Bereaved Spouses

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Comment by Trina Mamoon on February 14, 2019 at 11:38am
Same here. Valentine’s Day was not a big day for Joseph and me. If it happened to fall on a weekend or if it were convenient, we would celebrate on that day. We didn’t feel like we had to show each other our love and devotion on a specific day of the calendar just because Hallmark helped hype up this day. Fortunately, I don’t have any special connection to this day. But it is true, hearing everyone making plans for this day brings a little sadness.
Hope everybody has the best day as they can today.
Comment by Sara Murphy on February 14, 2019 at 11:27am
Valentine's of those holidays that feels like a punch in the gut. Ken and I never lived by the calendar so we were never big on Valentine's Day. Just because the calendar says Feb 14 is the day to express your love, doesn't mean it's convenient. I'm sure many couples have had big arguments because of expectations that fell short. Not Ken and I. If it happened to be a year where Feb 14 was convenient, then we would go to dinner or do something just to spend time together. If it wasn't convenient then oh well, we just pick a night that suits us. It was far more meaningful to receive flowers on any random day of the year just because Ken was thinking of me. Or when I would come home from work and he was already home and preparing dinner for me. We didn't need a calendar to tell us we should do something to express our love and commitment but yet still on this day, it hurts so much to see and hear all the plans other couples have. Today is a good day to stay off Facebook. It's in my own best interest not to see all those posts.
I hope you all can make it through this day without too much additional grief.
Comment by Sara Murphy on February 10, 2019 at 12:30pm

Pete....i'm sorry you've been ill and will be praying for your recovery.   I'm glad you're still keeping tabs on us, even if it's from the shadows.


Comment by Chicago Beard on February 9, 2019 at 6:32pm

I have blocked Brianna!

Comment by DJ on February 8, 2019 at 10:17am

Pete, long time no see.  I hope you get the better of your illness.

Thanks for the tip to block that account.

Comment by Steve G. on February 8, 2019 at 6:30am


Hope your recovery goes quickly, feeling sick is not fun.

I am slowly getting my own strength back and some days are better than others. 

I too miss your posts, get well brother, untill then you will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Comment by Marsha H on February 8, 2019 at 4:00am

Pete ...  I'm so sorry you are not well and you get better soon.  We miss you on here and hopefully you'll be posting soon again, but until then take good care of yourself and know we are thinking of you.


Comment by Pete Bronson on February 7, 2019 at 6:17pm

Hi Sara,

I have been ill off and on for a number of months but still alive. I read all the notifications in my email, I  just don't spend much time online lately. Thank you so much for asking. I hope everyone in the group is OK. Happy to help with the Hint/Tip.

Everyone be safe and take care of yourselves (Pete slips back into the shadows)


Comment by Sara Murphy on February 7, 2019 at 9:08am
I too thank you Pete for the info and have blocked her.
How have you been? Haven't heard from you in a while so I'm glad to see you on my screen.
Comment by Steve G. on February 7, 2019 at 8:09am

Thanks Pete, I have her blocked as well


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