Grief support groups, condolence advice, funeral etiquette and more
A continutaion of the "When a Spouse or Partner Dies" thread.
Latest Conversations: Jul 6
This might be a rough time for many of you. Do what you feel you need to do to get through it. Remember, someone is here almost all the time to talk to you.
Started by Bonny Jones. Last reply by Diamond Jan 31.
Started by Tim's Mom, Vickie. Last reply by Michele Jul 21, 2019.
Started by Sharon Kinsey. Last reply by Frances C Younger Jun 24, 2019.
Kathy, 7 weeks is so new and raw to this nightmare. I am nearing the one year (Feb 28). I can tell you that although the pain will always remain, you will start to have better days. And yes! You do have your own grief that no one else has. Do NOT let anyone take that away from you. I have a best friend, or someone who I thought was my best friend, that has tried to make her grief like mine. It's not possible! Be kind to yourself and grieve how you need to. This is a fabulous group of people that understand and are here to support you.
Barbara, so very sorry to hear of the loss of your sister. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Barbara, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your sister. I wish I could say something comforting to make you feel better and just be able to take your pain away. My prayers are with you and your family. BIG HUGS, JANE P.
My dear Barbara ... I am so sorry to hear the news of your sister and I offer my condolences. There are just no words great enough to offer you comfort other than my prayers and that your sister fought a good battle and is now out of pain and at peace.
I too wish Chris was there to help you in this time of need, but you are one strong lady and I know you are coping as well as possible.
My prayers, thoughts are flying your way and I wish I could give you more than a cyber hug.
Love & Hugs
Dear friends -- my sister passed away on Thursday, January 8. Though they both had cancer, her passing was not at all like my husband's -- she fought on, through many hours, surrounded by family and friends -- while Chris passed swiftly and peacefully with only me beside him.
Death -- death, sickness and suffering have marked these past two years since we received Chris' diagnosis. I am so weary of death and loss and tears.
As the family gathered in my living room, waiting for the funeral director to arrive, I thought how good and strong and helpful Chris would have been during this crisis -- how he always, instinctively, knew just what each person needed -- how he was so quick to see and do and say the right things. I miss him, so.
Thanks to all of you for your thoughts and prayers.
Trina .. All of us find it difficult to come home to an empty house and in raw grief it's very shocking and can be depressing. I use to leave a radio on or the TV so there would be voices in the house and it wasn't so upsetting to come into the house after I'd been out. I still do that off and on. It's very normal because we've had a routine with our spouses where we heard their voices or were there to greet us and they'd missed us. It take time to set up a new routine in life so be kind to yourself and realize you're OK and will be OK.
Sign Upor Sign In
Please be respectful of others. For more information, read our Community Guidelines.
© 2020 Created by Legacy.com.
Report an Issue |
Terms of Service
Please check your browser settings or contact your system administrator.