My mom has alztimers my dad passed away n my family don't want to tell her I feel she has the right to know! Need some fed back. Mom is alert in the am but by noon she starts sundowimg I told her one time . But she asks about how he is doing I nevered lied to my mom. My brothers n sister are placing her in a nursing home also she has a legal guarding my heart is broken I had no say in the matter I tell my mom that dad is in the best of hands n my daughter is at the house. Family says why have her relive pain every day I'm so glad I found this site any advice would help me. Tell her or not?