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Bereaved Spouses

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This might be a rough time for many of you. Do what you feel you need to do to get through it. Remember, someone is here almost all the time to talk to you.

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Comment by Virginia on August 22, 2010 at 6:52pm
Hi Randolph and Mary, and Kim, glad to see you all, you must all be optimistic ( spelling ) lol i brought a lottery ticket today on the way to the little white chapel on the hill today lol, it is white and on a hill no joke i wouldn't joke about that lol they are watching me lol lol anyway when i win--- vegas is on me--- lol so there is hope. i wished i got tomorrows paper today, glad to see you all here
Comment by Virginia on August 22, 2010 at 6:42pm
Hi Mary Ellen, welcome and you are so right life dosen't prepare us for this part, and we all have or do feel like we want to die, as Mary and Randolph have said those of us who lived for each other are paying the price now,and this is the place to vent or question or just read and know we are not alone, so do not be afraid we are here for each other if we don't respond right away we will, hugs.
Comment by Mary Ellen on August 22, 2010 at 6:19pm
HI I'M NEW TO THIS SITE AND WAS READING MANY POST THAT ARE HERE AND SEEMS WE ALL KIND OF FEEL THE SAME ALONE AND HEART BROKEN, MY HUSBAND PHIL PAST AWAY AND THE 18TH OF AUG. WOULD HAVE BEEN OUR 38TH ANNV. AND I'M SO HEART BROKEN I JUST WANT TO DIE MYSELF..LIFE SURE DOESNT PREPARE US FOR THIS KIND OF LOSS...THANKS FOR LETTING ME VENT ...HUGS TO ALL MARY ELLEN
Comment by Mary Ellen on August 22, 2010 at 6:19pm
HI I'M NEW TO THIS SITE AND WAS READING MANY POST THAT ARE HERE AND SEEMS WE ALL KIND OF FEEL THE SAME ALONE AND HEART BROKEN, MY HUSBAND PHIL PAST AWAY AND THE 18TH OF AUG. WOULD HAVE BEEN OUR 38TH ANNV. AND I'M SO HEART BROKEN I JUST WANT TO DIE MYSELF..LIFE SURE DOESNT PREPARE US FOR THIS KIND OF LOSS...THANKS FOR LETTING ME VENT ...HUGS TO ALL MARY ELLEN
Comment by Kim on August 22, 2010 at 5:57pm
Hi guys, I'm here too. The summer really stinks and I miss doing things with my husband. We would never sit home. We were always doing something, but now I am alone and do not like doing things alone. All I do is work, come home, go to bed and start all over again the next day.
Comment by Randolph L. Schrader on August 22, 2010 at 4:24pm
Mary, yeah I know the weekends are slow on the site. Summer winding down and ater Labor day things will be back to normal. Unfortunately, our normal is not normal anymore. I can say that I have no life anymore since LouAnn died. I will never have a vacation. I have a permanent one without LouAnn, one from a nightmare come true. I think in a big way, you are right about MAYBE we are paying the price now. And you are right on, it sure does make for empty days and lonely nights.Hugs to all.Hugs are good.
Comment by Mary on August 22, 2010 at 4:03pm
I'm here also. I keep checking like you Randolph. I just keep telling myself, everyone must have a life but me, they are just busy with it. Seriously, I have noticed the weekends lately have been quiet. Summer is winding down, maybe there are things going on. A lot of people I know are just getting back from vacation or going. I probably won't be going on vacation myself for a long time. Where can a women go by herself. I don't have any close friends, my husband and I were always together, and I loved it that way. Guess I am paying the price for that now. but it sure makes for lonely days. Hugs to all
Comment by Randolph L. Schrader on August 22, 2010 at 3:40pm
I'm here but like you said Virginia, are we letting go of the site ? Oh well, I do keep checking. Whatever will be, will be. Hugs to all. Hugs are good.
Comment by Virginia on August 22, 2010 at 3:13pm
where are we all, lol well i'll tell you i find it wierd we are not here posting, are we letting go of the site ?
Comment by TINA GREER on August 21, 2010 at 9:22pm
Joan, you are right, feeling safe is very important. I am under a lot of stress here. I spent some time today at the new place cleaning carpets. I was looking around thinking how much my husband would have loved it there, but more than that, he would have been glad that it was somewhere I could feel safe... he never liked me being here alone. I am 49 years old, and this will be the first time that I have lived alone. I stressed for a long time about moving, but now that I have made the decision, I am very at peace with it. My advice to everyone is to do what you feel in your heart is right. For some it is staying where you are, for others, like myself, moving is the right thing to do. I hope that each of us can somehow find some peace in our lives.
 

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