Gay and lesbians who have lost partners Discussions (72)

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My name is Jay.  On October 4, I lost my husband of 27 years.  He was the kindest and most gentle man I have ever known.   The holidays wer…

Started by jay william mclaughlin

0 Dec 28, 2021

Recent Loss

On March 4th, 2021, my partner Kyle committed suicide, by shotgun to the head. I found him in his car, and have been feeling incredibly anx…

Started by Aaron R Gould

2 Aug 24, 2021
Reply by John DiLorenzo Jr

Lost my Partner of 5 years

Hello, My name is Jim.   Last month I lost my partner and best friend of 5 years unexpectedly.   The grief and sense of loss is so overwhel…

Started by James James

3 Apr 18, 2021
Reply by John Baluyut


lost my partner of  42 yrs last may.  still hurts and this stay at home isolates even more. hard to move forward but am trying.  have been…

Started by Tony Przybyla

1 Apr 18, 2020
Reply by Kevin Dadouses

Looking for people who can understand my loss

Hello, my name is Amanda. I lost my partner over 3 years ago. It was a sudden and unexpected loss. I'm still grieving and struggling with i…

Started by Amanda

10 Sep 3, 2019
Reply by Amy Bartola


Lost my ex girlfriend to cancer and a brain aneurysm and it burst. Was with her many years, having a very hard time moving forward. You see…

Started by April Fiorillo

2 Feb 21, 2019
Reply by Care Johnson

Another Excellent Group is now on Facebook  Last year, one of the folks here, Niel, was looking for a more responsive and easier to…

Started by Robert Davis

2 Nov 4, 2018
Reply by Pauline Overton

He saved me - now he's gone who will save me now?

I already know the textbook answer is that "I must save myself."  So for me those text book answers seem so impossible.  in June of 2007 I…

Started by robert j crowley

20 Nov 4, 2018
Reply by Pauline Overton

6 months went by and something released in me. Still VERY ANGRY but able to function

So - yes 6 mos passed on May 4.  A week or so later I did feel something inside me let go in some way - I want to live and enjoy life again…

Started by robert j crowley

12 Nov 11, 2017
Reply by David Heggi

Suddenly gone, my Ben

Hi Everyone, I'm thankful to have found a space like this where I can share my story. Today marks the second week I've been grieving over m…

Started by Danny N

14 Nov 11, 2017
Reply by David Heggi


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