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Bereaved Spouses

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Comment by Virginia on May 18, 2010 at 9:16am
Sandralee, Don't be worried about that, when and if you are ready we are here for you. virginia
Comment by Sandralee Vahey on May 18, 2010 at 4:45am
To all who read my message to Virginia please forgive me for not responding to yours. The tears are coming down fast and furious and I can't seem to control them. My heartfelt love and concern goes out to each and everyone of you. May god bless you and keep you always. Sandralee
Comment by Connie on May 18, 2010 at 12:31am
At 12:29am on May 18th, 2010, Connie said…
Yesterday, May 17th, was my husband's "10th" birthday. He received a heart transplant on 5/17/2000. Without the transplant he would not have surived another week but thanks to the very kind donor family, we had 9 1/2 years. In the end, the heart held up when all other organs were just shutting down. His cause of death was "sepsis". The doctors believed that he contacted an infection from where they inserted the catheter to do dialysis. His heart was still good. I dreaded this day like I have dreaded so many other days. I don't know how I am going to get through all the other dreaded days but I must try my best. Thank God for 3 beautiful daughters, 2 fantastic sons-in-law and 5 of the most beautiful grandchildren anyone could ask for. I go to the cemetary to be near him every day and sometimes more than once a day. It gives me some sort of peace knowing that I can be by his body if even for a short time. I wish everyone on this site the best and I am confident that we will all get by in our own way. No one should be judged for what they say when they are venting. We all need to be here for each other because prople who have not experienced this kind of loss just DO NOT understand the lonliness and devastation we feel. God Bless one and all.
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Comment by lindarunion on May 17, 2010 at 9:29pm
i lost my husband of31 years may 5th ifeelso lost .
Comment by Virginia on May 17, 2010 at 8:27pm
Maureen, Hi I don't think we'll ever be normal again,it is a big adjustment for sure.I'm so sorry for your loss,this site is wonderfull everyone is hear for the same reason in one way or another.The good thing is if you feel like writing or just read the post it's all ok.I'm fairley new to the site myself and everyone has been just great.May god give you the strenth to take it as you need too, as we all grieve in a different way. Virginia
Comment by Maureen on May 17, 2010 at 7:58pm
hi this is the first time I've written anything here, my husband died May 9th I am just so lost. Reading comments on this site I know I'm not the only one. But I just can't believe I'll ever feel normal again.
Comment by kathleen caylor on May 17, 2010 at 5:55pm
Fred,Julie,Sorry for your losses.When you need an ear to bend or just vent,this is your place.We have all bared our souls here.And you're right it is very theraputic.
Comment by Julie Cleveland on May 17, 2010 at 5:18pm
I lost my husband 3 weeks ago suddenly and have just found this site and have been reading posts. I have found comfort that there knowing that there are others out there suffering the way I am.
Thank You
Julie
Comment by Fred Dunn on May 17, 2010 at 3:04pm
I hope few (if any) choose to leave the site as I was set to choose another Psychologist but I find that this site provides me the insight that I am not alone in my loss, specifically the way it happened, and how long we were together.
It has been invaluable for me to hear (read) the way people are coping and reacting to their loss as I know I am not alone.

God bless all,
Fred Dunn
Comment by Mari on May 17, 2010 at 1:34pm
To Sandralee and Charlotte...it will be 7 years on June 13. Larry was horribly sick the last year yet continued to work to set up what he felt he needed to leave behind for his family. His last day of work was June 1 and he died on June 13. They remain in our hearts and our souls and our minds forever. Never let go of the memory, but embrace life as much as you can. It is painful, it is lonely. But it will be what you choose to make of it. I finally have chosen to live life by making each day special in some way for Larry. These are sometimes big things I do but mostly just a very tiny thing that only I am aware of. For me he shall always be a part of my life. I miss him terribly but know he is in a better place without pain and without sickness...I am holding my hand out to both of you!

~Mari
 

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