Bereaved Spouses

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Comment by Randolph L. Schrader on August 3, 2010 at 12:33am
Hi to all,sorry I am not posting but I do check the sites. Life is shooting devistation at me left and right and I cant keep up.Have many things going on that need my attention. Thank you all for your kind messages and thoughts and words of encouragemet. It is really rough on me especially when I died when LouAnn died.
To all of the newer people, we are all here for you and share with you.This site understands and can relate to all we have gone thru and are going thru.
I cant offer much, but this I can. Hugs to all. Hugs are good. Hugs are real. Am trying to hang in there,like we all are doing.
Comment by Virginia on August 2, 2010 at 7:13am
Tom I'm praying for your baby, another rollercoaster ride, your bed looks like mine lol and i have 7 black and 6 grey cats and my tuxcedo cat got out after mike passed and won't come back in, good luck i hope he bounces back
Comment by Virginia on August 2, 2010 at 7:07am
Hi Randolph,I/m glad your daughter is home and hopefully she will open up in time as we know she really needs to talk to someone,god bless and hugs to you
Comment by Randolph L. Schrader on August 1, 2010 at 10:31pm
Tom, so sorry. My last cat is doing the same.
Just wanted to let every know that my daughter is home from hospital but is not saying anything to anyone about nothing. So, will wait and see.
The local funeral home is having a photo of LouAnn embedded into a beautiful drinking glass that has a candle in it. It will be very special. Thank you all for your support and prayers. It sure has been a rough road and getting rougher. Hugs to all. Hugs are good.
Comment by Deb on August 1, 2010 at 9:30pm
I am so very sorry - I know how hard it is to lose an animal that your mate loved so much!! Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers, as is Goldie. My heart is with you!
Comment by Deb on August 1, 2010 at 8:23pm
Bless your heart, Tom! You and I are going through some of the same things again. I have been offline for 2 or 3 days due to my Yorkie being very ill. He had a bout of pancreatitis in mid-July. Then, this past Friday, he felt fine until about lunchtime. He usually takes a nap, but he was so restless! He would lie down, get up and move, then lie down for another minute or so. I knew that he didn't feel well and didn't want him to get sick over the weekend, so I took him to the vet Friday afternoon. She did blood work and exam. Came back into room, told me not to let what she was writing scare me -- possibly pancreatic cancer and diabetes!! I began to cry . . this little guy has been so much company to me during the lonely nights after my Junior's passing!! Needless to say, my Yorkie is in "ICU" at the clinic. He was feeling some better today--at least eating and drinking. Will get results of ultrasound to check his stomach tomorrow. It has been a long weekend . . please keep us in your prayers, as I have you and your Loni's cat in mine. Thank you for sharing!!

Bridgette, I like Mary want to wish you blessings on your journey through life!! Take care -- remember, we are here if you need us!!
Comment by Mary on August 1, 2010 at 12:19pm
Glad you are still here, we all need each other.
And we all have our bad times. You were entitled to yours. Hugs to you.
Comment by Virginia on August 1, 2010 at 8:33am
Tom, glad your cat is doing ok for now and the babies probally know something is wrong and are trying to comfort him,
Comment by Virginia on August 1, 2010 at 8:31am
Deborah, I'm glad to see you are staying with us, we do need each other
Comment by deborah diggs on July 31, 2010 at 11:23pm
Everyone,,,again, thank you for helping me to come back to the group, I need to be here,. i know that everyone cannot repsond all of the time, forgive me for that ...thanks for welcoming me back..Really, thank you , from the top, bottom , insides,outsides,of my heart.
Debbie D.

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