A continutaion of the "When a Spouse or Partner Dies" thread.
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This might be a rough time for many of you. Do what you feel you need to do to get through it. Remember, someone is here almost all the time to talk to you.
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Hi Sara,
I have been ill off and on for a number of months but still alive. I read all the notifications in my email, I just don't spend much time online lately. Thank you so much for asking. I hope everyone in the group is OK. Happy to help with the Hint/Tip.
Everyone be safe and take care of yourselves (Pete slips back into the shadows)
Pete
Thanks Pete, I have her blocked as well
Thank you Pete...I have now blocked Brianna.
Click on her name to go to her profile. Scroll down under her picture to find block messages and click on it. If everyone in the group does that she no longer has an audience to send her spam to.
I just sent Steve Cain a message to delete this “Briana” too.
Thank you, Marsha and Sara. You make wonderful points, and help my soul deal with this time in my life that never seems like it is going to be over.
Your responses are the reason this site is so important in my life. Everyone here is such a comfort.
Except Brianna. Hahahahahahahahahahahaha....(I just HAD to say that. If I ever loose my sense of humor I may as well cash in my chips. LOL)
Mary Jane ... I also listened to your daughter's songs and she is very talented and I so enjoyed listening. I joined and wanted to leave a message and get her name out there, but it wouldn't go through for some reason.
I believe your daughter is finally grieving and it is her song writing and her voice that consoles her and get's her feelings out. We all grieve differently. I remember when my father passed away I was in my mid-20's and I felt I had to be strong for my mother as did my brother. I did do my crying once back at my apartment. Losing a first parent always seems the toughest because we've all not given it much thought that our parents would pass eventually. Yes, I do also believe she is worried you will pass away as well and that's very normal.
Leaving the life you had before is also a grief and starting a new life appears much more difficult than it is. It could be an great adventure for you and your daughter. You will get rolling when you need to and once settled in your new place I am sure within a couple of months it will feel like a home and more adventures to be had. My words may seem easier than they are, but I have girlfriends who are widows and they have moved. At first it's strange, but keeping busy is the key and getting out for a little entertainment every so often helps as well. It wasn't long before they fell into their new life, made new and interesting friends. I do pray for all on here and I know you're going to make out just fine my dear friend.
Hugs
Marsha
Brianna ... You have been politely asked previously by the founder of this site that you are on a wrong site and we all would appreciate it if you would kindly find the correct website to leave your posts. I need not tell you that your posts may offend some members here and grieving is a difficult enough journey without you coming back after being asked to politely leave. We consider this spam!
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