaven, but so far nothing.

I agree, a dream or sign, would make us feel better. Maybe in time it will happen.

Hugs,
Nancy

Permalink Reply by Nancy Satterthwaite on September 4, 2010 at 10:35pm

Thank you Barb,
Peace to you too.

Barb said:

Thanks Nancy, I hope you do have a good dream where your husband comes to you. I'm also still waiting after 1 year and 29 days. I feel Brad watching over me but I just need to see his face again and hear him tell me its okay. I wish you peace.

Nancy Satterthwaite said:
Hi Barb,

I lost my husband Don, four months ago. I wish my husband would come to me in my dreams, but I don't dream, and if I do, I don't remember them. I know what you are going through, we just want an affirmation or something, to let us know they are near us, or watching over us. I pray that God will give me a sign that he is fine and happy in heaven, but so far nothing.

I agree, a dream or sign, would make us feel better. Maybe in time it will happen.

Hugs,
Nancy