Grief support groups, condolence advice, funeral etiquette and more
A continutaion of the "When a Spouse or Partner Dies" thread.
Latest Conversations: 16 hours ago
This might be a rough time for many of you. Do what you feel you need to do to get through it. Remember, someone is here almost all the time to talk to you.
Started by Bonny Jones. Last reply by Diamond Jan 31.
Started by Tim's Mom, Vickie. Last reply by Michele Jul 21, 2019.
Started by Sharon Kinsey. Last reply by Frances C Younger Jun 24, 2019.
P.S. It was deliciously decadent.
Pear Cake3 large egg2 cups sugar1-1/2 cups vegetable oil - I chose to use 1 cup (which makes batter stiffer)3 cups all-purpose flour2 teaspoons ground cinnamon1 teaspoon salt1 teaspoon baking soda1-1/2 cups finely chopped peeled pears (about 2 medium)- I substituted 4 pears, boiled and mashed made about 2 cups and when added to batter it had a better consistency.1 teaspoon vanilla extract
Glaze (I decided not to use)1-1/4 cups confectioners' sugar2 tablespoons whole milkIn a large bowl, beat eggs on medium speed. Gradually add sugar and oil; beat thoroughly. Combine the flour, cinnamon, salt and baking soda; add to egg mixture and mix well. Stir in pears and vanilla. (The batter will be stiff, mine was not.) Spoon or pour into a greased and floured 10-in. tube pan. Bake at 350° for 60-65 minutes or until a toothpick inserted in the center comes out clean. Let cool in pan 10 minutes before inverting onto a serving plate.
I did not use the glazeIn a small bowl, combine the confectioners' sugar and milk; beat until smooth. Drizzle over warm cake. Cool completely.
Mary.Jane ... We're going to make up a special diploma for you, frame it and send it to you. LOL Seriously, love your posts and you often make me laugh. If it weren't for you kicking butt around here then people wouldn't be posting so much.
Steve ... That pear cake sounds so delicious and one of my favorite fruits. If it turns out (I'm sure it will) could I have the recipe PLEASE!
Your Sis Marsha
Awwww, I love it here.*
*note: experts agree this is the shortest post Mary Jane has ever made here.
My Dear Family,
Thank you one and all for your positive thoughts and energy, I tend to hold things in until It just comes spilling out. Posting here helped more than me actually telling my biological family and that is sad in a different way. Chuck and I made Christmas cookies yesterday for those within our little circle of friends here in Arlington. Today I am going to make a pear cake (1st time) with a drizzle of icing.
I am actually OK with the procedure because it will make my quality of life much better.
Love to one and all, Merry Christmas and Happy New year!
Steve ... I am so sorry to hear of all the issues you are going through health-wise. It seems even here that so many of my friends are either in hospital or not well and just before Christmas. My brother had prostate surgery and is doing well and so will you. Sometimes just the thought of what they'll be doing surgery-wise is frightening. My brother is also on blood thinners and has been for a long time so no worries for your uncle other than he should be careful not to cut himself accidently and if he should bleed go to ER as soon as possible or call an ambulance. There is hope my friend and you are going to do much better in 2020. I'm praying for you and Chuck.
Speedy recovery in January my dear brother.
Oh Steve..I can promise you it will get better...I don,t mean to diminish your pain and medical issues..but sometimes when things happen during the Christmas season..they seem to get better with the new year.
About 20 years ago, Bob had a very bad time, unable to urinate. He was terrified of seeing a doctor..(lifelong fear of a cancer diagnosis..) so he suffered for almost 8 months, thinking if he relaxed and lied on the bed with a “receptacle” (waaay TMI..sorry..)he would b able to do what needed to be done...he even took a vacation to,Amsterdam with Melinda, in that condition...(it was a free trip, I couldn,t go cuz we had gone the year b4, and my employer wouldn,t give me another two week vacation) Anyway, he FINALLY saw a urologist..and it was so simple...he had his prostrate removed..an easy procedure, that hE kicked himself for delaying. Ironically, that was during the holidays too. (
Someday I will tell y’all about the amazing thing Bob did for me, during this time, while waiting for his surgery, wearing a catheter for a few weeks..) Lemmee know if anyone wants to hear that story,..he did a very awesome, selfless act...I’m still blown away, after all these years.
It sucks that as we age, our bodies fall apart..just when our brains and attitudes are at their best, our parts stop working. Your uncle should b ok on the blood thinners..Bob took them for YEARS..finally had a pacemaker put in, and never looked back. We are fortunate to live when many health issues can be resolved by modern medicine.
Please keep the positive attitude...and I am sorry about the anniversary that none of us want to remember...but you know Mark is still here, watching over you, and always will be.
Wow Steve, you have a lot on your plate right now, so sorry about all the health issues, I hope the New Year is a better one for all of us and you will find peace with your health.
Sign Upor Sign In
Please be respectful of others. For more information, read our Community Guidelines.
© 2020 Created by Legacy.com.
Report an Issue |
Terms of Service
Please check your browser settings or contact your system administrator.