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Comment by stacey on December 31, 2012 at 5:11pm

carol- i think i got mine from work while i was shopping.

Comment by stacey on December 31, 2012 at 5:07pm

diane- thanks happy new year to you and everyone too i hope that new job comes along soon but for now im resting and all that good stuff to beat this.

Comment by Diane C on December 31, 2012 at 5:00pm

Hi Helen,

Welcome to this site. It is unfortunate that we have to meet under these circumstances. I am new to this site too, and want to tell you how caring and wonderful everyone is here. I have been here for about a month. My husband passed away on Aug. 1st, after 25 years of marriage. So I feel your pain, but really have no experience to share with you. But I did want to welcome you.

Comment by Diane C on December 31, 2012 at 4:57pm

Hi Stacey,

Good to hear from you, but sorry to hear you have the flu. I hope you feel better real soon. I want to wish you and your son a Happy New Year and good luck with the new house and job. We are all cheering for you!!

Comment by Carol Kayser on December 31, 2012 at 4:44pm

Dear Marsha & Diane C.  thanks for the love and support, it is wonderful.  Today my daughter called.  She has like 500 friends on Facebook (don't all young ones, LOL).  She posted the most beautiful thing and so many of her friends have sent messages of love to her and I.  I was so touched I started to cry.

 

Yes Diane, I have wonderful memories that is for sure and I will be thinking of them all tonight.  I'd like to wish you a good night as we go through this evening - you too Marsha and Dixie, and Frank too.

 

Stacey - just got over that flu myself and it was a whopper!!! I think I caught it from my granddaughter, little monkey!  Feel better! 

Comment by stacey on December 31, 2012 at 4:38pm

hi everyone- hope everyone is handling the new year okay im not going into the new year so well i caught the flu ahhhhh i feel like i got hit by a bus i just hope my little man dont get it. but i feel better then a couple days ago.

Comment by Diane C on December 31, 2012 at 4:33pm

Happy Anniversary Carol... Your wedding day sounded absolutely beautiful. You have some wonderful memories to hold in your heart.

Comment by Diane C on December 31, 2012 at 4:28pm

I would like to thank everyone for there thoughts and prayers for us to get through this night.... It will be difficult for all of us as we all had certain rituals that we followed or what became the norm. I like some of the rest of you am spending it alone. We always went early for dinner and then came home and watched the festivities on TV. It was pretty low key. For years we went to friends homes for parties, but then we decided to just stay home and bring in the new year by ourselves. I went to the cemetery today, not to wish Rich a Happy New Year, how could I ever do that?? But just to tell him how much I really truly miss him. My wish is for ALL of you to have a peaceful, healthy, year ahead. I am so thankful to have all of you in my court.... I am so lucky that I stumbled on this website. Love to all...

Comment by Marsha H on December 31, 2012 at 4:02pm

TO MY EXTENDED FAMILY ... I wish each and everyone of you peace; good health; prayers answered in the New Year.  I will be thinking of you all as the New Year coming in. 

Bless us all!

Hugs

Marsha

Comment by Marsha H on December 31, 2012 at 3:49pm

Dear Jean ...  I am the same as you.  I went to my brother's for Christmas dinner and did pretty good, but once home and alone the heartache grew intense and I had a good cry.  It's all about missing our spouses and being so alone.  Yes, it makes sense that sometimes being alone is the best thing instead of the exhaustion of trying to put on a happy face for others when out. 

It is daunting to see so many with health issues and I pray that all who do find some peace and help for the New Year.  Speaking of a New Year I agree with you Jean ...  I don't think of a New Year and fear it will be a repeat of 2012.  I too only wish to be with my spouse and that seems to cloud anything for the future, but, I do feel my husband would want me to go on and so I try.  I am going to try going to church in the New Year and hopefully regain my faith once again.

I wish you a much better 2013 my friend with some peace; some joy and less tears.

Hugs

Marsha

 

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