Bereaved Spouses

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Comment by Deb on August 1, 2010 at 9:30pm
I am so very sorry - I know how hard it is to lose an animal that your mate loved so much!! Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers, as is Goldie. My heart is with you!
Comment by Deb on August 1, 2010 at 8:23pm
Bless your heart, Tom! You and I are going through some of the same things again. I have been offline for 2 or 3 days due to my Yorkie being very ill. He had a bout of pancreatitis in mid-July. Then, this past Friday, he felt fine until about lunchtime. He usually takes a nap, but he was so restless! He would lie down, get up and move, then lie down for another minute or so. I knew that he didn't feel well and didn't want him to get sick over the weekend, so I took him to the vet Friday afternoon. She did blood work and exam. Came back into room, told me not to let what she was writing scare me -- possibly pancreatic cancer and diabetes!! I began to cry . . this little guy has been so much company to me during the lonely nights after my Junior's passing!! Needless to say, my Yorkie is in "ICU" at the clinic. He was feeling some better today--at least eating and drinking. Will get results of ultrasound to check his stomach tomorrow. It has been a long weekend . . please keep us in your prayers, as I have you and your Loni's cat in mine. Thank you for sharing!!

Bridgette, I like Mary want to wish you blessings on your journey through life!! Take care -- remember, we are here if you need us!!
Comment by Mary on August 1, 2010 at 12:19pm
Glad you are still here, we all need each other.
And we all have our bad times. You were entitled to yours. Hugs to you.
Comment by Virginia on August 1, 2010 at 8:33am
Tom, glad your cat is doing ok for now and the babies probally know something is wrong and are trying to comfort him,
Comment by Virginia on August 1, 2010 at 8:31am
Deborah, I'm glad to see you are staying with us, we do need each other
Comment by deborah diggs on July 31, 2010 at 11:23pm
Everyone,,,again, thank you for helping me to come back to the group, I need to be here,. i know that everyone cannot repsond all of the time, forgive me for that ...thanks for welcoming me back..Really, thank you , from the top, bottom , insides,outsides,of my heart.
Debbie D.
Comment by deborah diggs on July 31, 2010 at 11:06pm
God bless you alll!!!! I was hurting so much the night i said I was leaving ther site. It helps so much to know that you have been read my entries.Thank you all for caring enough to respond to a crazy lady...I have always been fairly sensitive , but this loss has kicked it into high gear. I appreciate the kindness and concern. I know everyone cannot respond to everyone, ,,,I was feeling so raw that no one in the world cared. I was wrong, and I have to realize that I too cannot respond to everyone. Thank you all for handling me with care. Tom ,I will take your advice, I will write when I need to and read when I need to. Thank you all. I feel so much better.
Comment by Randolph L. Schrader on July 31, 2010 at 9:36pm
Hi to all, thank you for your kindness and concern. My daughter will live and is doing okay. Now we have to wait and see what will happen with her.Thats all I know right now.
Tom, keep posting your great messages. Hugs to all.Hugs are good.
Comment by Fernandohulya on July 31, 2010 at 5:43pm
Randolph, my thoughts are with you and with your daughter. I hope your family will came through stronger.

with lost of hugs
Comment by Virginia on July 31, 2010 at 4:37pm
Randolph, I am so sorry to hear that,wow when will all the pain end,hoping everything works out and I will keep you and your family in my prayers HUGS to you

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