Loss of a Child

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Comment by Sylvonia Banks 1 day ago

Julie I can relate, my daughter was shot execution style on November 16, 2007, and although she has been died two years it still feels like the first day. You literally have to take it moment by moment. The pain will never go away but it will become bareable. The only thing that has allowed me to cope is my belief in the Lord, and remembering the 23rd Psalms. I miss her so much because we were best friends, we would talk for hours on the telephone. She was a beautiful young lady who had just started nursing school. Her daughter was in the house and was found laying on top of her mother, I was not able to see her until recently, my granddaughter reminds me of my daughter. So please hand in there and if you need someone to cry with because I still do, talk to or a shoulder to lean on I will be here for you and anyone who wants to chat for that matter. Talking about it helps a little. I am so sorry for your lost and I pray that God will comfort you during your time of sorrow.

Comment by Julie Rohmann Brockway on November 16, 2009 at 7:31pm

Today is the first day of my daughter Kimberlie's death and Im having a real hard time with it. I feel like im reliving that horrible day all over again.
Kimberlie was born with cerebral palsy but she was the best thing that ever happened in my life. I cleaned myself up from drugs and alcohol because of her. She was such a happy girl, always smiling and happy to see her mommy and daddy and of course her big sister. I was very lucky with Kimberlie because usually children with cerebral palsy have a lot of medical issues,but not Kimberlie. No, she was hardly ever sick except for the occasional cold here and there and then one day she wasnt breathing to good so we went to the hospital and found it she had pnemonia, no big deal I thought, boy was I wrong. Next thing I knew she was getting tubes shoved down her throat and put on a ventilatior. 2 days later she had to get a trach. Doctor then sat her dad and me down and told us her lungs had collapsed and there was nothing else they could do for her and it would be just a matter of time. Her dad and I decided not to put her through anything more and we shut off her machine and 9 days later she died. I sat by her bed day andnight holding her hand and stroking her hair praying for a miracle and it never came. I miss her so much and Im wondering when does it get easier???

Comment by jeremys mom on November 16, 2009 at 11:47am

Wow what a morning. You never know when or what things are going to hit you. Driving to work this morning I passed an accident, it wasn't a motorcycle one like my son's, just a car but pretty banged up and there was an ambulance there. I immediately burst into tears and cried all the way to work.

Comment by Brenda on November 15, 2009 at 10:13pm

Hello everyone I have some good news to share with you all. After Bronda-Maye got killed I thought I would never be a grandma boy was I wrong on that one. I just found out my son is going to be a daddy in June. If it's a girl her middle name will be Maye in honor of my Bronda.
So I have something to look forward to I just wish Bronda was here to share in spoiling her nephew or niece. But I know she will be looking down on it. She has two babies to take care of in heaven her two little brothers or sisters as I lost two babies after I had Bronda. She was my miracle child I had cancer before I got preg with her and the Dr's told me I wouldn't carry her full term but we both fooled them. Bronda was a much wanted child and I cried when I found out I was having a baby from being so happy. But God blessed us with her for such a short time. Some people aren't that lucky. I have a sister that lost a baby at a month old and have another sister who lost a son at 21 yrs old. That just made our bond even closer as sisters as we know what the other one feels.
I am praying for everyone here that we will make it threw this with Gods help. And we have this site that can help us all so much.

Comment by Brenda on November 14, 2009 at 2:44am

How do you add a friend here and other pictures? I keep getting errors...

Comment by carol fox on November 13, 2009 at 7:56pm

Pam i lost my son on oct 11,2009 he was 32 years old i know how you feel, my heart feeles like it ,s riped from my body,he was my only son,i have two daughters whitch i thank god for,i just pray he is with jesus, seems as if all im able to do is cry for him,i miss him so,he would call me every day if it was just say hi,just checking to see what you an dad are doing,so i know what you are feeling, i have ask god to help me bear this, i want to meet him in heaven some day when my time comes, James mom, Carol

Comment by PAM BRYAN on November 13, 2009 at 8:41am

TAMI THIS IS PAM JUSTINS MOM, I NEVER GET ANY RESPONCE ON THE THINGS I WRITE, I WISH I WOULD THING ARE HARD OTHER DAYS HARDER I NEED HELP SOME WERE. I'M SO LOST EVEN I KNOW WERE HE IS IN HEAVEN BUT MY HEART IS BROKE. I HAVE TWO OTHER CHILDREN AND 6 GRANDCHILDREN I LOVE HIM SO THAT MY BABY IS NOT WITH US. THERS ALWAY THAT EMPTY CHAIR WHEN WE GO OUT PLEASE PRAY FOR ME I NEED SO BAD AS I;M SURE YOU DO, HE WAS 31 STILL MY BABY AND ALWAYS WILL BE, MY SON HAS GONE TO HEAVEN I HAVE THE MEMORIES THAT WILL ALWAYS BE THERE,THE PAIN MY HEART HURTS I LOVED HIM SO AS HE DID ME,HE ALWAYS SAID HE WAS MY FAVORITE SON HE WAS THE ONE THERE FOR ME AND ME FOR HIM,BUT GODS GIVING HIM LOVE JUSTNS MOM PAM BRYAN

Comment by Tami on November 13, 2009 at 1:57am

To everyone, for some reason I am not getting updates on the comments you leave, I am trying to figure out why! So if you havent heard from me, thats why. Love to you all!

Comment by Tami on November 13, 2009 at 1:56am

Hi Brenda, I am so sorry to hear about your loss! Please know that we are all here for you! Do you have a memorial site up for your Daughter Bronda? Please feel free to write all of your feelings here, we can help you get through them, or just listen, My Son Joey passed in a motorcycle accident on June 22 09, It will be 5 months, I dont know what to do about Christmas this year, he was my Baby, 18 year old Mamas Baby... I feel your pain.
{{{{HUGS}}}} and hope to hear more from you.
Tami

Comment by Brenda on November 12, 2009 at 12:50pm

I figured it out couldn't see it threw the tears today...

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