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On the last day of our vacation my husband died.

Started by Andrew Berenyi Jr.. Last reply by Russ Macaluso 4 hours ago. 32 Replies

My love is gone...

Started by Chris Sky. Last reply by Mary. Jane on Sunday. 15 Replies

I used to love long week ends.

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Comment by Deb S on July 29, 2017 at 7:15pm

Michelle, I am glad that you know what will most bring you comfort on the anniversary of the loss of your husband. I am so sorry for your loss. You will also be remain my thoughts and prayers. Debbie

Comment by Deb S on July 29, 2017 at 7:11pm

Sandfly, You are approaching the anniversary with a great state of mind. I found that the days before the actual date were more difficult for me than the actual anniversary. I spent a lot of time during those days reliving events that occurred the year before. Please choose to do whatever you need to do on the actual day. If you need to grieve and further process your loss, please take the time to do it. I just experienced the second year anniversary of my husband's passing. I and opted to celebrate. I went to one of our old haunts and toasted him with a glass of wine. I then enjoyed a great seafood dinner at a newly opened seafood restaurant that he would have loved.

Please know that I will be thinking of you and sending my strength. Please update about how you choose to spend your day.  Debbie

Comment by MicheleRedman on July 29, 2017 at 7:07pm

Sandfly, so sorry for your loss.  We have a lot in common.  My husband also passed in August 2016.  I also live alone and have two sisters.  He was my soulmate for 34 years, like yours my whole life.  I think on his day of passing I will light candles and pray as that gives me some comfort.  I hope you can find something to give you comfort and honor his memory.  

Comment by Sandfly on July 29, 2017 at 6:35pm

Hello everyone, I am dreading the first anniversary. My husband died August 2016. Still stunned as I am writing these words. I live alone and have no family nearby, my side of the family all lives in Europe,his two sisters are closer but still quite a trip. David was my whole family for 32 years, we never had children. Have no idea f what to do on this day. A few months ago a brought up the discussion with his sisters about doing something special, I also mentioned it to friends.I have to say no one really said anything much.David did not like fuss but I just want people TO REMEMBER HIM. I have taken the day off work I am so scared I will just fall apart. I don't know what to do.

Comment by Deb S on July 26, 2017 at 4:38pm

Mary Jane, It sounds like a great visit! The weather should be pleasant in October and not nearly as hot as it is now. I can't wait to hear all about your adventures.  Debbie

Comment by Mary. Jane on July 26, 2017 at 1:22pm
Ok, here's more...we r also staying in Kill Devil Hill, where the pirates were...I am SOOOOOO excited..yes, I traded seeing the Aurora for seeing wild horses...but that is cool...some day I will tell y'all about the most beautiful thing BOb and I ever saw on a road trip...what is the weather like there in October? I am hoping it's cold LOL as I HATE hot weather.
Comment by Mary. Jane on July 26, 2017 at 1:07pm
DEB...I ,a not exactly sure of the itinerary...but we are staying in Carrolla for 2 nights, and will be seeing the wild horses, and taking a ferry somewhere, and crossing back to see the Edgar Cayce research museum...I am missing a few other nights...
Comment by Sara Murphy on July 25, 2017 at 8:59am

Mary Jane....I accepted your friend invite.  You can message me with your book suggestions. 

Comment by Deb S on July 24, 2017 at 3:31pm

Mary Jane, I am so excited for you and your daughter. I hope that you love the outer banks as much as I do. It is a wonderful spot. What town are you staying in?  Debbie

Comment by Mary. Jane on July 24, 2017 at 1:02pm
I really need new glasses..OUTER BANKS...not PUTER banks
 

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