I know it's awful to say this but my mom died suddenly and quite unexpectedly at 67 and my dad has been living with Alzheimer's for years. I so wish the deaths were reversed. I want my dad to have died so he wouldn't be going through this but most of all, I just want my mom back. I feel completely robbed! We were best friends and each other's support systems. Don't get me wrong, I love my dad but he's not even the same person.