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A continutaion of the "When a Spouse or Partner Dies" thread.
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This might be a rough time for many of you. Do what you feel you need to do to get through it. Remember, someone is here almost all the time to talk to you.
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Thanks Steve. I had no idea who sang this song.
I think it's been said that animals and young children can see the spirits of our loved ones. This accounts for the imaginary friends that kids have. I have no doubt that Bella was seeing Mark. I agree with you....there's far more going on than we'll ever be aware of.
Sara - Pablo Cruise "Love Will Find a Way", 1978
I too have had many signs from Mark, I remember waking up one afternoon by a fragrance, it was his favorite cologne, and it lingered as I became fully awake. This has happened several other times.
There have also been numerous times that Bella would be looking out towards the patio or looking into an empty room of the patio and she would perk up and start waging her tail.
So, I have learned to not dismiss these episodes, there is far more to our existence in this plane and beyond than anyone of us could ever begin to understand. All of this I accept as validation to my beliefs and my faith.
Steve......I remember you telling this story of your meeting an Angel and I like reading it again as a reminder that Angels do walk among us. They reach out when we need it most.
I've had several signs from Ken and dreams of him but never a dream visit. I would love that. My most recent sign was last week. I was driving to work and crying because I miss him so much and telling him that I can't bear a life without him. I was changing radio stations and the station I landed on was playing a song from the 70's. I don't recall the name of the song but some of the lyrics are: "It's alright, once you get past the pain, that's where you'll find love again so keep your heart open cause love will find a way." I take this as a sign of Ken speaking to me through this song.
Mary Jane......I believe in Mediums, Angels and the eternal life of our spirits. I recently began reading a book by Sylvia Brown who is (was) a Medium. I think she's passed away by now. In it she talks about things I have heard about, like how there is no time on the Other Side and she also talks about things I hadn't heard about like what she refers to as the scanning station. This is where people review their lives here on Earth. People who have had near death experiences and say their life flashed before them, they may have seen the scanning station but wouldn't remember it. I won't bore you all and gone on about it. It just helps me to know that Ken is living a full life on the Other Side and since there's no time where he is, I'll be joining him in what seems like a minute to him.
I also commend you for getting yourself dressed and "put together" every day even if you're not going to see anybody. It's important to do this just to keep from falling into deep despair.
I was stunned and caught off guard, then I desperately wanted to thank him, as I looked up he had made his way to the top and disappeared out of sight. I quickly moved up the steps and reached the top and took the short steps to the outside. He was nowhere to be found, so I headed home. When I got home and opened the door there was Mark sitting up on the sofa with his tablet and he had his earphones on listening to music. He was fine, he had been reading and listening to music, not paying attention to the time and was surprised to see. This was normal for him these days. I was calm and happy he was ok, then I relayed the story to him about my encounter heading home. Mark exclaimed, oh, you met an Angel, just as matter of fact. Then he launched into a discussion of how he had watched a show on cable about this very subject and how he believed they were all around us. I think of this moment in time often and each time I do I am comforted with calming love. Mark passed away in November of that same year. I do not have dreams where he visits me, but I have had signs from him, but I will write about those another time. I call them “A Trail of Feathers”. Like Mark, I too believe that we are surrounded by Angels, many of whom post on this very site. Peace be with you Mary Jane!
Many of us on this site can attest to spiritual visits. Before I lost Mark, I encountered an Angel one day in a busy train station some 10 stories below ground full of busy people moving about all trying to get to where they were going. I was on my home, feeling quite depressed and emotionally exhausted. My train ride home took twenty minutes and I usually had a lot of time to think and reflect. Mark had a neurological disorder similar to, Parkinson’s, at this particular time in our life together we were living in Dallas, TX we had moved there in 2009 when the company I was working for transferred me there. This particular day, was the summer of 2014, it was hot and humid and my day at work was mixed with a lot of the usual pressures from work along with my usual anxiety about Mark’s health. I dreaded leaving him alone each day as his bouts with having seizures was becoming too frequently and his overall health had begun to decline. So, there I was getting off the train at my stop and I was making my way to the second escalator to the surface. This escalator was very long and steep and took about 3 minutes to get from the bottom to the top. I was standing on one of the steps lost in my thoughts, Mark had not called me that day and my attempts to call him were unsuccessful. Then someone said “excuse me, may I pass by”? I looked up and there was a man looking quite the part of a homeless man holding a few bags and making his way up the escalator. I said sorry, sure, and I moved to the left so he could pass by. As he got to the step above me he turned around and looked straight in the eyes and said “things are not as bad as they seem”, turned and went on his way up.
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