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Bereaved Spouses

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Comment by Kim Hawkins on August 25, 2010 at 9:25pm
Basia, I told someone that after Barry passed away. I said if God would have told me on the day I got married that I would only have Barry for 16 years from that date I would have still married him. I loved him that day and loved him even more the day he passed away.

We loved to travel but there were some places we wanted to go that we didnt get to if i had known we would have gone to those places. But i would not have changed anything except him getting sick.
Comment by Randolph L. Schrader on August 25, 2010 at 9:18pm
Hi to all, I posted something on Facebook the other day and I realized some if us cant utilize facebook, for whatever reason. So, I will post it here also. "A true friend reaches out their hand and touches your heart". All of you on this site have touched my heart and I would like to thank you all. Hugs to all. Hugs are good.
Comment by Max on August 25, 2010 at 8:10pm
Think of my today my friends. It has been six months today that I lost my beloved Rich. A very difficult and painful six months. Yes...Mary, you are right, a thousand times over.
Comment by Max on August 25, 2010 at 8:10pm
Think of my today my friends. It has been six months today that I lost my beloved Rich. A very difficult and painful six months. Yes...Mary, you are right, a thousand times over.
Comment by Mary on August 25, 2010 at 8:04pm
I couldn't agree with you both more, a thousands times over, I'd do it again. Some people never find true love. We all had it, and the heartache is the price.
Comment by Virginia on August 25, 2010 at 7:48pm
Same here Basia,
Comment by Basia on August 25, 2010 at 7:38pm
One of Terry's friends who has lost a wife to cancer asked me a question after Terry died. He said "If you knew when you married him that you will only get 18 years with him , would you still have married him even though you knew you would have a broken heart in the end?"
Interesting way of looking at it and I would have married him a thousand times over , even though here I am with a broken heart.
Comment by kathy obiedzinski on August 25, 2010 at 1:05pm
judy; i agree with you we are missing the 2 c' we will never get them back in this life only when we join our loved ones after 36 years of marriage i told my husband if anything every happened to him i will never get remarried. i asked him to wait for me until i die and will be together again hope to remarry him at that time
Comment by judy on August 25, 2010 at 1:00pm
I agree that it is the two C's : contentment and companionship that we are missing from our lives and I guess in a way I don't expect to get those back until I go to Heaven. No one can take the place of another and after 47 years I became adjusted to having those things. Don't know if you can disadjust.
Comment by Nancy Satterthwaite on August 25, 2010 at 8:44am
Thank you Kathy, I will check it out.
 

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