Bereaved Spouses

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Comment by kathleen caylor on June 25, 2010 at 4:25pm
Joan,Whether it was a sign or not,it still has to warm your heart.I'd like to think it was.I've heard they visit us in our dreams.I visited my husband's grave one time and my parting words were"'s your turn to come see me!"and guess what,that night I saw him in my dream.Now I'm sure skeptics will argue that he was in my thoughts.But I say I think of him all the time.It still warmed my heart.
Comment by kathleen caylor on June 25, 2010 at 1:44pm
Peg,you'd be very bored!!
Comment by Peg Otley on June 25, 2010 at 10:44am
If anyone sent me a friend request on fb and did not get an answer, please resend. I had 2 very active grandchildren on my lap along with my laptop and a 3rd little one trying to get up on my lap. One decided to "help" me and erase something before I got to see who it was. What WOULD I do without them?
Comment by Joan on June 25, 2010 at 9:31am
I wonder if this could be a sign. My Jim has been gone for almost three months. Several times I wake up feeling the bed moving. I think it's the dog jumping up to wake me up. But when I open my eyes, the dog is not even in the room. One time as I was getting ready to wake up I dreamed Jim was laying on the bed with the dog and he was smiling at me. I so hope these are signs from him.
Comment by kathleen caylor on June 25, 2010 at 5:39am
Mary,The signs are there.But don't look for them.You will know when it happens.It will be little things only you can relate to.
Comment by Roger on June 24, 2010 at 9:40pm
It has been two weeks...
I almost feel lucky... some of the questions that others have... I already know the answers. Yes She loved me..........more than anything. I know this,
Comment by Mary on June 24, 2010 at 8:18pm
Sitting here crying. I don't know how I feel about signals from those who have died. But I'm beginning to wonder. My son and husband fished a lot together. So since Jim's death, he has been posting on facebook---The James Derocco River and Puddle tour. 12 months of fishing for dad. It is unbelievable the size of the fish he has been catching. Time and time again. I'm really beginning to believe someone else is directing the whole show. I so want my own signs, if there is such a thing, Any thoughts anyone.
Comment by Basia on June 24, 2010 at 7:04pm
I am having an awful time today. I don't know why , yesterday went so much better than usual. Today I just want to crawl under a rock. I hope you all are better than me. Have a peaceful evening everyone.
Comment by kathleen caylor on June 24, 2010 at 4:55pm
Mark,My husband died on 9/13/09.The same week our best friends were leaving to go to St.Augustine.Well of course thet posponed they're trip.S I asked if I could join them when they went in October.I was so glad I did!I just had the best time and it was a distraction for a short time.Of course when I came home I was slammed with reality.But it was a good diversion.We will have to live with this the rest of our lives.Take a short break if you can.
Comment by mark on June 24, 2010 at 4:09pm
Summer is here now 3 month later; this would be our time to plan a vacation as we did every year . not sure what to do this summer ? go somewhere new or not @ all or some place we loved ???? Mark

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