Bereaved Spouses

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Comment by BoLynn on March 28, 2010 at 1:32pm
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Comment by Yvonne on March 28, 2010 at 12:34pm
Yes Kathleen I hate Sundays too. Larry passed away Sunday August 9 33 weeks ago.
Comment by kathleen caylor on March 28, 2010 at 12:17pm
Why do Sunday's seem so much worse?Can't shake it today.He died on a Sunday and I am not motivated on these days to do anything else.Just wallowing in my misery.I guess it's pity party time!Anyone care to join me?? And ,Tom ,forget the ice cream!!!
Comment by Kathy Marie Luersen on March 28, 2010 at 7:05am
Paul Rocker, my spouse, partner, best friend,negotiator, problem solver, repairman... has died. He was only 53 years old. Cirrhosis is what killed him. I am numb and saddened. It is as if I have been kicked in the gut. He was in hospice here at home.
Comment by Randolph L. Schrader on March 28, 2010 at 12:26am
It will be a year since my wife died during a nap soon. I have nothing to offer anyone except the effects we suffer and we are not alone with these. After 44 years I still think of her in everything I do. I can tell you life ended for me when she died and I have all the things you suffer from a loss.She was my pal..Randolph Schrader
Comment by Yvonne on March 27, 2010 at 10:23pm
Dairy Queen run???
Comment by Yvonne on March 27, 2010 at 3:25pm
When I joined this site there were 259 spouses registered, today I see there are 401. My heart breaks for all of us.
Comment by Chris B on March 25, 2010 at 7:17pm
I just want to get to the point that I can think about our life together without it ripping me to shreds...
Comment by arnie on March 25, 2010 at 1:12pm
i wish i could reach the point where it becomes a 'never' event.suzanne was my whole world;and i can't begin to move on.
Comment by Chris B on March 24, 2010 at 7:07pm
I don't know if this is a good thing or a bad thing - maybe it's just "a thing" and it will go away at some point, but... I look at pictures of me and Dan (like my profile picture) and it's like I'm looking at someone else, that I never lived that life, that the pictures of the two of us happened to someone else. Maybe because it's too hard to think about how it used to be, how happy we were, how much I loved him, how much he meant to me. It's easier to pretend it never happened, because it doesn't hurt as much. I know it's not the right way to handle it, but it's the only thing I can do right now.

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