Bereaved Spouses

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Comment by kathleen caylor on June 12, 2010 at 4:02pm
Good Luck ,Tom,I understand Some People are in the early stages of grief and maybe we're on the road to recovery.But without the help of everyone here,I know I would never have made it this far.Best wishes on your journey!
Comment by Virginia on June 12, 2010 at 3:35pm
Tom, we will miss you as you are a ray of sunshine here, we look forward to your post. god bless. Virginia
Comment by BoLynn on June 12, 2010 at 1:19am
I should be at my 55th high school class reunion tonight. I just could not go. Bo would go to all my reunions with me because he was such a nice guy, all my friends became his and he would have as much fun at these functions as I would. This would of have been my first without him. I would feel so lost without him by my side. I decided to stay home with him.
Comment by Randolph L. Schrader on June 10, 2010 at 10:23pm
I did actually send myself an e-mail LOL. My server was having a problem and I was trying to send something to people on my list.Half the time it acted like it didnt sene and I was confused by it because some of it went thru and others didnt and I sent one to me. At first I was cursing myself out for doing dumb,stupid,goofy things. Now I laugh and ridicule myself and call myself dumbo,ect.. Yes, we are going a little insane with our loneliness and grief. The pain is so terrible being alone now.
Comment by Deb on June 10, 2010 at 9:28pm
I agree, Virginia. This site has helped me so many times to let me know that I am not the only one experiencing these feelings! I can relate so much to things posted by you, Cathy, Connie, Hurting, Tom, and others. Thank you all for being here and being open and helpful. May God bless and keep each and every one of us!
Comment by Virginia on June 10, 2010 at 8:47pm
Sad how our membership has grown since I joined. I am so greatfull for this site and everyone here, I truelly don't think I would have gotten this far in the grieving process without all of you here. God bless and keep us all. Virginia
Comment by Sandy on June 10, 2010 at 1:56pm
Oh Tom thank-you for sharing talking with self it made me laugh so hard. I have been concerned about this oh no I'm talking to my animals must be crazy. As usual coming to this sight is so wonderful I find out I'm not crazy Yeah. Thank-you Sandy
Comment by Virginia on June 10, 2010 at 9:58am
Hi Randolph. thats funny we started out with one computer then two, then a laptop added lol
Comment by Virginia on June 10, 2010 at 9:45am
Tom, we were the same way I could be talking to him and he would have blacked me out lol, if he did it when i was trying to tell him something important i would say your not listening to a word i'm saying you've blocked me out again he would start laughing so hard and try to tell me he was trying to to but wanted to hear the tv lol, oh my I'm so greatfull for the memories. Thanks Virginia
Comment by Randolph L. Schrader on June 10, 2010 at 9:42am
My wife was an avid reader too, especially Stephen King. She would tell, "leave me alone,I have read the same paragraph 4 times". So she bought me a computer. Trouble is, she liked the computer too. Just wanted to share this.

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