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Bereaved Spouses

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Comment by BoLynn on March 29, 2010 at 8:06pm
HUSBAND......I love saying that word. My husband will be home from work soon. Let me ask my husband if he has plans for Friday night. Look what my husband surprised me with. "crying"
Comment by Yvonne on March 29, 2010 at 12:08pm
Ike I am so sorry for your loss. I don't think anyone expects you to help them with their grief. I think posting here we help ourselves by talking about our pain and telling everyone what a wonderful person our loved one is. I am glad you found yourself a furry friend. I also have my Toni and she gives me a lot of comfort. She really misses Larry too and sometimes I can see her looking at me asking "WHY?" I give her a big hug and we snuggle for a bit. Imagine snuggling with a 90 lb dog, but we do. Ike take care of yourself. Yvonne
Comment by ike saul on March 29, 2010 at 10:16am
I COULD NOT HELP ANYONE IN GREIF. MY WIFE IS GONE 20 M0NTHS, AFTER 52 YEARS OF BLISS .THERE IS NOT A MOMENT THAT GOES BY THAT I DONT THINK ABOUT HER.IVE BEEN IN THERAPY FOR ALMOST THE SAME AMOUNT OF TIME AND IT DOESNT GET ANY BETTER. THE ONLY GOOD THING IS THE LASSO APSO I BOUGHT ATER SHE LEFT ME. SHE AT LEAST KEEPS ME COMPANY AND ALWAYS LOVES ME NO MATTER WHAT.I ONLY PRAY I WOULD SEE OR HEAR A SIGN FROM MY WIFE,BUT I GUESS THATS ONLY ON T.V. SHOWS. I HOPE I CAN STILL SURVIVE WITH ALL THIS PAIN. AT LEASE I HAVE MY LITTLE DOG TO CRY ON .PLEASE HELP ME.
Comment by Mary on March 28, 2010 at 3:22pm
What's with Sundays? My husband Jim passed away 7 weeks ago, on Feb. 7th, a Sunday. He was a good man who knew his bible. It was ten in the morning when he went to heaven. I'd like to think he knew it was time for services and he had to go. But it sure is lonely here without him. My heart will never be the same.
Comment by BoLynn on March 28, 2010 at 1:50pm
My Bo passed away on a Sunday, also. WOW!
Comment by BoLynn on March 28, 2010 at 1:32pm
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Comment by Yvonne on March 28, 2010 at 12:34pm
Yes Kathleen I hate Sundays too. Larry passed away Sunday August 9 33 weeks ago.
Comment by kathleen caylor on March 28, 2010 at 12:17pm
Why do Sunday's seem so much worse?Can't shake it today.He died on a Sunday and I am not motivated on these days to do anything else.Just wallowing in my misery.I guess it's pity party time!Anyone care to join me?? And ,Tom ,forget the ice cream!!!
Comment by Kathy Marie Luersen on March 28, 2010 at 7:05am
Paul Rocker, my spouse, partner, best friend,negotiator, problem solver, repairman... has died. He was only 53 years old. Cirrhosis is what killed him. I am numb and saddened. It is as if I have been kicked in the gut. He was in hospice here at home.
Comment by Randolph L. Schrader on March 28, 2010 at 12:26am
It will be a year since my wife died during a nap soon. I have nothing to offer anyone except the effects we suffer and we are not alone with these. After 44 years I still think of her in everything I do. I can tell you life ended for me when she died and I have all the things you suffer from a loss.She was my pal..Randolph Schrader
 

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