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Bereaved Spouses

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Comment by Charlene Ozawa on October 31, 2010 at 12:51am
Thank you Margarita. Hugs to you!
Comment by Charlene Ozawa on October 30, 2010 at 10:51pm
My heart goes out to all of you.
Comment by Charlene Ozawa on October 30, 2010 at 10:49pm
I am new to this group. I lost my husband Michael four months ago after 32 years. We too had grown children and were planning his retirement. He died at 61, three days after his retirement. I am 55. This is not how it was supposed to be. My parents both died last year.
Comment by Elizabeth Nonnemacher on October 30, 2010 at 9:16pm
I cannot believe how many of us are here at this place. Its comforting to share with others that truly understand. But its absolutely the worse reason to be here. I too was looking forward to spend the future with my Ron, kids are grown, and Rons retirement in a few years. We were writing up a Bucket List. Well
it will stay empty now. I have no desire to go on without my Ron.
Comment by Elizabeth Nonnemacher on October 30, 2010 at 9:16pm
I cannot believe how many of us are here at this place. Its comforting to share with others that truly understand. But its absolutely the worse reason to be here. I too was looking forward to spend the future with my Ron, kids are grown, and Rons retirement in a few years. We were writing up a Bucket List. Well
it will stay empty now. I have no desire to go on without my Ron.
Comment by Elizabeth Nonnemacher on October 30, 2010 at 9:11pm
Dear Kay; I am sorry you had a difficult day,this is another stepping stone in the road we call grief. I hate it, I hate it, I hate it... My story is a little different, but my Ron and I were together about 12 years and married 8 in August it is almost 5 weeks. sending hugs to you
Comment by Elizabeth Nonnemacher on October 30, 2010 at 9:11pm
Dear Kay; I am sorry you had a difficult day,this is another stepping stone in the road we call grief. I hate it, I hate it, I hate it... My story is a little different, but my Ron and I were together about 12 years and married 8 in August it is almost 5 weeks. sending hugs to you
Comment by Kay Arcuni on October 30, 2010 at 3:49pm
I have just spent the day trying to sell the equipment my Joe used to make our living with for the last 33 years. It has not been an easy day to say the least. I know what Mary is talking about. We were highschool sweethearts and had our two girls very young so when our girls moved out it took us almost 6 month to relize we lived alone finally. We had never done that before. Boy what a great time we had doing all the things we wanted when we wanted and we are still what at the time was young now I feel older than old. Now for the 1st time in my life I live alone after 33 years of taking care of other people now there is no one to have a great time with or to take care of (thank god I have Sphi my dog) and on top of that I am selling the things that he loved, ( he was a master wood worker). How on earth am I suppose to feel good about that, this is the 1st time since he has left that I am just furious with him, I'm not suppose to be living alone, I'm suppose to be taking care of him while he works in the garden or works with his wood, we are suppose to be traveling with friends and doing all those things that people in there 50's do. This just isn't fair, I want my life back!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Comment by bc on October 30, 2010 at 2:22pm
Wow! When I joined this group a few months ago there were only 575, now its up to 700. So many people hurting, I'm praying for all of you and I'm so thankful I've made such good friends who really do understand. Hugs to all!
Comment by Barbara Roth on October 30, 2010 at 12:37pm
Mary, I know what you mean. For the last 38 yrs. my life revolved around Jim and the kids. The kids moved out and it was just the two of us. Now it's just me. My time is my own and I don't like it. We were supposed to grow old together. It's only been 9 days since he left--- feels so much longer.
 

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