Dad does not have a pastor. He finally got on Hospice and I did call them yesterday. They suggested my sisters and I write his wife a letter and explain how we feel. This will do no good. In fact after I left a voicemail w/hospice, she called me and said "I gave my permission for Hospice to talk to you, Nancy and Juanita about your dad. OK, Bye" and hung up. It was as if she had to make sure and let us know it was her that said it was OK and we should be thankful to her. It sickens me to know that she had to give HER permission for me to talk to anyone about MY dad. I can never get any of these days back and I'm afraid that when I look back on his final months/days in the future, she will be the first I think of and these feelings I have will always be there. When I was on the phone w/Hospice telling the lady of the situation with Dad's wife and some of the things we were dealing with, it almost sounded unbelievable to me! Unless someone has seen or heard these, it almost sounds like something out of a movie!!! I have total resentment for her and I'm afraid the passing of my days and the days that follow will be very emotional and trying for us all.
My prayers are with ya'll for this is so wrong what that woman is doing to ya'll. Natalie