Bereaved Spouses

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Comment by Marsha H on June 8, 2018 at 4:30am

Dear Chicago Beard ...  Thank you for those words and they are so peaceful.


Comment by Marsha H on June 8, 2018 at 4:29am

Dear Mary.Jane ...

I have been praying and thinking of you often and feel so much better with the generous offer Chuck and Steve have given you.  I hope you take them up on it.  

I apologize for not coming on Legacy, but have not had any of the messages coming into my 'in box' for several days. Doesn't mean I don't think of each and every one of you.

I get so frustrated that I can't help more because most of you in the U.S. and I live in Canada.  If I was close to any of you that needed help you know you could count on me.

Take care my dear friend and keep us up-to-date.



Comment by Marsha H on June 8, 2018 at 4:26am

Dear Chuck & Steve ...  I echo the sentiments given to you and you've been so encouraging and kind to me as well and often kept me afloat.  There are just not enough words to thank you and what a wonderful offer you have made Mary.Jane, which sure puts my mind at rest for her.

Love you both


Comment by DJ on June 7, 2018 at 11:46pm

Chicago Beard: memories are truly treasures!  When we were on the road, and I was driving, my wife would say she was my "precious cargo" - indeed, and always my treasure.

Comment by Pete Bronson on June 7, 2018 at 5:49pm

Hello DJ like the song goes "You got to keep on smiling, just keep on smiling!". It is very difficult to be positive through all the adversity but it sure beats wallowing through self pity and negativity. A very wise man once told me life is what happens when you are making other plans, he was 110% correct.

Hello Sara I try to read all the notifications on my good eyesight days. I do not comment much but I am usually lurching somewhere.

No Mary Jane you are not alone, there are many like us and always someone worse off. You should contact your local senior center and Human Resource Agency. They are usually very good about helping find resources you need for your unique situation. Most Hospitals and Medical Centers usually have a volunteer network also. Sometimes a few phone calls changes everything you are concerned about. Do not fear asking to speak to a social worker about your needs, that is what these folks do and most are very good at it and ever so caring.


Comment by Chicago Beard on June 7, 2018 at 11:10am

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Comment by Mary. Jane on June 5, 2018 at 1:56pm

It’s really hard to type these tiny words when you’re crying. 

I agree...fate brought us all here, but we stay because of each other...

Comment by Charles E. Nelson on June 5, 2018 at 1:22pm

Dear Mary Jane,

OK, you have to stop making me cry! with all the kind things you say about Steve and I, I just reiterate your words that all the mambers of this very special family are totally involved and sincere in our caring for each other. I remember some of the incredible offers, like the one from Marsha to grab a plane and head north if I lost my home - something I thought was a distinct possibility for the first few months after Larry passed.

This was Steve's suggestion first, and when he asked me about it all I could do was to say "That, sir, is just so like you that I don't have words to reply except of course yes!"

We would love meeting you face-to-face someday, as we feel about everyone here. But absent that, you are all so imbeded in my heart that I fear you'll never get rid of me, or our Steve.

Love to all, and be well Mary Jane - as dear Marsha says, you will be fine and are being watched over by Bob, and many many angels.

Love, Chuck

Comment by Mary. Jane on June 5, 2018 at 11:51am

Aren,t they? Omg, we here are so blessed to have such wonderful people here...the first time I ever came here, something about them touched me, and Chuck was the first person I reached out to. 

I have told my daughter and close friends about this site, and how blessed we all are to have found each other..

but never in my entire life have I received such a wonderful, kind and generous gesture as the one from Chuck and Steve. I will always treasure it, and it will remain the kindest thing anyone has ever suggested. THankyou guys for being such amazing, wonderful people...u have kinda restored my faith in humans. Big time.

Comment by deborah peck on June 5, 2018 at 10:33am

Steve, you and Chuck are one of a kind, that is what this sight is all about, total support for each other, thank you for being you


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