Kathy, Thanks for reaching out to me and sharing your story.
I guess the 17 days right after him leaving me I had my Mom to come home. It will now be 1 week this Sunday that she too will be celebrating in heaven. I'm now having to go back and have those full blown emotions I should have had on the 26th of January.
I have had no blood related family to turn to since I was 18 and I'm almost 46 now. His family was mine and being in a family business for 25 yrs. Has been taking a toll on me. I just hope I make it to do my job and face them every morning after not much sleep. Now I having to spend $ just to protect what he tried to build for us.
I'm so sorry we had to meet like this but if I can do anything to help you. Please tell me...
Oh B~ I am so very sorry for your losses....first your loving husband and then your mother! I can't imagine your grief and pain...your heartache...just know that we are all here to help you, support you, hear you, understand you in whatever way you need....
God Bless you and yours...
Kathy, Wow. Amazing how I found this site. Since my Mom had moved in with us for 9 Months and she had Alz. I found so much info when I joined the ALZ site. I really didn't know if I needed to because so much info goes out. But I learned alot from reading the boards on that site.
I just knew things for me had been that he was always had the info I needed and I had noone else I could talk to. He had all the friends and family. He shared everthing with me but they to have faded away with him.
I'm just so thankful when I do log-in to this site I don't have a best friend but I have someone who can relate.