Bereaved Spouses

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Comment by Basia on August 16, 2010 at 6:25pm
tomorrow will be four months since Terry died. It's getting worse by the day, not better. Thinking of you today Randolph. Hugs.
Comment by Randolph L. Schrader on August 16, 2010 at 4:18pm
Hi to all, today it has been exactly 16 months since my wifes passing. I am no better than I was when she died suddenly. I miss you LouAnn. Hugs to all.Hugs are good.
Comment by kathleen caylor on August 16, 2010 at 12:40pm
I'm sorry,I must have missed something while I was Wallowing in my own self-pity.But I do agree with what Marlena said.I was doing so well but in my time of need ,I came here to unload.I'm sure everyone feels that need at some point.Some more than others.As Rodney King said"Can't we all just get along?"
Comment by kathy obiedzinski on August 16, 2010 at 12:30pm
marlena i agree with you 100% regarding this site. it is our safe place where we can let each other what is bothering us when we lose our spouse there is still a lot of loneliness sadness and a constant ache that will not leave us
Comment by Marlena on August 16, 2010 at 12:14pm
This is our safe place. Here we have each other and we all understand where the others are coming from. Some of us are farther along in our journey than others, but we can all relate to the pain, sadness, loneliness, and constant ache that we have deep inside. We need each other. Here we can share our despair and our vulnerabilities, it's okay! We can also share our momentary joys and accomplisments. We lift each other up through the good and the bad. Because this is the one place where we all "get it"...the outside world does not have a clue!
Comment by Virginia on August 16, 2010 at 10:26am
Randolph, I am with you, people don't know how many times a day I come to this site to either post or read and comment if I feel like it sometimes I don't feel like posting but I find comfort here just knowing I'm not alone with these feelings,and can get the suport we all need. HUGS
Comment by Randolph L. Schrader on August 16, 2010 at 9:43am
To all, I realize some of us will be scared off or afraid to vent their feelings. I will continue to post. I read the postings all of the time. For only here we can share and understand. Hugs to all. Hugs are good.
Comment by Randolph L. Schrader on August 16, 2010 at 9:40am
Kathleen taylor. I have gone thru all of the firsts. Yet,after 16 months I am finding "more"firsts. Finding spices my wife used, but no more, pans she used but I dont,ect.. There is no end to it. We are all here to help you share these things. I hope we will still be able to post our feelings. Tom really stirred up things.
Steve Cain, thank you for this site. Hugs to all. Hugs are good.
Comment by Virginia on August 16, 2010 at 8:54am
WOW I sure hope people aren't going to be afraid to post on here if we can't feel free to share our feelings here, then where do we go to comfort one another, personally i look forward to getting up every morning and know i can come here and vent or say a comforting word to someone. Come on people, Steve created this site for all of us and lets not let one episode ruine it we all need each other to lean on for support, i just find it upsetting that one persons comment is putting the site in jepordy, God Bless and HUGS to all
Comment by Virginia on August 16, 2010 at 7:27am
i ment my e-mail lol

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