A continutaion of the "When a Spouse or Partner Dies" thread.
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This might be a rough time for many of you. Do what you feel you need to do to get through it. Remember, someone is here almost all the time to talk to you.
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I still get help from my unseen Angles, all the time. My gratitude for this help is never ending and they have been around helping me even before I realized they were. Strange how life catches up with us as we grow older and learn to truly understand and the help and sometimes even protection when we least expect it. Growing older is not so bad, we learn to accept and life's challenges and lessons as part of our intended path. Some painful and others not so painful, mostly a mixed bag. I often thought that if I could go back and change this or that life would be different. I am happy where I am on this path and honestly, changing anything or any part would be scary. I am content and look forward to my new days ahead. This year I will be 75 and I am still in awe of how my life has been and what is yet to be.
Take care my legacy family and friends, we all have good memories and miles to go before we sleep.
The photo of me and Mark was taken in Ft Lauderdale (2000) at a Christmas party for the company was working for. We had relocated from Key West just one year before this photo. We both looked so young then, but then that was 22 years ago, and a lot of water has passed under the bridge since then.
Mark was so happy landing this new job and we both prospered well in South Florida. Good memories all around.
Take care dear friend. I still do not get notices when anyone posts here, Chuck lets me know.
Thank you everyone. This is a short reply, but it’s been a strange few days...I feel sort of overwhelmed, but for seemingly no reason.
i am sure this will,pass.
Sara, YES, I saw all the snow on the news! I actually MISS the snow we got in Oklahoma...not too much, just enough to look pretty. I remember one time there was ALOT of it, so we put our kitty on the back steps to see what he would do. He sniffed, shook his little feet and GLARED at us as he RAN back inside.
ok NAPTIME..bye for now.
Hi Chuck.....so our blizzard made the news. It's always fun getting 2 ft of snow, you remember what that's like right. I spent the day of the blizzard binge watching Seal Team (I love that show) and began clean up on Sunday. I did enough to make sure I could get out of the driveway and left the rest to slowly clear over the next few days but of course I asked Ken and my angels for help. While I was working yesterday, my neighbor just started clearing my walkway which is quite long. My angels came through for me again. All any of us has to do is ask for help and it comes in time.
I'd love to see your picture of Larry when you have a chance to scan it. And Steve, if you're listening maybe a pic of Mark too.
Take care everyone and be safe from all the crazy weather happening throughout the country.
Mary Jane.....I don't have exactly the experience you do but I do feel Ken, at times more strongly than others. It depends what's going on but even on days that I don't feel him at all, I still know he's here. I don't think you're losing it at all. Our loved ones souls are still alive so they need to find a different way to communicate with us. It's nice that you can talk to Bob. I hope you take comfort knowing that he's with you
Thank you so much dear friend! The love from here has been a blessing! As are you!
Wow, what a great picture of you and Claudia - such a good- looking couple you make!
As Valentine's Day nears, and with it the 6th anniversary of your loss, I'm keeping you in my prayers and wish you only good things every day.
Stay well -
Dear Sara, I just wanted to say that I hope you weathered the big storm OK - you guys really got hit in Boston!
I love the photo you shared and have one of Larry and I that I wish to scan into the computer so I can share it also - I recently asked myself which photo of us I'd keep if I had to choose just one - it may be the one I mention, because it instantly takes me back to when we were first falling in love, and there were no more happier days for us than that time.
Be well and stay warm -
Dear Mary Jane,
Well, if you are losing it, then you have plenty of company here. While the sensation you describe is slightly different than what I experience, I definitely am aware of being reminded of Larry and his presence, or essence, somehow still in my life.
I recently turned 68, and in the days leading up to my birthday several things brought this feeling to the forefront. I've always heard of pennies being sent as a signal or message from our loved ones, but never personally had much experience with them. Larry was always acutely aware of pennies he would find on the ground, paying attention their year or what side was up. A few weeks ago I found myself looking down to find brand new pennies at my feet - at a check out, in a parking lot, and on a sidewalk. All three within days of each other, and every time I was flooded with the feeling of Larry being nearby and trying to sooth me of any negative feelings about getting older.
I've been dreaming a lot lately of people and places from long ago in my life - I awake with feelings of longing, sometimes regret, and an intense desire to know how those people are now. I don't act on this - no facebook for this one thank you. I do wonder if somehow this is all connected to the plans Steve and I are making to relocate within the year.
So Mary Jane, I for one feel Larry is still here with me, however you define "here". It's both comforting and thought provoking - my feelings about life and afterlife are complicated to put it mildly. Don't worry too much about your sanity my friend - if you watch 5 minutes of news these days one quickly realizes that "sanity' and "normal" have become terms with flexible definitions anymore. *sigh*
Stay well, and welcome your communications with Bob, because they are happening for a reason, even if we can't be sure what that reason is.
To “loose it” Hello,everyone...I FINALLY figured out how to get here on my IPAD...this is huge.
I want to ask y’all...in Feb, it will be the beginning of the 7th year since Bob died. Soo.6 full years have passed at the end of that month...and I am much better..than I was...but lately, a strange thing has been happening. I will be doing something “mundane” like making the bed..etc..and I will hear a “suggestion” in my heart..as if Bob is talking to me..as I fluff the pillow, my brain begins TALKING to him..stuff like “is this fluffy enough” or, “should I put the pillow down so u can rest your head on it.” Or (from HIM,“maybe you should move over a bit..u r kind of crowding the bed”..STUFF LIKE THAT. Am I loosing my mind? This is a VERY new development..maybe because I have lived in this new home for almost 3 years, and he is finally HERE?
Omg, as I type this, I can feel him SMILING at me! As if he finds this very humorous. OMG, I am not ready to LOOSE IT yet.
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