Grief support groups, condolence advice, funeral etiquette and more
A continutaion of the "When a Spouse or Partner Dies" thread.
Latest Conversations: Jul 6
This might be a rough time for many of you. Do what you feel you need to do to get through it. Remember, someone is here almost all the time to talk to you.
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Kathy, I don't have children but I have my four legged children, my dogs. Both rescues and I foster for a rescue. My dogs are what keep me going. I don't know what I would do without them. They love me unconditionally and bring joy to my life. They have been my heart glue and I know they grieved the loss as well. Hard to put into words but they are what make me want to crawl out of bed every day, go to work, and come home to them. They have no judgements, lick my tears when I'm sad and have had a hard day, and bring me that bit of joy that I need.
Every single day since the passing of my Joseph on August 4, 2014, I pray for my death. The pain is just simply too unbearable and life doesn't have much value for me anymore. But I can't bring myself to take my own life for several reasons. First, I just can't do it--take my own life, 2) it would be a betrayal to my four siblings if I commit suicide; they would be completely crushed and not forgive me for being so selfish, and lastly, if there is an afterlife, which I hope there is, if I commit suicide, I won't be reunited with my darling husband, nor my parents and other family members. That's why I keep on living/existing. But everyday I ask God to take me soon and relieve me from my misery. So I understand where you are coming from. I wish you strength, courage, and forbearance so that you are able to walk through your journey of grief and at some point find peace. I wish the same for myself and all the other bereaved spouses who are facing similar pain and despair. Peace for all of us.
Thank you for your words of encouragement and understanding. It's nice to have someone listen to your problems and receive good suggestions on how to cope.
Hope you are well.
I am sorry for what you are going through. There are no words to express how a bereaved spouse feels at being left alone and unprotected. People who haven't lost a spouse really don't understand. Hopefully, you will be able to join a support group soon and find the kind of support you are looking for face to face.
Sending hugs and prayers your way.
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